Notices
ScoobyNet General General Subaru Discussion

losing my son please help

Thread Tools
 
Search this Thread
 
Old Sep 17, 2012 | 10:20 PM
  #2311  
zippy!'s Avatar
zippy!
Thread Starter
Scooby Regular
iTrader: (1)
 
Joined: May 2009
Posts: 1,758
Likes: 0
From: nowhere fancy
Default

Originally Posted by Jamo
Just wanted to share a photo of Connor that I have been sent today.



He is wearing a one off OMP racing suit made for him in Italy and flown out by them for Connor!

I'm sure Connors family would want to thank Danilo from OMP America for this

I'm slightly jealous.
im his dad and haven,t even seen that picture as i have deliberately been kept away from him for a whole week by his mums side of the family. not even a text message reply from him they really are pure evil thats all i can say on the matter.

Last edited by zippy!; Sep 17, 2012 at 10:30 PM.
Old Sep 17, 2012 | 10:46 PM
  #2312  
grumpypants's Avatar
grumpypants
Scooby Regular
 
Joined: Jun 2012
Posts: 58
Likes: 0
From: garden shed
Default

Scott do you remember Connors Christmas x box sarga , old for new, that's one to remember, also remember what a great day he had when we took him to silverstone, and Connors day was started by you, no one can ever take that away from you,
Keep looking at the longer picture, they are only trying to wihind you up , people will see through what they are doing
You are doing ok , mum and me are proud of you

Love. Dad
Old Sep 17, 2012 | 10:48 PM
  #2313  
grumpypants's Avatar
grumpypants
Scooby Regular
 
Joined: Jun 2012
Posts: 58
Likes: 0
From: garden shed
Default

Night all

Another new day in the morning
Old Sep 17, 2012 | 10:57 PM
  #2314  
Jamo's Avatar
Jamo
Cooking on Calor
iTrader: (23)
 
Joined: Oct 2001
Posts: 23,346
Likes: 7
From: in a house full of girls!
Default

I'm sorry to hear that Scott, the picture was sent to me from Danilo, whom I have been talking to for the last few weeks.

I know for a fact it was only taken today as they tried to deliver the suit Friday but only got it to him today.

James
Old Sep 18, 2012 | 12:05 AM
  #2315  
samuelellis's Avatar
samuelellis
Scooby Regular
 
Joined: Aug 2012
Posts: 164
Likes: 0
From: yorkshire
Default

Originally Posted by grumpypants
Scott do you remember Connors Christmas x box sarga , old for new, that's one to remember, also remember what a great day he had when we took him to silverstone, and Connors day was started by you, no one can ever take that away from you
As your dad said, dont let the family get to you over this - you are the better man in all of this as anyone can see how much you love Connor and how much youve put yourself out for him
Old Sep 18, 2012 | 12:17 AM
  #2316  
bustaMOVEs's Avatar
bustaMOVEs
Scooby Regular
iTrader: (31)
 
Joined: Jan 2012
Posts: 12,979
Likes: 30
From: The 2dr club
Default

+1 Scott don't worry and don't get wound up, you know what you have done and how much you've been there.....no one else.
What you hold with you and Connor , remember that and forget about the blips.

Not even gonna bother saying the rest that's on my mind..
But Scott I'll bell you when back from Antigua next week to catch up and if there anything you need, I'm there.
Old Sep 18, 2012 | 01:48 AM
  #2317  
ajc1988's Avatar
ajc1988
Scooby Regular
iTrader: (2)
 
Joined: Jul 2008
Posts: 431
Likes: 0
From: huddersfield
Default

Agree with what your dad and the others have said keep your head high and be proud of what you have done for connor mate.

You know what i think of whole situation.

Andy
Old Sep 18, 2012 | 10:10 AM
  #2318  
zippy!'s Avatar
zippy!
Thread Starter
Scooby Regular
iTrader: (1)
 
Joined: May 2009
Posts: 1,758
Likes: 0
From: nowhere fancy
Default

Thank you fellas can't believe she is doing this not just to me but to Connor and my other
Son Nathan. She is now taking time away from me that i can never get back with him:-( i feel physically sick.
Old Sep 18, 2012 | 11:26 AM
  #2319  
toneh's Avatar
toneh
Scooby Regular
iTrader: (1)
 
Joined: May 2011
Posts: 2,263
Likes: 1
From: Nottingham
Default

Originally Posted by zippy!
Thank you fellas can't believe she is doing this not just to me but to Connor and my other
Son Nathan. She is now taking time away from me that i can never get back with him:-( i feel physically sick.
Hi Scott don't get down mate ,you've done more than a lot of blokes would do simply by sticking around when times take a turn for the worse , lots of blokes run and turn there back when faced with such upset
That alone is somthing to be proud of
Then there's what you have been doing over the last few weeks + your dad and family
You have achieved and done great things to make Connor happy which some people never achieve in a lifetime so Please do not let anyone take that away from you or get you down ,tell you otherwise
You know it ,connor knows it , we know it
Myself and busta were talking about family issues before we knew anything about your issues and we both agree
What goes around comes around
Chin up buddy , we will all support you both now and in the future
You're a good un

