Chuckle Brother

I have been a silly boy - made an idiotic assumption that the current g/f was on the pill, so feel free to hammer me for that.

The issue is though that she has never used the pill and is apparently allergic to it. She has recently moved to the area and I dont know much of her past.

Now, the crux - we have been together for 3 weeks. She is now telling me she is pregnant. I have no idea on how the biology works, but is it her possible for her to be carrying my baby already? Would ovulation work (or not work) that quickly?

Tried NHS direct but could referred to useless sites - just want to know whether I am being set up a bit here - please excuse my suspicious mind...

Serves me reet anyway.

scoob_babe

You could be being set up....but its also very possible she is pregnant - a woman can get pregnant at any time (or did you miss that biology lesson)

Chuckle Brother

Scoob babe - must have missed it all to be so daft!

I am not disputing the fact that she could be - all the signs point to it, - just wondered if nature could do its business in the time we have been together!

scoob_babe

it only takes the one time to get pregnant!

milo

suggest you get checked out for std's

Brendan Hughes

And you've had 3 weeks of unprotected sex?

Pregnancy would be the last of my worries...

scoob_babe

and go buy ClearBlue and get her to do some target practice - that way you'll know for sure (well more certain than symptoms, she could be panicking and fooling herself into thinking she's pregnant) !

Kellicious

It's very possible I'm afraid. I discovered I was pregnant at 3 weeks (That's when the symptoms started to kick in anyway). I'm now 6 weeks.

All the best.

fitzscoob

dont you have to wait a certain amount of time before you can be sure if you are / not pregnant?

3 weeks seems a little early, even if you have been dipping your quill in her ink, will it show this early?

suggest you seek professional help, get the tests done make sure its yours, she could have been pregnant before you got together by someone else and now you could be left holding the nappy.

ofcourse this could all be tosh...

scoob_babe

As far as I know, Fitz, the chemicals in your body change immediately hence the reaction on the tests - it detects the presence of them!

fitzscoob

Ahh i stand corrected never been pregnant myself

even so, depends on how things are between the two of you, if you love her and she loves you then great, if however things are not that great, then definately make sure the baby is yours...

scoob_babe

have had a scare before now! tis not good!!!!

fatscoobyfella

So..i know im being ignorant here but bare with me..If you and a girl got it together on a Saturday night,how quick could you tell if she was pregnant then?
Day,days a week??

This is scary..!!

Kellicious

It depends, on how quickly the sperm reaches the egg! I imagine every woman is different. Like I said, I didn't realise I was pregnant until about 3 weeks exactly. I went off food, and was incredibly tired. I went home that evening and did a test, and it came back positive. I'm only just starting to crave food again now, but I'm not 100%!!

milo

ever hear of contraceptives?

PIXIEDUST

I'm confused you got to miss a cycle to know your pregnant so does this mean she's 7 weeks pregnant .sorry i'm a bit naive I was 3months before i clicked on ,and i'm a nurse I put it down to stress because we were getting married.

Kellicious

You have to catch it at the right time. I was due for my next period at about 2 weeks after I conceived. That's another way that I knew. So by the time I found out, I was a week late. When I had my scan this time last week, I was 5 weeks exactly.

Hope that makes sense!

RichiW

3 weeks and she's telling you she is definitly pregnant?! Has she already done a test then?

Manda_po

I can confirm you can tell at 3 weeks as that's when I knew really, although I don't think I did the test straight away, but I did know. I also agree with Kell, ovulation takes place between around day nine and day fourteen of the cycle, so you would know at about three weeks, due to the absence of the period.

yoza

Has she asked you for money for a pram and cot yet?

If she has, she is likely to be taking the p1ss.

Watch Eastenders you will learn loads from Den and Zoe.

type-r-stan

she has been watching too many soaps.... i seriously doubt that she is preggers by YOU..p1ss on a stick is the answer followed by a stewards enquiry in about 9 months time !!!

Kellicious

She would only need money for a termination if she was going private though. And by the sounds of things, it's no quicker than getting it done on the NHS.

scoob_babe

Damn, yoza beat beat me to the Eastenders bit - he must be a secret fan after all

BOB.T

...get her to p1ss on the stick

Bubba po

Has anyone said "you dozy fukkn ba$tid" yet?

jowl

Did you do it standing up? If you did, she can't get pregenant.








on a more serious note, get some tests done. Home one then one at the Docs.

and next time, if in doubt, bag it

Nimbus

Hold on a mo.. If she knew she wasn't on the pill, but knew (I assume) that you weren't taking procutions either, wtf was she doing letting you have unprotected sex for?? Unless she was completely nieve about where babies come from, she must have known there was a risk even if you (in your ignorace) didn't.

Sounds like she's either
a) not pregent and want you to belive she is for some reason
b) is pregnent by you and wanted to get pregnent
c) was already pregent when you met

Sorry about the spelling. Got to rush to watch "child of our time"... where'e the irony..

Manda_po

she was probably thinking, well if he's not taking precautions I don't see why I should.

lubo

Kelli baby wtf!!!