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Old 23 August 2005, 04:52 PM
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Originally Posted by lucylastic
Thanks very much Milamber - well, once I get round to binning my naive, everyone on here is for real, beliefs - I'm sure I'll be just fine
If you ever want any help just stick with your "real" name - you'll get real help then .

Anyone starting threads with "I'm not a newbie I'm using an alternate name..." is fair game
Old 23 August 2005, 04:55 PM
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Originally Posted by Reality
If you ever want any help just stick with your "real" name - you'll get real help then .

Anyone starting threads with "I'm not a newbie I'm using an alternate name..." is fair game
Thanks for the advice, but something tells me this probably wouldn't be my first port of call when I'm feeling anything less than totally ecstatic with my lot!
Old 23 August 2005, 04:56 PM
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Page 9 coming up soon, lets see some photos of the evil bint.
Old 23 August 2005, 05:15 PM
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well it aint me!!!

as i said been there got the t shirt etc..

never turned to drink or had scuicidal thoughts...

if the guy is true, the only thing that will sort him out is professional help, and until he or she is big enough to accept that, then they can post until the cows come home it wont change anything..

anyway your post is hypocritical to say the least!!!

you miss you wife an love her?? how sanctimonious is that, you had an affair for 12 months... how much love and support does that show your wife..
did you miss her whilst you were procreating with the other??

did you honestly think that this other would take you and your emotional baggage ..

she did all the running.... yawn...

if you were not interested, you should have told your current wife, theres nothing like a bit of competition to stir things up..


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Old 23 August 2005, 05:17 PM
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Mart why did you feel the need to deny it was you?
Has the guilt been weighing you down all day?
Old 23 August 2005, 05:19 PM
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Old 23 August 2005, 05:22 PM
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Old 23 August 2005, 05:48 PM
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Sh*t, guns and roses are looking a bit rough aint they?
Old 23 August 2005, 06:11 PM
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Meanwhile on the knitting-forum.com Mrs Prendergast posts:

"I need advice, I'm so upset. I've been married to my husband for many years and have committed my whole life to him. We've had our ups and downs over the years but then what relationship doesn't? The other evening he annouced out of the blue that he's been having an affair for the last year and is leaving me to be with his lover. I am so distraught It's like someone has ripped my heart out of my chest. He's betrayed me for months and all our plans for the future are in ruins. This was four weeks ago and I have with the support of my friends and family made every effort to get on with my life and deal with this but now he is coming round and begging me to try again. I just don't think I can recover from such betrayal! What do you suggest I do to resolve this situation as quickly and fairly as possible. I just want to get on with my new life where hopefully I can make a fresh start and learn to be happy again."

Thats the person I feel sorry for to be honest! Notwithstanding you've got yourself in the mess as we humans do and I do have a degree of sympathy. I suggest you do as many others have suggested and stop boozing, get working again and take each day as it comes. Now is the time to call on the support of friends and family but I'd make a point of being up front and honest with them that its YOU that f*cked up All the best.
Old 23 August 2005, 06:24 PM
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Originally Posted by Diamond Dave
Mart why did you feel the need to deny it was you?
Has the guilt been weighing you down all day?
psml...

i,m just wating for chos!! to pipe up ala wind up..


hehe

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Old 24 August 2005, 08:49 AM
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Originally Posted by Saxo Boy
Meanwhile on the knitting-forum.com Mrs Prendergast posts:

"I need advice, I'm so upset. I've been married to my husband for many years and have committed my whole life to him. We've had our ups and downs over the years but then what relationship doesn't? The other evening he annouced out of the blue that he's been having an affair for the last year and is leaving me to be with his lover. I am so distraught It's like someone has ripped my heart out of my chest. He's betrayed me for months and all our plans for the future are in ruins. This was four weeks ago and I have with the support of my friends and family made every effort to get on with my life and deal with this but now he is coming round and begging me to try again. I just don't think I can recover from such betrayal! What do you suggest I do to resolve this situation as quickly and fairly as possible. I just want to get on with my new life where hopefully I can make a fresh start and learn to be happy again."

its YOU that f*cked up
Exactly what most of us are thinking. You made a bad choice, what makes you think you can put it right? If it had worked out with the adultress you wouldn't have given your wife a 2nd thought.
Old 24 August 2005, 04:17 PM
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Its the x wife I feel sorry for!! What do you want people to say, you fecked up!! All this crap with suicide get over yourself - think how your feeling and you did it to yourself - what about what youve put your wife through. The part of the marriage vow for better for worse doesnt cover you knobbing someone else!! Everyone goes through **** in their lives but the only thing you can do with life is live it!! its precious, theres people out there battling illness and wanting to live and because you couldnt keep it in your pants you think you have the right to end it all.
In a way I feel sorry for you, it is hard loosing someone close to you but you didn't exactly loose her you pushed her away!!
Old 24 August 2005, 04:29 PM
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Originally Posted by scoobybitch
Its the x wife I feel sorry for!! What do you want people to say, you fecked up!! All this crap with suicide get over yourself - think how your feeling and you did it to yourself - what about what youve put your wife through. The part of the marriage vow for better for worse doesnt cover you knobbing someone else!! Everyone goes through **** in their lives but the only thing you can do with life is live it!! its precious, theres people out there battling illness and wanting to live and because you couldnt keep it in your pants you think you have the right to end it all.
In a way I feel sorry for you, it is hard loosing someone close to you but you didn't exactly loose her you pushed her away!!

