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Old 17 September 2012, 10:20 PM
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Originally Posted by Jamo
Just wanted to share a photo of Connor that I have been sent today.



He is wearing a one off OMP racing suit made for him in Italy and flown out by them for Connor!

I'm sure Connors family would want to thank Danilo from OMP America for this

I'm slightly jealous.
im his dad and haven,t even seen that picture as i have deliberately been kept away from him for a whole week by his mums side of the family. not even a text message reply from him they really are pure evil thats all i can say on the matter.

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Old 17 September 2012, 10:46 PM
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Scott do you remember Connors Christmas x box sarga , old for new, that's one to remember, also remember what a great day he had when we took him to silverstone, and Connors day was started by you, no one can ever take that away from you,
Keep looking at the longer picture, they are only trying to wihind you up , people will see through what they are doing
You are doing ok , mum and me are proud of you

Love. Dad
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Old 17 September 2012, 10:48 PM
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Night all

Another new day in the morning
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Old 17 September 2012, 10:57 PM
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I'm sorry to hear that Scott, the picture was sent to me from Danilo, whom I have been talking to for the last few weeks.

I know for a fact it was only taken today as they tried to deliver the suit Friday but only got it to him today.

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Old 18 September 2012, 12:05 AM
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Originally Posted by grumpypants
Scott do you remember Connors Christmas x box sarga , old for new, that's one to remember, also remember what a great day he had when we took him to silverstone, and Connors day was started by you, no one can ever take that away from you
As your dad said, dont let the family get to you over this - you are the better man in all of this as anyone can see how much you love Connor and how much youve put yourself out for him
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Old 18 September 2012, 12:17 AM
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+1 Scott don't worry and don't get wound up, you know what you have done and how much you've been there.....no one else.
What you hold with you and Connor , remember that and forget about the blips.

Not even gonna bother saying the rest that's on my mind..
But Scott I'll bell you when back from Antigua next week to catch up and if there anything you need, I'm there.
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Old 18 September 2012, 01:48 AM
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Agree with what your dad and the others have said keep your head high and be proud of what you have done for connor mate.

You know what i think of whole situation.

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Old 18 September 2012, 10:10 AM
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Thank you fellas can't believe she is doing this not just to me but to Connor and my other
Son Nathan. She is now taking time away from me that i can never get back with him:-( i feel physically sick.
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Old 18 September 2012, 11:26 AM
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Originally Posted by zippy!
Thank you fellas can't believe she is doing this not just to me but to Connor and my other
Son Nathan. She is now taking time away from me that i can never get back with him:-( i feel physically sick.
Hi Scott don't get down mate ,you've done more than a lot of blokes would do simply by sticking around when times take a turn for the worse , lots of blokes run and turn there back when faced with such upset
That alone is somthing to be proud of
Then there's what you have been doing over the last few weeks + your dad and family
You have achieved and done great things to make Connor happy which some people never achieve in a lifetime so Please do not let anyone take that away from you or get you down ,tell you otherwise
You know it ,connor knows it , we know it
Myself and busta were talking about family issues before we knew anything about your issues and we both agree
What goes around comes around
Chin up buddy , we will all support you both now and in the future
You're a good un

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Old 18 September 2012, 01:10 PM
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As people have said Scott, no one can take away your time and memories with Connor as the same goes for him with you. Youve done that lad proud.
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Old 18 September 2012, 04:03 PM
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Connor may be with his Mum at the moment Scott but his memories of being with his Dad at such an epic event will be more evident fella !




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Old 18 September 2012, 04:06 PM
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You poor sod Scott... not sure what else we can do here to help on this front... Karma is a wonderfull thing.

My best regardsm hope things look up...

p.s. great pics there SkullFudge
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Old 18 September 2012, 04:47 PM
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Originally Posted by Emmaroids
As people have said Scott, no one can take away your time and memories with Connor as the same goes for him with you. Youve done that lad proud.
Perfectly Put
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Old 18 September 2012, 07:27 PM
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Originally Posted by SkullFudge




Brilliant
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Old 18 September 2012, 09:04 PM
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Originally Posted by ukjesters
Any idea what the current collection figure was/is?
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I should imagine a very tidy sum to Charity but it was all about connors Day

Tony

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I've been asked quite a few time, how many cars and how much was raised so It would be good to let them know
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Old 18 September 2012, 09:57 PM
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Originally Posted by SkullFudge
Connor may be with his Mum at the moment Scott but his memories of being with his Dad at such an epic event will be more evident fella !











