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Old 05 May 2005, 01:26 PM
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ah ok,

the mum currently has a f/t job with a big organisation - so hopefully there will be a degree of flexibilty regarding working conditions.

I understand what you mean regarding looking after baby on the cheap.
Old 05 May 2005, 01:28 PM
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well.. it aint cheap.. but you know what i mean... it dosnt HAVE to cost a fortune!!!
Old 05 May 2005, 01:31 PM
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Originally Posted by Leslie
I find the most disturbing part is that so many say "if she has the baby".

My personal feelings are that abortion should not be used as a form of birth control for convenience sake.

That unborn baby deserves his chance in life and both parents should shoulder that responsibility having started it.

Les
I would counter that by suggesting that the termnation of an 8 week old foetus is, in my opinion, infinitely preferable to potentially ruining 3 peoples lives (if the child is unwanted)

But thats not the issue here.

She f*cked about, he took her back (at least once) she's pregnant and they've split again.

He should have ended the relationship sooner and /or been more careful.

No sympathy for him here, I'm afraid.
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hindsight is a wonderful thing. . .
Old 05 May 2005, 01:45 PM
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Originally Posted by aonoscoob
hindsight is a wonderful thing. . .
as is "Life"
Old 05 May 2005, 01:50 PM
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Originally Posted by aonoscoob
She's not religious, but her family are catholic. . . hence the "i don't agree with abortion" line.
The Catholic Church also don't approve of contraception or extra-marital sex.
Old 05 May 2005, 01:51 PM
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Originally Posted by aonoscoob
hindsight is a wonderful thing. . .
Hindsight has no relevance here.

Where was the hindsight in sleeping with someone in a relationship that was "dodgy" at best?

You didn't mention what form of contraception was used?

Was he not aware that sex can lead to pregnancy?
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