Wow, what a bitch

Go scoobybitch!!!

Maybe his wife should have given him the 'BOBBIT' treatment
Old 24 August 2005, 04:42 PM
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Lifes a bitch Big Den. And before anyone says it I think in this case it should be lifes a ******* then you marry one!! People say you don't realise what you've got till its gone, if you value what you have dont do something stupid that could result in you loosing it.
Old 24 August 2005, 04:45 PM
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Originally Posted by scoobybitch
Lifes a bitch Big Den. And before anyone says it I think in this case it should be lifes a ******* then you marry one!! People say you don't realise what you've got till its gone, if you value what you have dont do something stupid that could result in you loosing it.
That's the problem though, most people have to **** up what they had before they even realise this! Humans are stupid.
Old 24 August 2005, 04:51 PM
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Old 24 August 2005, 04:59 PM
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Thats the thing tho, you screw about with somebody else behind your partners back knowing that you may get caught and knowing what the end result could be. Why?
Old 24 August 2005, 05:09 PM
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Originally Posted by scoobybitch
Thats the thing tho, you screw about with somebody else behind your partners back knowing that you may get caught and knowing what the end result could be. Why?
Cave man stuff, sowing the seed and all that malarky.
Old 24 August 2005, 05:25 PM
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Originally Posted by scoobybitch
Thats the thing tho, you screw about with somebody else behind your partners back knowing that you may get caught and knowing what the end result could be. Why?
It's the same reason women end up with 5,735 pair of shoes - Never happy with what you've got .

I wouldn't worry about Tim too much - I doubt he's (or she's) ever had a girlfriend never mind a wife.

Re-read his first post and tell me that's the writing of a man in despair - what's all the "She was a Vixen" "did things no other woman had done" ****e if he's really upset about losing his wife .
Old 24 August 2005, 05:29 PM
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Originally Posted by Reality
It's the same reason women end up with 5,735 pair of shoes.
Oh thank ****, there is a limit then, 137 pairs left to go, should be there by about Feb next year
Old 24 August 2005, 08:02 PM
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Originally Posted by Timothy Prendergast
She did things to me no other woman has even suggested

and what could that be?

made your life a misery?

or better still tied you up and whipped your ****?

i'm not too sure is this genuine or what

as how the hell did you think of this user name,
i am thinking its an anagram, but only got the word "pretend"


normally when someone has a problem, they will post it up, and reply frequently. but you seem to be a gag.

if its genuine then you have enough answers and help already, an its all now up to you!


if its a fake,

then post your pic so i can make another "ebay t shirt"

female one

one that says

"MY HUBBY FUKED A SLAG, AND ALL I GOT WAS THIS LOUSY T SHIRT"
Old 25 August 2005, 05:51 PM
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Originally Posted by wwp8
normally when someone has a problem, they will post it up, and reply frequently. but you seem to be a gag.

if its genuine then you have enough answers and help already, an its all now up to you!
I've not been in much of a position to get onto the internet for the last couple of days.
I received a letter from my wife's solicitor yesterday asking me to make no further contact with her as I am only causing her further upset and distress. It sort of knocked me for 6 and had me seeking solace from the bottle.
I have taken a positive step and removed all alcohol from the house and replaced it with soft drinks. I also went in to see my boss this morning and I'm returning to work a week on Monday. At least with something to occupy my time and mind I should be able to straighten myself out.

Thank you again to everybody who replied with constructive posts.
Old 25 August 2005, 05:57 PM
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drink 7up

every cloud has a silver lineing
Old 25 August 2005, 06:52 PM
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So you bonked a girl behind your wifes back and now have nothing? Excellent

I feel sorry for your ex-wife and hope she finds someone monogamous who loves her 100% in the near future.
I think you're just down coz now you have no-one... Simple answer here get over yourself, get a solicitor to sort out the divorce, move on and remember (as I've been shat on after a 7 year relationship) things will get better and you will have learnt your lesson.
Shabba!
Old 25 August 2005, 07:09 PM
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Originally Posted by Timothy Prendergast
Thank you again to everybody who replied with constructive posts.
But have you learnt anything from the posts you didn't like? Just treat us as your best friends who aren't scared to tell you the truth
Old 25 August 2005, 08:57 PM
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I've only read pages 1,2 ,7 and 9.

Why anyone would seek emotional help on the internet is beyond me.I just dont get it.
Old 25 August 2005, 10:24 PM
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i believe you got what you deserved BUT suicide isnt the answer (trust me i know!!) it is a valuble if painfull life lesson you need to learn from it and move on i doubt youl do it again by the sound of it you really regret it which is a good thing meaning your not that much of a ****** just dont do it to anybody else




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