Fair enough. Don't feel bad for what you did. It could go either way, either it'll pull you closer together or it'll drive you apart - only time will tell. We all do very, very stupid things when drunk and it does sound as though she's genuinely remorseful. Draw a line under it, wipe the tears away and move on. Hope it works out for you.

 

Correct.......and although you may know her better, it's easier for those on the outside who can see that she is taking the p1ss

Have some respect for yourself....

Genuinely hope it works out for you both....but not optimistic

 

Awwww thats a good ending.

Well done. The Dr will be along later to collect his fee.

 

PMSL

Seriously, while you can .....enjoy life to the full..... as nobody stays together forever, so be prepared for it, as it WILL happen one day

And the scoobynet massive will be here to let you know "We feckin told you so...."

 

How can you be so sure? From the way i read it, she was guilt-ridden - hardly the sign of somebody who was knowingly being a bitch. Very very few blokes can hand on heart say they haven't done similar things, even if it's chatting up the barmaid etc - i think the girl deserves a break. If the guy she texted means more to her than she's letting on it will all out in the end, but at the moment this isn't a clear cut dumping situation, far from it.

 

best of luck mate, its your choice.

hope everything works out for you.

by the way, you have your brown wings, now is a good time to push for a threesome with another woman...

 

There is a product available that when sprayed onto the gusset of womens knickers , will readly change colour if semen is present.
It does mean rummaging around in the laundry basket and if caught you could be targeted as a knicker sniffer , but that is a risk that may be worth taking to get to the truth.

 

May I suggest that prior to this point in a relationship you should consider splitting up

 

either that or getting a new hobby.

 

Its called Snake Lines or Stain'e's

 

ultra violet light works doesnt it?

 

You've been watching too much basic instinct

 

Thats rubbish, there are many people that stay together forever you miserable sod!!! My grandparents have been together forever and so's Gav's and I'm sure many other people's parents/grandparents have too!!

 

Spoilsport!!

Good luck to you!

Ns04

 

She has laid the very early foundations for cheating....end of. Now she feels threatened as her little text (if that's all it is) affair is out in the open. Boy brings it out in the open and girl creates emotional and needy mess to tug on boys heartstrings as he has helped her 'emotionally' before and she needs this kind of support. They sure know how to play the simple men

She sounds needy and an emotional mess which from my 'considerable' (nothing I'm proud of) experience of such girls tends to create a huge conflict of their loyalty and their need for love that for some fecked up reason they feel they never got from their parents. Hence they crave that love and attention from elsewhere...

They also tend be the best in bed...................... initially ...

I've only skimmed read this as I can't be arsed as sadly .... I know the outcome already

Accident waiting to happen = FACT

Good old dependable doormat of a boyfriend who is always there as her emotional rock but is the inevitable 'Bloody Mary that is lacking in Tabasco'. She sounds like she needs and thrives on having new attention from elsewhere. This is unlikely to change.

Find another type

 

Hope it all works out anyway matey, we've all been there and it takes a little work but it can work, believe me!! I'm sure you'll both be fine!!

 

Yeah probably.....













but not together

 

That's grandparents and some parents, our generation is different.... we are unable to stay commited, mark my words (oh scary ) it will happen one day.......

 

Still not sure, SiPie. I reckon this has been caught at an early enough stage (assuming the text sex is as far as it's gone) to save it. There's no hiding from the situation now, and she's going to have to face up to what she really wants, preferably sooner rather than later. It'll be obvious if it's been relationship ending within a month or so, i reckon.

 

you can't put us all in the same bag, we're not all like that!!

 

I'm sure you're not, but I've yet to check your phone and spray your gussets while holding an ultra violet lamp

 

Hope you are right TelBoy ... seriously I do.

It's just there are (believe it or not!!!) plenty of lovely balanced (relatively) women out there and through wasting many years of my life on the feckin nutters, you are best to carry on to find one of the saner and lest fecked up variety

 

What if the Semen stains belong to you ??

What would be your plan of attack ?

 

Wise words, it sounds like a cry for attention.... after 3 years they're probably a little too comfortable with eachother, and hence the first bit of flirty attention she gets looks exciting....

 

lol, i can feel your pain, SiPie!! What i'm saying though, is that this girl hasn't done anything that millions of wimmin haven't done before her, but at least it's (appranently) chewed her up inside. Whether that makes her think "hold on, there must be something missing from what i have" or "Jesus, what a stupid cow i've been" remains to be seen.

 

Make sure that she stopped wearing them in future

 

Can you send them to me please. unwashed.

Thanks

 

Men!! you paint a lovely picture of us women!! Because you are all saints yourselves aren't you!?

 

Yes. Let me take you out for a drink & i can show you how much of a Saint i really am

 

Utter scum alot of the time........... but then you have been striving for equality for a long time now