Tony
Old Sep 18, 2012 | 01:10 PM
  #2320  
Emmaroids's Avatar
Emmaroids
BANNED
iTrader: (2)
 
Joined: Aug 2011
Posts: 1,223
Likes: 0
From: In a sh1tty mans world...
Default

As people have said Scott, no one can take away your time and memories with Connor as the same goes for him with you. Youve done that lad proud.
Old Sep 18, 2012 | 04:03 PM
  #2321  
SkullFudge's Avatar
SkullFudge
Scooby Regular
 
Joined: Dec 2006
Posts: 3,258
Likes: 0
Default

Connor may be with his Mum at the moment Scott but his memories of being with his Dad at such an epic event will be more evident fella !




Name:  ZippyConnor2.jpg
Views: 0
Size:  35.9 KB






Name:  4654.jpg
Views: 0
Size:  200.0 KB
Old Sep 18, 2012 | 04:06 PM
  #2322  
type-rob's Avatar
type-rob
Scooby Regular
 
Joined: Jan 2012
Posts: 788
Likes: 0
From: North West Yorkshire
Default

You poor sod Scott... not sure what else we can do here to help on this front... Karma is a wonderfull thing.

My best regardsm hope things look up...

p.s. great pics there SkullFudge
Old Sep 18, 2012 | 04:47 PM
  #2323  
Steve Whitehorn's Avatar
Steve Whitehorn
Scooby Regular
iTrader: (13)
 
Joined: Jan 2002
Posts: 4,036
Likes: 20
From: Kent
Default

Originally Posted by Emmaroids
As people have said Scott, no one can take away your time and memories with Connor as the same goes for him with you. Youve done that lad proud.
Perfectly Put
+ 1
Old Sep 18, 2012 | 07:27 PM
  #2324  
Jamo's Avatar
Jamo
Cooking on Calor
iTrader: (23)
 
Joined: Oct 2001
Posts: 23,346
Likes: 7
From: in a house full of girls!
Default

Originally Posted by SkullFudge




Brilliant
Old Sep 18, 2012 | 09:04 PM
  #2325  
T5NYW's Avatar
T5NYW
Scooby Regular
25 Year Member
Liked
Loved
Community Favorite
iTrader: (4)
 
Joined: Sep 1999
Posts: 11,479
Likes: 27
From: MY99UK-MY02STi-MY99Type R-MY06 T20-MY11 340R-MY05 TYPE25
Question

Originally Posted by ukjesters
Any idea what the current collection figure was/is?
Regards
Rick
I should imagine a very tidy sum to Charity but it was all about connors Day

Tony

ps
I've been asked quite a few time, how many cars and how much was raised so It would be good to let them know
Old Sep 18, 2012 | 09:57 PM
  #2326  
bustaMOVEs's Avatar
bustaMOVEs
Scooby Regular
iTrader: (31)
 
Joined: Jan 2012
Posts: 12,979
Likes: 30
From: The 2dr club
Default

Originally Posted by SkullFudge
Connor may be with his Mum at the moment Scott but his memories of being with his Dad at such an epic event will be more evident fella !











Wow fooking awesome editing there fantastic skullfudge. I know where there going lol.
Old Sep 18, 2012 | 10:11 PM
  #2327  
Jamo's Avatar
Jamo
Cooking on Calor
iTrader: (23)
 
Joined: Oct 2001
Posts: 23,346
Likes: 7
From: in a house full of girls!
Default

Originally Posted by T5NYW
I should imagine a very tidy sum to Charity but it was all about connors Day

Tony

ps
I've been asked quite a few time, how many cars and how much was raised so It would be good to let them know
Not sure on money, it was at about £2500 ish? Cars, there had to be 1200 plus I'd say
Old Sep 18, 2012 | 11:40 PM
  #2328  
ajc1988's Avatar
ajc1988
Scooby Regular
iTrader: (2)
 
Joined: Jul 2008
Posts: 431
Likes: 0
From: huddersfield
Default

Money raised on the day was £2519 thats not including donations on web and tshirt sales theres also sum money due from another meet that was done in lancashire i believe.

