DRUNKNORGY

Sorry Luke, I disagree, He needs to know that he's messing with the wrong guy, It may give you satisfaction to know that he's had a pasting , but he probably gets one every saturday night outside the local nightclub. The lesson needs to be learnt (chapter and verse )

PS. He also needs to know that you can handle him without outside help but 'your mates are bigger than his mates' if he's got any funny ideas. Chances are he and his mates see you as a soft touch and he won't want them to know that he's had a pasting by a 'pansy'

[Edited by DRUNKNORGY - 9/2/2003 9:16:11 AM]

turbonutter

Im 22 and i've been having problems with a guy that I used to go to school with. This has been going on for a couple of years now or maybe a bit longer.
This is due to the fact that his sister fancies me and he doesn't like it.

So far he has put a concrete slab through the window of a car at a showroom I used to work at. (I identified him to police from cctv, and he got fined)

He has also Kicked in both mirrors of my car and dented the body work. (I got £100 compensation for this)

He also regulary shouts abuse at me when he see's me driving and has also tried to chase me down my own road. (Only happens when he's with mates) suprise suprise!

Tonight topped it off though.
I went out for a quiet drink and I noticed him with one of his mates outside my local pub. He didn't say anything when I walked in but the next time he went to the bar (taking mate as back up) he walked past and said 'alright tosser' to which I just told him to 'f*ck off'.

I've never bothered saying anything to him before as I know he's not even worth it. Tonight ended up with a confrontation and I ended up telling him quietly what I thought of him and that I couldn't really give a f*ck what he thought or what he wants to do.

His mate then chips in asking if I remember who he is to which I said yes. (He lives off the reputation of his brothers who used to be known for stealing cars) (Oh and thinks that makes him hard!)
Once i'd put straight he buggered off.

What got me was this guys cheek to say something in the first place, I know alcohol always makes him think he's the man but he's clearly just a nobody.
His last piece was saying 'what goes around comes around'
Now do I take that as I go put a slab through his car window or does he thinks he gonna get me in trouble?

I've always thought this guy was not the full penny!

What can I do to make him realise I don't give two hoots about him and let me get on without constant abuse and confrontations?

I've already considered giving him a serious kicking!

Any help, views, oppinions and sending the lads round will be welcome!

Last of all I'm sure he fancies me too!

WRX Wannabe

Defo hook up with his Sister then as this will DEFO PI$$ him off

Do you fancy her then?

If not i dont see what his problem is

Sounds like a ****

James.

She is defo not my type! What make it even worse is she's got a boyfriend now.

I can't see why he can't get over it.

Sad life some people have.

j_p_h

Youve done really well so far i couldnt hold back as you have done. Id say give the scum a kicking BUT hell most likely go crying to the police which will do you no favours.

Dont really no what else to say.

I feel for you m8.

P.S give his siter one he may top himsen if he feels that strongly

MrsP1Fanatic

It sounds like he has nothing better to do than follow you around and try to make your life difficult!

Try a nice bit of revenge if you want! I find it always helps. You don't have to play him at his own game but fond some way of peeing him off without getting arrested etc.

Mmmmmmmm next time he chases you down the street, turn on him and chase him back! Got to be worth a try.

fatherpierre

A good kicking is the order of the day.

He can only push it so far before this happens.

Just make sure that it's out of sight of cctv, etc. and that you've got at least one other person that'll say you were somewhere else at the time of the 'act'.

Better still, get someone else to do it and be elsewhere at the time

j_p_h

Thats the thing mrs p1 fanatic if he did turn and chase him he'd most likey run if he was on his own.

You didnt bully him at school by any chance lol and the angers built up after so long he's out to get you

LG John

Nut him one. Simple.

turbonutter

Wow didn't think many people would be on!

As for bullying him at school, no can't say I did, not the type.

LB

I am a little confused here? Are Turbonutter and James. the same person????

j_p_h

Being a bit sartasctic m8 as a joke thats why the smily was there.

fatherpierre

Or better still, **** his sister, make sure he knows about and then kick fukc out of him

turbonutter

Sorry, my bro's username for the
'not my type' answer!



[Edited by turbonutter - 9/2/2003 12:54:22 AM]

DRUNKNORGY

There is only one solution for this. Follow him out of CCTV range when he's on his own, then confront him and ask him why he's doing this 'in a rational manner', Then without warning ' Kick **** out of him' and tell him that next time 'you'll send the lads around to break his legs'. He's only doing it to massage his ego - He's doing it because he thinks you won't retaliate. Put up real resistance and he will bottle, Guaranteed!.

Luke

leave it for some time...let it cool down a bit then get a non local couple of lads to have a run in with him....

No mention of you..no come back.