How many of your workmates are having affairs?
23 July 2003, 04:33 PM
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23 July 2003, 04:46 PM
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I know one of our IT blokes is having an affair. Not only is he knocking off the bird that did my job, on the sly. He is also porking one of the birds from accounts that has a boyfriend. The wife has no idea.
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23 July 2003, 05:21 PM
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There was a guy who I used to work with who was having an affair with a secretary that worked at the same place. She was 17 years older than him! I believe he left his wife for her.
By the way, how do you know these people are having affairs? Are they really that public about it? Are they all having affairs within the office, or are they just random 'other people'?
By the way, how do you know these people are having affairs? Are they really that public about it? Are they all having affairs within the office, or are they just random 'other people'?
23 July 2003, 06:24 PM
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Hello.
Sorry to hijack this thread but I need some help with a little dilema. I swear this is 100% legit. I have been living happily with my girlfiend for a few years now and have never cheated on her, or my previous ones for that matter.
Me and my work mates have just been away on a little weekend trip where we met up with a group of 18yr old girls. We just had a laugh with them really & found out that several of them are bisexual which made for great conversation
Anyway, at the end of the trip, one of the girls gave me her phone number and said in not so many words that she would REALLY like to get to know me better.
She is 18yrs old, bisexual, size 8, brunette with pigtails and fit as ****.
I am 35yrs old
Now, nothing like this EVER happens to me. I see this as a once in a lifetime opportunity. I obviously fancy the **** off of her. What do I do
One voice in my head says 'Don't do it. Think of the guilt'.
The other voice is saying 'Are you ******* crazy? Don't pass up a chance like this. You will regret not doing it'
All my mates who saw her have no moral dilemas and would do her in a second.
What do ya reckon?
Sorry to hijack this thread but I need some help with a little dilema. I swear this is 100% legit. I have been living happily with my girlfiend for a few years now and have never cheated on her, or my previous ones for that matter.
Me and my work mates have just been away on a little weekend trip where we met up with a group of 18yr old girls. We just had a laugh with them really & found out that several of them are bisexual which made for great conversation
Anyway, at the end of the trip, one of the girls gave me her phone number and said in not so many words that she would REALLY like to get to know me better.
She is 18yrs old, bisexual, size 8, brunette with pigtails and fit as ****.
I am 35yrs old
Now, nothing like this EVER happens to me. I see this as a once in a lifetime opportunity. I obviously fancy the **** off of her. What do I do
One voice in my head says 'Don't do it. Think of the guilt'.
The other voice is saying 'Are you ******* crazy? Don't pass up a chance like this. You will regret not doing it'
All my mates who saw her have no moral dilemas and would do her in a second.
What do ya reckon?
23 July 2003, 06:47 PM
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In my opinion you shouldn't be with your girlfriend if you're even thinking about it. I cheated on a girl I used to go out with once, and at the end of the day the relationship came to an end because we weren't suited. However, since then, I have been out with people that I wouldn't dream of cheating on - the thought wouldn't have even entered my head because they meant so much to me.
23 July 2003, 06:51 PM
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Does the fact that she's bi have any bearing on it? Sorry to point out the obvious, but unless she brings along a (female) friend, it'll be a strictly hetero event.
Regardless, it's your conscience that matters. She's interested, you're CLEARLY interested .... but what do you do when you want more and she says "no, that's your lot". Or vice versa, obviously.
Final thing - if you think you can handle the guilt and decide to go for it, what are the chances of being found out, and what are the consequences? GF walks out - worth it for a quickie?
Does the fact that she's bi have any bearing on it? Sorry to point out the obvious, but unless she brings along a (female) friend, it'll be a strictly hetero event.
Regardless, it's your conscience that matters. She's interested, you're CLEARLY interested .... but what do you do when you want more and she says "no, that's your lot". Or vice versa, obviously.
