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Old 06 November 2006, 10:02 PM
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Originally Posted by Einstein RA
To bring some parity cheating isn't the preserve of women alone, men are guilty of it on occasion too. Sorry for the diversion.

Indeed. I heard AldiLoser has been cheating on his left sock with his right one.
Old 06 November 2006, 10:03 PM
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Originally Posted by astraboy
Women who cheat are the worst form of scum imaginable.
tell him what you saw, tell her what she said to you to to stop her telling you.
you will laugh with him about it over a pint in a couple of months promise
astraboy.
but he's not


a bit like john smiths
Old 06 November 2006, 10:07 PM
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Thank goodness for some balance on this topic, Einstein

I know a certain few blokes who think that it's part of the deal to have the "no committment" playtime on the side
Old 06 November 2006, 10:08 PM
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Originally Posted by Suresh
Indeed. I heard AldiLoser has been cheating on his left sock with his right one.

And I hear seekesh been cheating on his 1 seater couch with his 3 seater sofa.
Old 06 November 2006, 10:10 PM
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Originally Posted by Jaydee5
Thank goodness for some balance on this topic, Einstein

I know a certain few blokes who think that it's part of the deal to have the "no committment" playtime on the side

It's a common trend amongst those who consider it a string to their bow.
Old 06 November 2006, 10:13 PM
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point taken, but I said women who cheat.
men who cheat may be just as bad, but thankfully I have no experience of this.
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Old 06 November 2006, 10:16 PM
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It's alright for men, it's in our core programming.
Old 06 November 2006, 10:17 PM
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not me, I'm a big believer in do as you would be done by.
I've had it done to me and its ****. **** beyond belief.
No matter what is dangled in front on me, I will never cheat, cos I know how it feels.
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Old 06 November 2006, 10:18 PM
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Many men cheat at one point ino them their life, and its not until it happens that they see how much it hurts.

Im faithful
Old 06 November 2006, 10:53 PM
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I've had it done to me and I've done the dirty too.

I must be a shallow *******.

Sorry, coat collected..

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Old 07 November 2006, 12:46 AM
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If it were me i'd tell him. If he's a close mate then he will thank you for it in the long run, it may not be a pretty thing to talk about, but it sounds like she's dosnt give a **** about him, especially if he's had a ruff time of it recently, do the right thing and tell him, thats whats mates do
Old 07 November 2006, 12:51 AM
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You're an idiot. You didn't get a photo, so no profit to be had here. Get over it.
Old 07 November 2006, 01:05 AM
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tell him
Old 07 November 2006, 01:14 AM
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Look at it this way; if you weren't there you would not have known and therefore would not be in this position. Put another way its her/their business.

You say she looked "guilty as ****". She may have done because she saw you and was embarrassed or you saw an expression that you took to be guilt because that's what you were looking for.

I see snogging at clubs and pubs all the time from both sexes who are in relationships with other people. If you shopped every single one of them there would be no relationships left to speak of!!

I think I would understand your position if you had caught her and this bloke in bed, giving it large, as that would have been absolute proof of guilt; however as things stand I'm not sure why you are getting your y-fronts in a twist.

You say there is a child involved here. You are prepared to "shop" the girl without absolute, incontrovertible proof of guilt and risk creating a situation that could negatively impact on the child? If it was your mate you "caught" in this way would you shop him to his girl? Somehow, without sounding as if I'm judging you, I don't think so.

Think very, very carefully before you make you next move.

WB
Old 07 November 2006, 01:56 AM
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Originally Posted by KIPS
SNAKES WITH ****


Originally Posted by astraboy
men who cheat may be just as bad, but thankfully I have no experience of this.
Faithful men are hard to find, so keep hold of yours
Old 07 November 2006, 02:10 AM
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Originally Posted by AudiLover
well id rather wear out my socks than my couch like you do to yours. Surely it must be smelling funky by now?

Not as funky as the sh#t that comes out of your mouth

If there was an award for Chatting utter ****e you would win hands down


P S you got something against all asians or just suresh?..........if ALL then i stand by the above comments...........if its just you two having a go at each other then fair play.

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Old 07 November 2006, 02:42 AM
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Originally Posted by wacky.banana
Look at it this way; if you weren't there you would not have known and therefore would not be in this position. Put another way its her/their business.

You say she looked "guilty as ****". She may have done because she saw you and was embarrassed or you saw an expression that you took to be guilt because that's what you were looking for.

I see snogging at clubs and pubs all the time from both sexes who are in relationships with other people. If you shopped every single one of them there would be no relationships left to speak of!!

I think I would understand your position if you had caught her and this bloke in bed, giving it large, as that would have been absolute proof of guilt; however as things stand I'm not sure why you are getting your y-fronts in a twist.

