The passenger side relay is old and half busted.
The fog lights work and the dim lights but when you turn on main beam it will turn off a dim light and main lights stay off.

Plus, im new to subarus, could someone point out what lights these are and where i can get a new relay switch. cheers

 

It looks like a standard on/off four-pole relay.
Can be had from most carshops, Halfords, and online.
It just unplugs fromm the black connector and the new one plugs in.