Wow fooking awesome editing there fantastic skullfudge. I know where there going lol.
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Old 18 September 2012, 10:11 PM
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Originally Posted by T5NYW
I should imagine a very tidy sum to Charity but it was all about connors Day

Tony

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I've been asked quite a few time, how many cars and how much was raised so It would be good to let them know
Not sure on money, it was at about £2500 ish? Cars, there had to be 1200 plus I'd say
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Old 18 September 2012, 11:40 PM
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Money raised on the day was £2519 thats not including donations on web and tshirt sales theres also sum money due from another meet that was done in lancashire i believe.

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Old 19 September 2012, 08:57 AM
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I am glad connor had a great day out and well done to all those involved
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Old 19 September 2012, 03:35 PM
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thanks for the support everyone it means a lot, i cant believe this is happening to be honest my head is all over the place needless to say i will be fighting it out in court for my other son when this is all over and will not be holding back with her anymore
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Old 19 September 2012, 04:23 PM
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I really hope they see sense and let you see him very soon Scott.
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Old 19 September 2012, 05:27 PM
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me too thanks mate
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Old 19 September 2012, 06:07 PM
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as other posters have said, i hope they see sense soon
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Old 19 September 2012, 06:53 PM
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I reckon you did more for Connor than anyone could imagine. You took him under your wing and were there for him through thick n thin.
Keep your head up mate and don't let this get you down. We're all thinking of you and Connor at this time.
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Old 19 September 2012, 07:34 PM
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Originally Posted by madman-Adam
I reckon you did more for Connor than anyone could imagine. You took him under your wing and were there for him through thick n thin.
Keep your head up mate and don't let this get you down. We're all thinking of you and Connor at this time.
If only this forum had a like button - i can see it would be work out for posts like this one
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Old 19 September 2012, 07:52 PM
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Originally Posted by Jamo
Not sure on money, it was at about £2500 ish? Cars, there had to be 1200 plus I'd say
I was there and thought about the same

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Money raised on the day was £2519 thats not including donations on web and tshirt sales theres also sum money due from another meet that was done in lancashire i believe.

Thanks Guys

Tony,

Ps Not taking any sides, But I sincerly hope Zippy & Family can resolve their Problems ASAP for Connors sake.
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Old 19 September 2012, 11:27 PM
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Originally Posted by madman-Adam
I reckon you did more for Connor than anyone could imagine. You took him under your wing and were there for him through thick n thin.
Keep your head up mate and don't let this get you down. We're all thinking of you and Connor at this time.
I agree with Adam here. Im sorry to see how things are panning out Scott, and I wanted to add a positive comment. Is sad to see.


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Old 22 September 2012, 09:58 AM
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i attended connors day with my family and had a good day, the smile on connors face painted a thousand words, that was mainly down to you zippy. Although i dont know you and didnt get to meet you and connor on the day but i am truly gutted about what your going through at the moment. You are a ace dad from what ive seen and read, just wish my dad was as good. Hope these family issues get sorted soon for yours and connors sake.

All the best fella
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Old 22 September 2012, 10:13 PM
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Hi guys, I attended the day, but am not a regular poster on here. I heard about the event through someone on the Mini forum.
If this is to become an annual event as has been suggested, would admin please let everyone know via PM in plenty of time so we can spread the word even further and help raise even more money in the future ?
It was tuly an awesome, but humbling day, my thoughts are with Zippy, Connor and his family.
Cheers. Tony
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Old 25 September 2012, 01:34 PM
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Have posted this on http://www.mkivsupra.net.

Very sorry to hear your bad news, as a new father of a 4 week old baby girl I cannot even begin to imagine how you are feeling.

Remember the good times and make every day they best I can be.

Thoughts to you family at this sad time

Si

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