You say there is a child involved here. You are prepared to "shop" the girl without absolute, incontrovertible proof of guilt and risk creating a situation that could negatively impact on the child? If it was your mate you "caught" in this way would you shop him to his girl? Somehow, without sounding as if I'm judging you, I don't think so.

Think very, very carefully before you make you next move.

WB
I hear what your saying mate, but ur behind your mates whatever. If their being cheated on tell them, if their doing the cheating then u aint goin to say jack, are u there mate or their girlfriends? I know this is a double standard but like i said u should be behind your close mates all the way
well thats what im like anyway

Also i suppose it depends on how u view a pissed up snog
Personally i'd be saying c ya to the ho!
By the way ive been in a relationship for 4 years and would never cheat on my missus in any way as i know what it feels like first hand, but have mates who do it all the time and i believe in swings and roundabouts if you catch my drift
Old 07 November 2006, 03:19 AM
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get rid of her and tell him sharp ish , better still get the mobile out and make a reality tv video gotcha bitch make sure you have the evidence cos she will definately call you a liar ,who will your mate think is telling the truth ?
tell him asap, good luck .
Old 07 November 2006, 06:00 AM
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show her your one eyed womb ferret, and that you've got somthing you wanna stick in her... if not cash is best... if shes not up for this then your an ugly ******, and of course if you do do the deed post pics/videos UP, and all details of how she performs, falling that ... FORGET ABOUT IT, AND WORRY WHEN IT HAPPENS TO YOU...

btw WHAT CLUB WAS THIS? AND WHAT NIGHT DOES SHE GO...

Or of course it might have been her brother?
Old 07 November 2006, 06:58 AM
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Originally Posted by wacky.banana
Look at it this way; if you weren't there you would not have known and therefore would not be in this position. Put another way its her/their business.

You say she looked "guilty as ****". She may have done because she saw you and was embarrassed or you saw an expression that you took to be guilt because that's what you were looking for.

I see snogging at clubs and pubs all the time from both sexes who are in relationships with other people. If you shopped every single one of them there would be no relationships left to speak of!!

I think I would understand your position if you had caught her and this bloke in bed, giving it large, as that would have been absolute proof of guilt; however as things stand I'm not sure why you are getting your y-fronts in a twist.

You say there is a child involved here. You are prepared to "shop" the girl without absolute, incontrovertible proof of guilt and risk creating a situation that could negatively impact on the child? If it was your mate you "caught" in this way would you shop him to his girl? Somehow, without sounding as if I'm judging you, I don't think so.

Think very, very carefully before you make you next move.

WB

I agree, how many of us will admit to having maybe a cheeky pi$$ed up snog while on a lads/ladys night out? Not many but we all know the truth though.

She may have made a mistake, her knowing you know may have been the kick she needed to now remain 100% faithfull,

Are they a good couple apart from that, he may finish with her through pure pride and anger, so you should think very carefully before making any decision
Old 07 November 2006, 07:36 AM
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show her your one eyed womb ferret
I've just spat my tea over the computer laughing my a$$ off!!!

Thanks jsut what I need to get my morning started!

Dan
Old 07 November 2006, 08:44 AM
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come on, its not like she was blowing the guy in the car park. She was kissing him. leave it alone dude.

or as the second post says, you could always blackmail her
Old 07 November 2006, 08:54 AM
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Show him this thread.

He can see the dilema you're in then.

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Old 07 November 2006, 09:01 AM
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you only work wirth the guy. Leave be. He prob has a good idea she's like this but accepts it.
Old 07 November 2006, 09:34 AM
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Personally, I'd tell him

If he finds out you knew all along at a later date, he'll blame you just as much as her for lying to him
Old 07 November 2006, 09:40 AM
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Easiest way to solve your dilema is if it was the other way round and he knew about your misses would you want to know? And thats exactly how I'd start the conversation off when I told him, cause I would!!!!
Old 07 November 2006, 09:41 AM
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Originally Posted by KIPS
SNAKES WITH ****
As opposed to men, who can turn out to be **** with snakes?
Old 07 November 2006, 09:47 AM
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Thought every woman and bloke who went out clubbing without their partner would be looking to get some action.

Why all the dolling up/wanting to look attractive.

Then there is the booze,lower inhibitions,flirting.

'You stay in and look after the baby while I live it up and don't wait up'.
Old 07 November 2006, 09:53 AM
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In response to the original question...........


Yes, I would..... I mean you've told 10,000 scoobynetters, so what's the problem with not telling your supposed 'best mate'....?

How does that saying go.... "with mates like you who needs enemies".....


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