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Old Mar 4, 2008 | 09:53 AM
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Originally Posted by New_scooby_04
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So delicately put!



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Old Mar 4, 2008 | 09:53 AM
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my tuppence worth

I would said yes its too early for several of the aforementioned reasons such as, you need to ask the pearls of wisdom that is scoobynet, if you knew it was right you wouldnt need to ask.
Maybe im jaded as my last relationship was for 3 years, we were looking at buying a house and setting up our futures together, only for her to break it off as she decided shes off to australia (women, go figure ). Its a risk but then again everything in life is, personally i would say hold off for a bit until you know 100% and you dont need to ask on a forum. If she loves you that much im sure she'll understand.
All the best though
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Old Mar 4, 2008 | 10:06 AM
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I was with my ex girlfriend for 7 years. Never got engaged. Then I met my now wife and we were engaged inside 6 months and married 9 months after that. That was 6 years ago and I consider my wife my best friend as well (plus we've done more in 6 years than anyone else I know inside a lifetime together). You do just seem to know when the time is right but my old Grandad told me when I was a tiny youngster never to marry until '30'. I heeded that advice and think it was sound...have some fun in your 20's, with or without your Mrs and then settle down into married life when a bit older as I reckon you'll regret missing out on some of the best years of your life one day.

P.S Pics would deffo help sway any decision though
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Old Mar 4, 2008 | 12:07 PM
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Only you can make that decision-right or wrong!

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Old Mar 4, 2008 | 12:14 PM
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Live with her first.

Yo might think that the sun shines out of someones ****, but until you live with them for a while you don't really know them. Could be that after 6 months you can't stand the sight of her and vice versa.
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Old Mar 4, 2008 | 12:15 PM
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If you have to ask on a car forum full of IT geeks who only tend to see women in 2D then I'd say it's not a good sign
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Old Mar 4, 2008 | 12:15 PM
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Dont scare her off by being to keen!
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Old Mar 4, 2008 | 01:06 PM
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Get youself off to Thailand or Amsterdam for a couple of weeks an nail as much poontang as you can get your hands on. If after 2 weeks you had a crap time, then you're ready to give it all up and get married.

ETA: find out how many kids she wants as that's how many times you'll get your leg over one she's got you up the isle
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Old Mar 4, 2008 | 01:35 PM
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What food puts women off sex...














Wedding Cake.

Best of luck, have fun.
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Old Mar 4, 2008 | 01:39 PM
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Originally Posted by PeteBrant
Live with her first.

Yo might think that the sun shines out of someones ****, but until you live with them for a while you don't really know them. Could be that after 6 months you can't stand the sight of her and vice versa.
Good advice. But don't buy a house together unless you are 100%. You can walk out of a relationship relatively easily, and with little stigma these days, but walking out of a jointly owned house would be a nightmare.

Richard.

PS Engaged after six weeks, married in eight months, 25th anniversary coming up
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Old Mar 4, 2008 | 01:42 PM
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Originally Posted by STi wanna Subaru
If you have to ask on a car forum full of IT geeks who only tend to see women in 2D then I'd say it's not a good sign
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Old Mar 6, 2008 | 08:33 PM
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Originally Posted by stilover
Pillow talk. How do you think your wife afforded those new shoes.
just lately she has lots of new shoes
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Old Mar 6, 2008 | 08:44 PM
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Originally Posted by fitzscoob
What food puts women off sex...














Wedding Cake.

Best of luck, have fun.
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Old Mar 6, 2008 | 08:45 PM
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Originally Posted by STi wanna Subaru
If you have to ask on a car forum full of IT geeks who only tend to see women in 2D then I'd say it's not a good sign
What's a woman?

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Old Mar 6, 2008 | 08:54 PM
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Originally Posted by vallumlj
she is perfect in everyone
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Old Mar 6, 2008 | 10:45 PM
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From a wimmin's point of view...

...I got engaged after two months, married in under a year and am very, very happy (and so is he, he tells me ;-)) But I am older than you and learned a lot of life skills from being single. By all means get engaged, plan a future, but before you tie the knot why not live together first and see how it goes? I don't regret any of the time I spent as a single person, it taught me a lot and gave me skills that I have really needed in life. 24 is very young still. And you say yourself that you think it's maybe too soon....so it is, surely? Are you worried that if you don't get engaged, she'll leave you? After five months? If so, what does that say about the relationship?
Still, you probably shouldn't listen to me 'cos I clearly didn't take my own advice and it was the best thing I ever did!
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Old Mar 7, 2008 | 01:21 AM
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Originally Posted by fitzscoob
What food puts women off sex...














Wedding Cake.

Best of luck, have fun.
Why does every Bride smile when walking down the aisle?




















Cos she knows she has no more blow jobs to give.
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Old Mar 7, 2008 | 07:54 AM
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Originally Posted by jods
Why does every Bride smile when walking down the aisle?



Cos she knows she has no more blow jobs to give.


Scientists have found that many women develop DYSONS disease after a few years of marriage....



They make a continuous whining noise and dont suck anymore.
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Old Mar 7, 2008 | 08:06 AM
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Live with her 1st....

She may never wash your clobber,leave stuff everywhere,never clean the gaff,ask you to wait hand and foot on her..

The sex may dry up and she may leave you brown fish presents in the pan every morning..

Any one of the above could get on your ****,but if she does them all,your love could dampen rather quickly..
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Old Mar 7, 2008 | 08:13 AM
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You are still in the honeymoon period - where the fun and novelty in getting to know each othe and holidays etc have insulated you against the realities and trials and tribulations of day to day life.

I would suggest you give it a couple of years move in together and live together before proposing. By taking your time with proposing and getting married not only will you both feel much more sure about it when you do but it will give your relationship a new energy and goal to focus on a few years down the line when it might otherwise go a bit stale. You will also be able to take more time planning the whole thing and will doubtless both get much more out of the experience.


I hope if works out for you.
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Old Mar 9, 2008 | 04:42 PM
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ladies point of view.....
you are def. still in honeymoon period, god wouldn't it be great if it stayed like that & it might.
It's 1 of those do you dont you situations and you will have plenty of them, but trust your gut instinct in hindsight i wish i'd have trusted mine.
You know what you want deep down, just don't rush into anything
Good Luck
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Old Mar 9, 2008 | 04:48 PM
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nail as much poontang as you can get your hands on
quality bit of advice here!!!
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Old Mar 9, 2008 | 04:57 PM
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Ask her if she sees the next step after getting married as having kids, if she does - do you want them too? Great if you do, but if you don't then how will it work? You need to determine if you both want the same things in life looking forward (at roughly the same time!).
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Old Mar 9, 2008 | 05:11 PM
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P.S. Pics really would help, its easier to renew your love and forgive those anoying little foibles if she is a beautiful woman. (Though it has to be said that as you get older pretty much all 24 year old women look beautiful...
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