Anyone else ever had an affair or know someone who has?
Pretty simple really 
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So you would lie to someone and let them think they are your only partner if you only saw them as a **** buddy??
Do you live with a **** buddy and plan a future?? I would hope not!! A **** buddy pretty much always knows they a **** buddy unless they with a bastid or a liar, or fooling themselves.....in which case they need to sort themselves out for a different reason.
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So you would lie to someone and let them think they are your only partner if you only saw them as a **** buddy?? Do you live with a **** buddy and plan a future?? I would hope not!!
A **** buddy pretty much always knows they a **** buddy unless they with a bastid or a liar, or fooling themselves.....in which case they need to sort themselves out for a different reason.
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Do you live with a **** buddy and plan a future?? I would hope not!! A **** buddy pretty much always knows they a **** buddy unless they with a bastid or a liar, or fooling themselves.....in which case they need to sort themselves out for a different reason.
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I don't think its up to you where your relationship goes with your current girlfriend, its unfair to keep what you've done a secret from her, she has a right to know what you've done because she might not want to be with you anymore
!! And I doubt you'll be able to keep this a secret forever, it will eat you up!!
I think its really selfish and unfair what you're doing and I know if I was in your current girlfriends shoe's I'd want to know
!! You can't love her that much because you wouldn't have cheated on her in the first place, I know that because I could never cheat on my boyfriend because I love him to bits and it doesn't matter how attractive someone else is it wouldn't bother me, I'm very happy with my boyfriend so would not be in the sliest bit tempted to do the dirty on him!!
Hope you make the right decision!!
!! And I doubt you'll be able to keep this a secret forever, it will eat you up!! I think its really selfish and unfair what you're doing and I know if I was in your current girlfriends shoe's I'd want to know
!! You can't love her that much because you wouldn't have cheated on her in the first place, I know that because I could never cheat on my boyfriend because I love him to bits and it doesn't matter how attractive someone else is it wouldn't bother me, I'm very happy with my boyfriend so would not be in the sliest bit tempted to do the dirty on him!!Hope you make the right decision!!
i think its alot easier for men to cheat than most women! women have to be unhappy to cheat mostly, where as men just do it for sex! we can just enjoy the sex and still love our gf/wife! as we dont look at i from an emotional point of view! just physical!!!!
i would bet your fella would cheat on you with his fav celebrity!! its just that 99% men are just weak!
Sid, you have enjoyed this other girl, your feelings for her are more for the excitment and not for a relationship, no matter whats going on in your head, if you start seeing her and ditch your gf then you will feel the same in 12months!
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please!!!!!!! telling your gf will only hurt her anyway! what she doesnt know doesnt hurt her!
i think its alot easier for men to cheat than most women! women have to be unhappy to cheat mostly, where as men just do it for sex! we can just enjoy the sex and still love our gf/wife! as we dont look at i from an emotional point of view! just physical!!!!
i would bet your fella would cheat on you with his fav celebrity!! its just that 99% men are just weak!
Sid, you have enjoyed this other girl, your feelings for her are more for the excitment and not for a relationship, no matter whats going on in your head, if you start seeing her and ditch your gf then you will feel the same in 12months!
i think its alot easier for men to cheat than most women! women have to be unhappy to cheat mostly, where as men just do it for sex! we can just enjoy the sex and still love our gf/wife! as we dont look at i from an emotional point of view! just physical!!!!
i would bet your fella would cheat on you with his fav celebrity!! its just that 99% men are just weak!
Sid, you have enjoyed this other girl, your feelings for her are more for the excitment and not for a relationship, no matter whats going on in your head, if you start seeing her and ditch your gf then you will feel the same in 12months!
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From: Casualty or Holby City, Take your pick, it's not like that in real life!!
Telling the other half would just take the burden off you then! If you have cheated, then live with it. Don't put them through needless pain if you really made a genuine mistake.
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I just know that if he knew what i'd done he'd hate me and not won't be with me so why should I make that decision for him, he would deserve to have someone thats going to treat him right and not some dirty ***** thats messing around behind his back, he's better than that! I would tell him for his own benefit, not mine because If i'd done something like that I couldn't really care about him that much anyway!!
I just don't agree with affairs, if you want to $hag around don't be in a relationship, simple realy!!
I just don't agree with affairs, if you want to $hag around don't be in a relationship, simple realy!!
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I just know that if he knew what i'd done he'd hate me and not won't be with me so why should I make that decision for him, he would deserve to have someone thats going to treat him right and not some dirty ***** thats messing around behind his back, he's better than that! I would tell him for his own benefit, not mine because If i'd done something like that I couldn't really care about him that much anyway!!
I just don't agree with affairs, if you want to $hag around don't be in a relationship, simple realy!!
I just don't agree with affairs, if you want to $hag around don't be in a relationship, simple realy!!
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