Andy
Old Sep 19, 2012 | 08:57 AM
  #2329  
Jamie's Avatar
Jamie
Super Muppet
 
Joined: Apr 2004
Posts: 33,365
Likes: 0
From: Inside out
Default

I am glad connor had a great day out and well done to all those involved
Old Sep 19, 2012 | 03:35 PM
  #2330  
zippy!'s Avatar
zippy!
Thread Starter
Scooby Regular
iTrader: (1)
 
Joined: May 2009
Posts: 1,758
Likes: 0
From: nowhere fancy
Default

thanks for the support everyone it means a lot, i cant believe this is happening to be honest my head is all over the place needless to say i will be fighting it out in court for my other son when this is all over and will not be holding back with her anymore
Old Sep 19, 2012 | 04:23 PM
  #2331  
Jamo's Avatar
Jamo
Cooking on Calor
iTrader: (23)
 
Joined: Oct 2001
Posts: 23,346
Likes: 7
From: in a house full of girls!
Default

I really hope they see sense and let you see him very soon Scott.
Old Sep 19, 2012 | 05:27 PM
  #2332  
zippy!'s Avatar
zippy!
Thread Starter
Scooby Regular
iTrader: (1)
 
Joined: May 2009
Posts: 1,758
Likes: 0
From: nowhere fancy
Default

me too thanks mate
Old Sep 19, 2012 | 06:07 PM
  #2333  
samuelellis's Avatar
samuelellis
Scooby Regular
 
Joined: Aug 2012
Posts: 164
Likes: 0
From: yorkshire
Default

as other posters have said, i hope they see sense soon
Old Sep 19, 2012 | 06:53 PM
  #2334  
madman-Adam's Avatar
madman-Adam
Scooby Newbie
 
Joined: Sep 2012
Posts: 16
Likes: 0
From: Nottingham
Default

I reckon you did more for Connor than anyone could imagine. You took him under your wing and were there for him through thick n thin.
Keep your head up mate and don't let this get you down. We're all thinking of you and Connor at this time.
Old Sep 19, 2012 | 07:34 PM
  #2335  
samuelellis's Avatar
samuelellis
Scooby Regular
 
Joined: Aug 2012
Posts: 164
Likes: 0
From: yorkshire
Default

Originally Posted by madman-Adam
I reckon you did more for Connor than anyone could imagine. You took him under your wing and were there for him through thick n thin.
Keep your head up mate and don't let this get you down. We're all thinking of you and Connor at this time.
If only this forum had a like button - i can see it would be work out for posts like this one
Old Sep 19, 2012 | 07:52 PM
  #2336  
T5NYW's Avatar
T5NYW
Scooby Regular
25 Year Member
Liked
Loved
Community Favorite
iTrader: (4)
 
Joined: Sep 1999
Posts: 11,479
Likes: 27
From: MY99UK-MY02STi-MY99Type R-MY06 T20-MY11 340R-MY05 TYPE25
Wink

Originally Posted by Jamo
Not sure on money, it was at about £2500 ish? Cars, there had to be 1200 plus I'd say
I was there and thought about the same

Originally Posted by ajc1988
Money raised on the day was £2519 thats not including donations on web and tshirt sales theres also sum money due from another meet that was done in lancashire i believe.

Thanks Guys

Tony,

Ps Not taking any sides, But I sincerly hope Zippy & Family can resolve their Problems ASAP for Connors sake.
Old Sep 19, 2012 | 11:27 PM
  #2337  
GC8's Avatar
GC8
Scooby Regular
 
Joined: Aug 2003
Posts: 17,582
Likes: 0
From: Sheffield; Rome of the North
Default

Originally Posted by madman-Adam
I reckon you did more for Connor than anyone could imagine. You took him under your wing and were there for him through thick n thin.
Keep your head up mate and don't let this get you down. We're all thinking of you and Connor at this time.
I agree with Adam here. Im sorry to see how things are panning out Scott, and I wanted to add a positive comment. Is sad to see.


Simon
Old Sep 22, 2012 | 09:58 AM
  #2338  
johns_120's Avatar
johns_120
Scooby Newbie
 
Joined: Sep 2012
Posts: 8
Likes: 0
From: rochdale
Default

i attended connors day with my family and had a good day, the smile on connors face painted a thousand words, that was mainly down to you zippy. Although i dont know you and didnt get to meet you and connor on the day but i am truly gutted about what your going through at the moment. You are a ace dad from what ive seen and read, just wish my dad was as good. Hope these family issues get sorted soon for yours and connors sake.

All the best fella
Old Sep 22, 2012 | 10:13 PM
  #2339  
Bagpuss 127's Avatar
Bagpuss 127
Scooby Newbie
 
Joined: Aug 2012
Posts: 12
Likes: 0
From: Darfield
Default

Hi guys, I attended the day, but am not a regular poster on here. I heard about the event through someone on the Mini forum.
If this is to become an annual event as has been suggested, would admin please let everyone know via PM in plenty of time so we can spread the word even further and help raise even more money in the future ?
It was tuly an awesome, but humbling day, my thoughts are with Zippy, Connor and his family.
Cheers. Tony
Old Sep 25, 2012 | 01:34 PM
  #2340  
TubbyTwo's Avatar
TubbyTwo
Scooby Newbie
 
Joined: Sep 2012
Posts: 1
Likes: 0
From: Suffolk
Default

Have posted this on http://www.mkivsupra.net.

Very sorry to hear your bad news, as a new father of a 4 week old baby girl I cannot even begin to imagine how you are feeling.

Remember the good times and make every day they best I can be.

Thoughts to you family at this sad time

Si

Supra TT.



All times are GMT +1. The time now is 07:25 PM.