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Old 13 August 2004, 11:46 AM
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Marriage is meant for heterosexuals to contract to live together, have normal sex and if they have children, to bring them up together in a natural environment. It was like that for years and years! This was a civilised way to maintain the human race, and people were entitled to tax relief etc to help with all that.

If a pair of homosexuals want to live together and have unnatural sex, that is their own affair as far as I am concerned. I don't see however why they should have special arrangements as though they were married as above, or even be permitted to have a "marriage" ceremony. Its a contradiction to the proper meaning of marriage. I don't think it is right that they can adopt children either. Wrong environment for a child.

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Old 13 August 2004, 11:47 AM
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Yeah, but can't you let them be freaks in peace?
Old 13 August 2004, 11:47 AM
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there you go!

born unable to have kids and you are help to be "normal"

born in a situation where you want to create a new you that is a long way from normal and you are a weirdo
Old 13 August 2004, 11:48 AM
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Originally Posted by Henrik
Yeah, but can't you let them be freaks in peace?
Not freaks. Just different and yes, I wish they and this all would live in peace.
Old 13 August 2004, 11:59 AM
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The big mistake is in the word "marriage". Many people feel strongly about that word for various reasons. They shouldn't IMHO but it's quite clear most posters feel differently about that on here.

All jokes aside, one of the main reasons for gays wanting a legally binding contract is: inheritance.

Say they live together, buy a house of their hard earned, pay their share. Why should one be taxed 50 % when the partner dies ?

In Belgium it was called a "cohabitation contract" which made it a bit (but not much) less of a topic.
Old 13 August 2004, 11:59 AM
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Originally Posted by Leslie
If a pair of homosexuals want to live together and have unnatural sex, that is their own affair as far as I am concerned.
Les
Unnatural sex? Anything apart from direct sexual intercourse is unnatural strictly speaking. Should we stop consenting heterosexual adults from performing oral or **** sex then?

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Old 13 August 2004, 12:01 PM
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Originally Posted by Geezer
Unnatural sex? Anything apart from direct sexual intercourse is unnatural strictly speaking. Should we stop consenting heterosexual adults from performing oral or **** sex then?

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I think he means two men or two women together is unnatural. Not the physicalities behind it.

I do my bird up the puupa. Technically not normal but hey, atleast 'I' can accept that.
Old 13 August 2004, 12:01 PM
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You forgot only having heterosexual contacts with the purpose of making a child
Old 13 August 2004, 12:04 PM
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Originally Posted by Diablo
Ultimately, perhaps the plan is for the human race to have a defined lifespan, as part of the evolutionary process (if there is such a thing) of this planet.
That would suggest that evolution is pre-detrmined and pro-active rather than reactive and there is no evidence that I am aware of that supports that hypothesis
Old 13 August 2004, 12:08 PM
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Originally Posted by Henrik
Olly and Diablo, see this quote from SomeDude
Yes I am well aware of the studies, and while the observations are no doubt acurate there remains debate as to the conclusions drawn, i.e. the driving factors. I have no strong feelings as to which camp is correct, both have their merits
Old 13 August 2004, 12:53 PM
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No problem with same sex marriages, as it has been pointed out already like a 'normal' marriage, it's a way to show friends and family that you love someone and you are willing to commit yourself to them.

As for this whole adoption thing! I wastched London Tonight which was highlighting a charity to place children into foster care with homosexual couples. These children had been thrown out of their homes by parents who didn't understand that they were gay. So gay children being placed with same sex couples in England. (Imagine the outrage it would cause the homophopic SN massive!! )

I guess some of you are of the belief that the same sex couples would prey on the child. It has to be said, that it's like saying that hetrosexual couples would prey on children if they adopted!
Old 13 August 2004, 12:56 PM
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Originally Posted by Andy Tang
I guess some of you are of the belief that the same sex couples would prey on the child. It has to be said, that it's like saying that hetrosexual couples would prey on children if they adopted!

why would you belive that???

no one is saying that gay ppl abuse kids? what a daft comment!
Old 13 August 2004, 12:57 PM
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Originally Posted by Andy Tang
No problem with same sex marriages, as it has been pointed out already like a 'normal' marriage, it's a way to show friends and family that you love someone and you are willing to commit yourself to them.

As for this whole adoption thing! I wastched London Tonight which was highlighting a charity to place children into foster care with homosexual couples. These children had been thrown out of their homes by parents who didn't understand that they were gay. So gay children being placed with same sex couples in England. (Imagine the outrage it would cause the homophopic SN massive!! )

I guess some of you are of the belief that the same sex couples would prey on the child. It has to be said, that it's like saying that hetrosexual couples would prey on children if they adopted!
I don't doubt two men/women could be very good parents. That isn't the problem nor is it the issue though.
Old 13 August 2004, 01:00 PM
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Actually, I don't think that's a daft comment at all... If you ask The Man On The Street (where has he gone anyway? ) why he thinks that gay people should not be allowed to adopt, I'm sure most people actually think what Andy said (in addition to other things).
Old 13 August 2004, 01:03 PM
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Could you tell me what exactly the problem *is* then, as without joking I honestly don't know.
Old 13 August 2004, 01:04 PM
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Originally Posted by OllyK
That would suggest that evolution is pre-detrmined and pro-active rather than reactive and there is no evidence that I am aware of that supports that hypothesis

Proactive or reactive, either way it doesn't really matter.

