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Old 12 September 2002, 12:16 PM
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Just found out that one of my 'friends' has supposedly slept with a girl I really liked that he knew about behind my back..

mad isnt the word, if fooking livid.. sitting here shaking...its a good job im stuck at work because I am going to fooking hit someone..

Right alcohol...

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Old 12 September 2002, 12:22 PM
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Old 12 September 2002, 12:25 PM
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I take it the girl wasn't actually going out with you? In which case, if they're both free agents, what's the problem? Sounds a bit bitter if you ask me.

Tell you what, you could always get your revenge by posting it all over the BBS - name & shame him by publicising his address, eh?
Old 12 September 2002, 12:25 PM
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one of my old and very good friends since school, (I'm 37) started a relationship with the girl I'd been practically living with for two years..

both as bad as each other.. total *****!
Old 12 September 2002, 12:27 PM
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Hmmm, what you need is Astraboys revenge therapy . . . .

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Old 12 September 2002, 12:42 PM
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David, you haven't met my wife have you? I should have warned you off...

Say ***** to it, laugh it off... Not much you can do really, unless you want to lose a friend over it.
Old 12 September 2002, 12:43 PM
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Say ***** to it, laugh it off... Not much you can do really, unless you want to lose a friend over it.
Good advice. Oh, and next time, just get in there a bit quicker and make sure you **** her first.
Old 12 September 2002, 12:48 PM
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Sloppy seconds??
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If she was a cr4p sh4gg then he's saved you time.
Old 12 September 2002, 01:46 PM
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Saves fu&'#ing up a good 'un I suppose.

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Old 12 September 2002, 01:46 PM
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Can you make sure you hit someone BEFORE I nip around tonight?

Any sign of a welder yet? That might cheer you up
Old 12 September 2002, 03:01 PM
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You don't have much luck David, do you?
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Just got a phonecall - he's going to see someone. This does not sound good...

Hope he's not arrested for tomorrow . Might see you in the afternoon... With a downpipe and spanners in me hand
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Nick,

Are you going down the de-cat route then?

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Old 12 September 2002, 04:06 PM
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Not completely, keeping the centre cat
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You've started now. I'll give it a month before the centre's gone as well
Old 12 September 2002, 04:59 PM
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maybe if you'd spend less time on the net you'd have a better chance of pulling the lay-dees, like you're (ex)pal.
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MarkO...

Sounds to me like your a bit bitter... maybe 'you' should understand the facts before releasing your 'oh so high and mighty opinion'... do me a favour and **** off... why dont you just read the post and have a laugh... without replying... say ha it serves you right, but it doesnt really does it as you wouldnt really wish it on anyone... well maybe you would actually...

do you agree with anyone.... or are you just stuck so far up your own **** that you dont care...

dont assume anything... and if anybody thinks I find this remotely funny then I suggest a visit to leeds...

Well I thought I might get some constructive advice but no... Oh well violence it is... Oh and steve... been in the pub since I left you...

Pissed off aint the word...

Fortunatley I have some 'real' friends on here who rung me (chiark - Nick) and convinced me not to do anything silly.. (yet!)

Eitherway saying I dont really feel like doing anything at the moment is an understatement...

I spent two years of my life 'with' this person, and well... **** it I dont even want to type about it...

David

Old 13 September 2002, 12:48 AM
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and if i said i was upset and thought people saying well maybe you should get in there and **** her first... well I paid for her and her little sister to go on holiday.. and my mate decided to come with us.. and then well anyway... Ill post the pics of what I do... and I will bet a minimum of 5 years.

David
Old 13 September 2002, 01:26 AM
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Corner anyone?
Old 13 September 2002, 01:35 AM
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Fruit or crunch corner?
Old 13 September 2002, 01:39 AM
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Old 13 September 2002, 02:36 AM
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Sorry for you, David. Never got any better advice than this:

It's a fcukin' ****, mate !

So true...
And I mean loose-two-stones-in-4-weeks-kinda-hurt-feelings...

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Old 13 September 2002, 02:40 AM
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And on the little matter of doing anything: I guess you'd do just about anything for someone you love. But: -Attention, clever question- Would you do/bear the same for someone you hate?

Join a boxing club for a session, relives you beyond believ!


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Old 13 September 2002, 03:05 AM
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cant, fractured 5th metacarpel... used to do contact sports.. been banned for the moment..

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David,

your original post made it sound like you 'liked' this girl as in met her occassionally on a Friday night and fancied your chances.. NOT that you had a 2yr sort of relationship going and wanted to take it further... hence I guess some of the more 'blokey' off the cuff remarks...

On a positive note, you seem to be a well liked member of this community and I always (mostly) enjoy reading your posts. So take it easy and don't do anything you'll regret later.
Old 13 September 2002, 09:47 AM
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David - This sucks!

As has been said to me on a few occaisions 'It takes two to tango'

They are both out of order!

Chin up and all that and remember, Revenge is a dish best served cold.

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Old 13 September 2002, 09:52 AM
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Does a welder work on flesh?

Sorry for calling early mate, just noticed you posted after 3AM, so calling before 9 probably wasn't best
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David,

Your m8, is obviously no kind of friend.

The girl either didn't know your feelings or did and doesn't care.

Drop them both m8.

I had something very similar happen to me a few years ago, i told her to f*** off and my m8 had a 'talking to'. They soon got the message.

Their affair came to an end a few weeks later and they tried to get back in contact with me (seperately of course), you can guess what i said, and i haven't heard from them since.


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David,

I know exactly what you are going through.
I walked in on my supposed best friend in bed with my girlfriend.
Didn't know what to do, being a naive muppet I walked out, thinking I hadn't been seen, praying it was a once off (things you do for love) Unfortunately I walked in a week or so later to the same thing and lost my rag. You do get over it, I found sleeping with her boss and getting her the sack was a great way of doing it! Not spoken to him since though.


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