Final thing - if you think you can handle the guilt and decide to go for it, what are the chances of being found out, and what are the consequences? GF walks out - worth it for a quickie?
23 July 2003, 07:44 PM
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You mught split up with your girlfriend soon anyway or you might find that she has been ******** somebody else for years.
As a wise man once said never turn down the chance for a **** 'cos one day you will be alone and bitter with your wife/girlfriend having left you for an ugly looser with a beard and the restraing order won't let you close enough to cut her face.
As a wise man once said never turn down the chance for a **** 'cos one day you will be alone and bitter with your wife/girlfriend having left you for an ugly looser with a beard and the restraing order won't let you close enough to cut her face.
23 July 2003, 08:57 PM
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Does the fact that she's bi have any bearing on it? Sorry to point out the obvious, but unless she brings along a (female) friend, it'll be a strictly hetero event.
) bed than the straight girls. I think it's just down to them being more open minded. And that was just for "strictly hetero events"!John.
23 July 2003, 09:12 PM
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Goin back to the original bit of this thread do the workmates have to be having an affair with each other ?
Started talkin about this at work after reading this earlier and we reached the conclusion we have a boring place of work, no affairs none so we've decided to start off a few rumors about us and see how far they go. Yes are place is very dull
Started talkin about this at work after reading this earlier and we reached the conclusion we have a boring place of work, no affairs none so we've decided to start off a few rumors about us and see how far they go. Yes are place is very dull
23 July 2003, 10:01 PM
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I pulled a 23yr old the other day & spent the night with her & she too is well fit (size 10 for reference!) & just come out of a long-term lesbian relationship. I have to say that I felt no guilt but then that's me/my situation but it does do things to the old (38 in my case) libido. In "theory" I shouldn't be having carnal knowledge of anyone under the age of 40
& thats scary
I'd say its different strokes for different folks & you need to follow your own instincts dependant on your own position/situation. We have a (girl) friend who just fancied someone else, nothing ever more than a kiss/cuddle, who then tells her husband, through guilt, just days before they went off for 6 months travelling around the world. Needless to say, it didn't last but she came back & new man didn't want to know. So, as I said, you've got to weigh up the pros/cons & come to your own decisions. I would but then thats me
I pulled a 23yr old the other day & spent the night with her & she too is well fit (size 10 for reference!) & just come out of a long-term lesbian relationship. I have to say that I felt no guilt but then that's me/my situation but it does do things to the old (38 in my case) libido. In "theory" I shouldn't be having carnal knowledge of anyone under the age of 40
& thats scary I'd say its different strokes for different folks & you need to follow your own instincts dependant on your own position/situation. We have a (girl) friend who just fancied someone else, nothing ever more than a kiss/cuddle, who then tells her husband, through guilt, just days before they went off for 6 months travelling around the world. Needless to say, it didn't last but she came back & new man didn't want to know. So, as I said, you've got to weigh up the pros/cons & come to your own decisions. I would but then thats me
23 July 2003, 10:30 PM
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J4CKO,
leave it out, my missus dont know the difference between a mouse and an iron...
...might explain why my shirt is all creased!! Hmmmm!
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I hope your missus doesnt do Scoobynet on the sneak like mine does !
...might explain why my shirt is all creased!! Hmmmm!
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23 July 2003, 10:39 PM
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I was "the other bloke" once
I'd never do it again, no way not never, it's just not worth the hassle
It's crap, you pull a stunner (which happens extremely rarely for me!) but you can't tell anyone about her or been seen out together for fear of being found out
For the record, she's since split with her bf and fooked off to Spain with someone else!
Oh and I couldn't tolerate someone cheating on me now, no way!
I'd never do it again, no way not never, it's just not worth the hassle
It's crap, you pull a stunner (which happens extremely rarely for me!) but you can't tell anyone about her or been seen out together for fear of being found outFor the record, she's since split with her bf and fooked off to Spain with someone else!
Oh and I couldn't tolerate someone cheating on me now, no way!
