View Poll Results: Are you getting extras????
Yes. Actively engaged in an affair.
15
8.62%
Yes. In the last 6 months.
12
6.90%
Yes. In the last 12 months or more.
18
10.34%
No. Never.
129
74.14%
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Affairs...who's got a bit on the side?
22 July 2004, 02:08 PM
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Affairs...who's got a bit on the side?
Having a chat over lunch and out of 5 blokes, 4 are getting their leg over away from home.
Is this just a freak occurrence or are extra-marital affairs commonplace?
Is this a reflection of society and the values we now attach to relationships?
Discuss....
T.G.
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Is this just a freak occurrence or are extra-marital affairs commonplace?
Is this a reflection of society and the values we now attach to relationships?
Discuss....
T.G.
Be patient....the poll will appear shortly!!
22 July 2004, 02:12 PM
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Wouldn't and couldn't - don't know how anyone can look there partner in the eye when having an affair. Why do it? If you want to $hag around then be single, if you want one man/woman then be in a relationship - simple eh....? 
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22 July 2004, 02:20 PM
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Girlfriends may have overlapped in the past, but I have never cheated on someone when in a serious relationship - never will.
22 July 2004, 02:36 PM
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Have you seen the google ads????? How do you get a 110% guarantee??
My faith in human nature is being restored. Anybody up for a spot of blackmail?!!
We obviously employ people with the morals of alleycats.
As an aside, 1 of the blokes told me he has his wife's permission to do it as she's just not interested in the sexual side of things but they have a good life together, kids etc and didn't want to break it all up.
T.G.
My faith in human nature is being restored. Anybody up for a spot of blackmail?!!
We obviously employ people with the morals of alleycats.
As an aside, 1 of the blokes told me he has his wife's permission to do it as she's just not interested in the sexual side of things but they have a good life together, kids etc and didn't want to break it all up.
T.G.
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22 July 2004, 02:38 PM
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I want to know where stand on this one, A girl I know is engaged but has feelings for me. I too share the same feelings. Would you say I was having an affair (although i'm single) if I were to take things further with her?
22 July 2004, 02:59 PM
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Originally Posted by scoobyvirgin
I want to know where stand on this one, A girl I know is engaged but has feelings for me. I too share the same feelings. Would you say I was having an affair (although i'm single) if I were to take things further with her?
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22 July 2004, 03:06 PM
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I want to know where stand on this one, A girl I know is engaged but has feelings for me. I too share the same feelings. Would you say I was having an affair (although i'm single) if I were to take things further with her?
Quite similar to a little incident I had late last year. Got quite friendly with a girl who was getting married and we actually kissed on her wedding day in front of my GF. Nothing else happened although the want was there, needless to say it wasn't the perfect situation and I haven't seen her for months.
Mind you neither has my girlfriend as it was her best mate - what a barsteward
22 July 2004, 04:16 PM
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Originally Posted by scoobyvirgin
I want to know where stand on this one, A girl I know is engaged but has feelings for me. I too share the same feelings. Would you say I was having an affair (although i'm single) if I were to take things further with her?
Depends on what you think is more important, getting your leg over or friendship. Cos believe me, being friends after being lovers is a lot harder than being good friends and thinking rationally of who she would rather be with.
Just my 2p worth
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22 July 2004, 04:25 PM
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when I married mrs. Peanuts I stood in front of all our friends and family and promised to be a good boy for life.
wouldnt be much of a man to go back on that promise would I!
wouldnt be much of a man to go back on that promise would I!
22 July 2004, 04:28 PM
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Originally Posted by Jerome
Even if I wanted to, I couldn't, because I'm the worlds worst liar. Even complete strangers can tell if I'm lying.
LIAR!!
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22 July 2004, 04:38 PM
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My 3 year affair ended approx a month ago....Wasnt happy with the G/F for ages, kid made me stay
Now single(hence end of 3 year affair)!
Currently 2 on the go, has been more, but got to much in the way of £ text messaging them all, sent some messages meant for others and got busted that way!
No regrets, done some unforgettable things in unforgettable places, memories will keep me going in my old age!
My old boss is still in having his affair, 11 years and counting.......Respec'
Now single(hence end of 3 year affair)!
Currently 2 on the go, has been more, but got to much in the way of £ text messaging them all, sent some messages meant for others and got busted that way!
No regrets, done some unforgettable things in unforgettable places, memories will keep me going in my old age!
My old boss is still in having his affair, 11 years and counting.......Respec'
22 July 2004, 04:41 PM
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I'm knocking off a placement bird from our place, she's proper nice, 21 and the biggest puppies I've ever got my grubby paws on mmmmmm mmmmm
My gf doesn't know --- don't feel guilty for some weird reason though
My gf doesn't know --- don't feel guilty for some weird reason though
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I didnt, she was a divvy, fell in love with her bod and legs, 10 months later, daughter on the way.
Tried to make a go of it for a couple of years, but 2 different people, thats when the affairs started
My brother is exactly the same......
I only stayed as long as I did cos of kid and somewhere to keep my bike being honest...!
I LOVE my bike......
Im 36 now, in the last 5 months tried the age groups from 18 to 43, (thinking about it, I had an affair on my affair??!!)
Having the time of my life to be honest
CooperS, nice one m8....
Tried to make a go of it for a couple of years, but 2 different people, thats when the affairs started
My brother is exactly the same......
I only stayed as long as I did cos of kid and somewhere to keep my bike being honest...!
I LOVE my bike......
Im 36 now, in the last 5 months tried the age groups from 18 to 43, (thinking about it, I had an affair on my affair??!!)
Having the time of my life to be honest
CooperS, nice one m8....
22 July 2004, 05:32 PM
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I was one of the 'no never' votes. I love my Mrs, simple. I'm not interested in a bit of slap and tickle with anyone else for a bit of fun or anything else. I'm with the Mrs because I want to be. Can't understand people who cheat on their other halves.
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My viewpoint is that if you have to cheat, then there is something wrong with the relationship you are in, otherwise why would you be seeking your jollies elsewhere? even when I've gone through a rough patch with a partner I've never strayed. If something is not working then you need to at least talk about it and see if it can be fixed, if it can, and you want to fix it, then do so, if not, then time to say goodbye.