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Old 11 October 2002, 01:07 PM
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....if a person has cheated on a partner [bird or blokie] before, do you think they are likely to do it again to a new pertner? leapard...spots etc?
Old 11 October 2002, 01:14 PM
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Yes they will...we are either as human beings,loyal or cheats.


I am loyal beleive it or not...
Old 11 October 2002, 01:16 PM
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If they've done it before then they'll do it again. Doing it once just proves that they don't see it as being morally wrong.
Old 11 October 2002, 01:16 PM
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of course you are....

Old 11 October 2002, 01:17 PM
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It depends, were they unfaithful because they were too chicken to end the relationship they were in or was it just a fling for the sake of a quick ****?

If it's the second one, they will keep doing it, if it's the first, it's less likely, but could still happen.
Old 11 October 2002, 01:19 PM
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thats crap. ive cheated on people before....not in a malicious way tho..if that makes sense. i only did it when i realised i didnt want to be with someone. cheating on them made me realise i didnt want to be with them and so i then ended it.

however...i would NEVER cheat on my current beau.
so saying once a cheater always a cheater is a load of bull.
it all depends on how much you like/love the person youre with.



rant over
Old 11 October 2002, 01:20 PM
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Nic.....I AM BEING SERIOUS.....its all talk on here...a laugh...my girlie knows all about what i do...i am a flirt.


But saying that if i was better lookin and i could actually pull...then i would be a cheat...lol......joke----JOKE
Old 11 October 2002, 01:24 PM
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Flirty is very good for you, exceptionally healthy. Helps you realise what you've got.

In my opinion I think it depends who your with, I've never cheated but came close to it & thats when I realised there was something wrong with the relationship and ended it
Old 11 October 2002, 01:24 PM
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however...i would NEVER cheat on my current beau.
Yeah, right. Like you'd say anything else on a public forum!
Old 11 October 2002, 01:26 PM
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Sexy,not nice thing to do..

I was cheated on years ago...never trusted a female again.


Do not go with someone you know has cheated in the past..fullstop...if they can stoop so low..what else might they be capable of???..think about that!
Old 11 October 2002, 01:28 PM
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i know ima. and i feel VERY bad about it. but cant change the past.
first love cheated on me blatantly with all my "friends". screwed me up BIG time. i blame him...hehehe. and before people start giving me a hard time...if you what he did to me...youd agree.


and Mark O..i would NEVER cheat on him. hes my lobster

Old 11 October 2002, 01:29 PM
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but they other way to look at is everyone makes mistakes. My mate will forgive a one night stand...twice..but if her bloke ever had an affair she'd kill him........'cos there is more emotion & thought involved
Old 11 October 2002, 01:29 PM
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Depends on the person really. My ex-girlfriend cheated on me a year ago and has spent the last year trying to get me back. I know for 100% sure she would not do it again - lesson learnt in all that. BUT, I don't want to have to live with what she did and I don't like the way things have changed over the last year so won't be getting back with her. Its not always about whether you can trust the person after its more about whether you can love them after...you need both love and trust for a healthy relationship remember
Old 11 October 2002, 01:33 PM
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JERRY, JERRY, JERRY, JERRY!!! LOL
Old 11 October 2002, 01:34 PM
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i dont agree with staying with someone after youve cheated on them. if you cheated on them in the first place then there is something missing from the relationship and you obviously arent meant to be together.

if youre meant to be with someone....you will trust them 100% and they will you. Cheating will never be an option because neither of you will want to.
Old 11 October 2002, 01:34 PM
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So sexy..you did it cause you had it happen to you!!!!

Sexy..knowing what you have said....i wouldnt go out with you(hyperthetically!)..but i would one night stand you..if i wernt in a relationship....LOL.


A dog will always be a dog...and a bitch will always be a bitch.
Old 11 October 2002, 01:40 PM
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A dog will always be a dog...and a bitch will always be a bitch.
LOL. What a load of absurdly pious nonsense!!!
Old 11 October 2002, 01:41 PM
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entitled to your own opinion ima.

I know i wont cheat again.
Old 11 October 2002, 01:43 PM
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No offense meant Sexy!...We all different
Old 11 October 2002, 01:43 PM
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none taken ima. but you cant judge people unless you know the full story.
Old 11 October 2002, 01:44 PM
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We all different
Amusing. If we're all different, how can you be so certain that somebody who's cheated will definitely do it again?

Talk sense, man!
Old 11 October 2002, 01:49 PM
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We all different as individuals!....



No circumstances require you to retailiate is such a way..imo.

When my Cossie beats a Subaru,i dont expect the driver to beat me..
Old 11 October 2002, 01:51 PM
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everyone makes mistakes ima.
the only difference is that some people learn from them...other people dont.
you have to separate the two.
Old 11 October 2002, 01:54 PM
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But you are capable of cheating..its like me killing once and learning from my mistake!...Never.
Old 11 October 2002, 01:56 PM
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But you are capable of cheating..its like me killing once and learning from my mistake!...Never.
More pious rubbish. You're perfectly capable of cheating, just like every other human on the planet. You just haven't had the motive or opportunity yet.
Old 11 October 2002, 01:56 PM
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People have comitted murder because of cheating...and some have taken there own life because of it..
Old 11 October 2002, 01:59 PM
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Like the cheaters themselves.
Old 11 October 2002, 02:00 PM
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i had no idea you were so narrow minded ima.
Old 11 October 2002, 02:01 PM
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ima,

sounds like you are waiting for someone to cheat on you so you can justify killing them afterwards!!!

Gary
Old 11 October 2002, 02:01 PM
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MarkO.....we all have the potential yes..but depends how strong we are.


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