DanTheMan

Guys, we had a boys night out last night in Birmingham and ended up in Legs11 which is a lap dancing joint.
Had a great laugh, loads of beers and plenty of dances between the boys, but I told my girlfriend (cos I'm honest) and she's gone ape.
ERM nothing happend, I didnt sleep with anyone, and its ok for her to have a male stripper at a hen night but not for the guys to have girl strippers....
WHY ???????????????

wrxstiman

Men are from mars, women are from venus!

Freak

F E M A L E

kind of explains the reason.....lol

scoobynutta555

bin her, i had a g/f like that, it gets worse not better

Brun

If my bird did that, i would simply tell her to get fcuked. If she don't like it, then she can lump it.
Does she own you?

Freak

Its not the fact shes gone ape at you going to a lap dancing club thats bad....its the fact that shes being a total hypocrite.....One rule for them another for you kinda thing....

class_A

last time i went to a lap dancing club with the lads, i told the gf first and when i got back she asked what it was like and did i enjoy it :-)

AnDy_PaNdY

She is selfish mate, tell her to lump it or bog off.

rr_ww

{Dear Deidre mode]

What its down to is your GFs lack of self confidence, shes worried that you'll now start to find fault with her. That the happy life shes now got will evaporate because you'll start to notice her cellulite/fat ****/bad breath (no offence) that the bad points on her will completly occupy your mind and ignore her good points.

Lap dancers are fantasy figures, tall, large ****, why did you need to go to them when you have your own fantasy mrs at home, shell be thinking. "Where am I going wrong and why?"

So take her out somewhere, make her the centre of your world, shower her with love and affection, gifts, romatic nights out and boost her self esteem and body image.

[/Dear Deidre mode]

LOL

Why do these "agony aunts" always say that the answer is to buy her stuff.

Up to you if you think shes worth saving mate. If you were the jealous sort (dont know that youre not) you would be the same when she mentions she went to a place with male strippers.

IMO
Richard

johnfelstead

When i lived in the USA one of my best mates was a Lap Dancer. Those girls make a mint.

I think she is being rather silly.

skoobidude

Great place, legs 11. When I went I thought it was going to be dead seedy like The Sunset Cinema Club! (yes, I've been there too and it stinks).
Legs 11 is very well managed. The security keep a close eye on things and you can tell if anyone stepped out of line they would be kicked out. Tell your girlfriend to chill and watch some **** with you!

babber

When I was with my wife of 13 year (we since split up) I went to a lapdancing club in Atlanta. Told her the next day and she was fine with it. First time I ever went, but it comes down to if she trusts you or not. The place we went too, you could get optional extras. We didn't bother though As you say she seen a stripper!!! Tell her to grow up. If she does dump her life is far to short, what will it be next with her ??

Cheers Phill C

RoShamBo

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you bad bad boy DanTheMan........

DanTheMan

Cheers for the replies guys, Ro
Shes calming down a bit now, I think shes a bit unsure what to think about the whole thing. I'm telling her its the same as her seeing a male stripper and shes saying its different for blokes ANYWAY it was an ace night, definately reccomend legs11 http://www.legseleven.net and worth the aggro

johnfelstead

babber, thats where i lived. LOL

Did you go to the Gold Club per chance?

m18use

rr you have a valid point

astraboy

just tell her you were spannered and you can barely remember the name of the club, let alone what happened in there.
astraboy.

darlodge

Tell her you went too see a male stripper the same as her, and then wait for the look on her face

Darren

Trout...

Go to Spearmint Rhino - its a bit more upmarket and so you get better girls for yer hard time

I told her indoors that I went to Legs 11 last time I was in Brum - she just laughed!

Trout

Makalu

Just come back from Las Vegas...

You try explaining the $1200 credit card statement!!!

Mak.

Gordo

Just tell her she gets the benefit when you get home

DrEvil

Funny how it is always different when they (girlies) go and watch male strippers, whereas if we watch female strippers its a crime against all females!

red_dog104

I've seen male and female strippers and I think they are gross. I'm no prude but I just don't know what you get out of it?! I would be offended if my other half went to see women taking their clothes off for money. He respects what what I think and wouldn't do it anyway so I don't have to worry

babber

John,

I did go to the gold club the first time I went over there (small world) but sadly it has now shut. The Authorities has enough of it, and eventually manage to close it. The other place we went to was Cheetahs, that place is still open now, and most of the girls from the gold club now work there, or so I'm told

Cheers Phill C

Jodster

Red-Dog, you'd be offended if your man went to a strip club with his friends? Aren't you the girl who was on here recently going on about how good you were at flirting?

red_dog104

Flirting and watching members of the opposite sex take their clothes off for entertainment are a bit different don't you think?!

carl

Not really. Going to a lapdancing club is a business arrangement (you a pay a fee, you get to see some nekkid ladeez, there's nothing further).

Flirting has the potential to be a lot more serious, IMHO (e.g. after you have done your flirting, is the associated man clear that the arrangement is now over?)

tinvek

generally i find that after you've seen one or two strip shows it's more fun to watch the audience, the faces are hilarious when they're pdrunk and think no ones watching them

babber

I agree with watching the people in the room rather than the girls. The first time I went to a strip club was when I was 30.... We were being entertained by a vendor. I was quite shocked and couldn't really believe what I was seeing. Nothing too rude in the main room, but they did have rooms out the back. No way would I have gone into one of them When I told my ex misses, she didn't really mind after all she'd seen a few strippers before. I explained that I didn't and wouldn't pay for a dance, and she was fine about it.

Cheers Phill C

JackClark

Bottom right of this picture is the roof of "Goose Bumps" in Atlanta from January this year. The car park was full day and night!! Personally I'll only go if accompanied by a lady, much more fun.