It was just the way I chose to type the post.
Old 13 August 2004, 01:05 PM
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noooooooooooooooooooo!

they do not.

joe bloggs is a bit homophobic and a bit racist (every one looks after their own type)

he is not of the belife that gay ppl abuse kids!

i work with old rich people......they are a great example of old fashion values. my job would be harder if i was gay/black/female/foreign. they do not think gay people abuse kids though! neither do they think every black guy deals drugs or women shouldnt vote or foreigners are evil!
Old 13 August 2004, 01:07 PM
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Originally Posted by SomeDude
Could you tell me what exactly the problem *is* then, as without joking I honestly don't know.

bullying
lack of female role model
more bullying
prob get really cool clothes though!
Old 13 August 2004, 01:07 PM
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Originally Posted by Tiggs
why would you belive that???

no one is saying that gay ppl abuse kids? what a daft comment!
I do honestly believe that people think that! No one has said it, but I'm sure there are a few people here who would think it!

Look at the way homosexual people are stereotyped in the media. The suggestion is there for people to believe that homosexual people are deviants. Deviant = child molester, in a some peoples mind.

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Old 13 August 2004, 01:09 PM
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If it feels good do it!
As long as no-one gets hurt - who gives a f*ck!!!

As far as I can tell the only things affected by behaviour of this sort are the fragile egos of the pompous and self-righteous.

Personally i find the following things offensive:

1. Being ugly
2. Being fat
3. supporting Man Utd
4. loving the lord

but i wouldnt go around abusing these people or trying to deny them their human rights (apart from the Man U fans of course)

What i do is i recognise that these feelings are a product of my own irrational prejudices towards these members of soceity and leave it at that. Even if someone put a form in front of me saying "Sign this and we'll remove all fat people from soceity" I wouldn't because i believe in personal freedoms and I accept the fact that its not their problem its really mine.

(BTW some of my best friends are Man U).
Old 13 August 2004, 01:11 PM
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Originally Posted by Senior_AP
I don't doubt two men/women could be very good parents. That isn't the problem nor is it the issue though.
Fair enough, but aren't two people who care, love and look after a child better, than being ignored, abused, beaten, etc by hetrosexual parents?
Old 13 August 2004, 01:11 PM
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Originally Posted by Tiggs
bullying
lack of female role model
more bullying
prob get really cool clothes though!

Lack of male role model to!!!
Old 13 August 2004, 01:13 PM
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Originally Posted by Andy Tang
Fair enough, but aren't two people who care, love and look after a child better, than being ignored, abused, beaten, etc by hetrosexual parents?

Plenty of caring hetero couples around without subjecting a child to a life of abuse, ridicule and confusion.

It's selfish, cruel and f$cking out of order. Subjecting a child to that is f$cking wrong.

Yes, I am p!ssed off.
Old 13 August 2004, 01:13 PM
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Originally Posted by Senior_AP
Lack of male role model to!!!
So who is a good male role model then? Someone who isn't gay?
Old 13 August 2004, 01:13 PM
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Originally Posted by Tiggs
noooooooooooooooooooo!

they do not.

joe bloggs is a bit homophobic and a bit racist (every one looks after their own type)

he is not of the belife that gay ppl abuse kids!

i work with old rich people......they are a great example of old fashion values. my job would be harder if i was gay/black/female/foreign. they do not think gay people abuse kids though! neither do they think every black guy deals drugs or women shouldnt vote or foreigners are evil!
You obviously work with people who are better than some of the people I have worked with.
Old 13 August 2004, 01:14 PM
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Originally Posted by Henrik
So who is a good male role model then? Someone who isn't gay?
In a nutshell....Yes.

My last post on this soon becoming stupid thread.
Old 13 August 2004, 01:14 PM
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Frenchboy: Good comments!
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Originally Posted by Senior_AP
Plenty of caring hetero couples around without subjecting a child to a life of abuse, ridicule and confusion.

It's selfish, cruel and f$cking out of order. Subjecting a child to that is f$cking wrong.

Yes, I am p!ssed off.
I was just giving a "what if" situation. Yes I agree there are plenty of hetrosexual couples around who would love, care and look after these children.
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Originally Posted by Senior_AP
In a nutshell....Yes.
Ok, and that's where the two of us are fundamentally different on this issue
Old 13 August 2004, 01:18 PM
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Anyway back to the original topic:

Gay marriages are fine in my book, although I'm sure there are people who would suggest I am too PC for saying that!


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