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Old Oct 3, 2015 | 04:58 PM
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Not havin it on just wondered if any others on here had cheated on long term gf's they lived with and why
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Old Oct 3, 2015 | 05:02 PM
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Originally Posted by 4u2nv2
so funny
pmsl, crying here honestly. got to be a joker.

you need help mate
Been told many of times!! But at least I dont have to come on Scoobynet to discuss with a load of strangers about my private life.
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Old Oct 3, 2015 | 05:16 PM
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Originally Posted by play to win
Not havin it on just wondered if any others on here had cheated on long term gf's they lived with and why
Ok, you may get some responses to your query, on NSR. Such topics have been discussed here before, so you're not exactly propping up anything too strange. It's just that for a newb, you must have had pretty sound liver to chuck out something as personal as that, here. Therefore, I can see why you're being taken as a pithtaker.
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Old Oct 3, 2015 | 06:00 PM
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Old Oct 3, 2015 | 06:18 PM
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Old Oct 3, 2015 | 06:20 PM
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Join POF next time , the dirty old milfs don't care if you turn up wearing a wedding ring .
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Old Oct 3, 2015 | 07:11 PM
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I cheated on my girlfriend of 4 years back in 2007 (we split after). I was at home one evening and an ex phoned me up. Said she was in town and had her wallet stolen and needed to get home and I was the first person she called (???). So, I turned up and she got in the car. Soon as she got in the car, she asked if we could go back to mine as she was upset. I kind of knew from then that we were going to end up having some sexy time. Got back home, were in bed within 5 mins of getting in the door.

The strange thing was, not once did I feel guilty or bad for doing it. To be fair, the relationship wasn't going to work. She wanted a house, kids etc, I wanted the complete opposite. I was happy in the Army, going all over the place and having no worries. I'm still the same now, which is why I haven't had a long term relationship since 2007. I have met some absolute brilliant women aswell. I don't mean in respect of 5hagging about, but friendships in general, which I doubt would have happened if I'd been in a relationship.

If you cheat on your missus, I think you should just split and don't even bother trying to make it work.

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Old Oct 3, 2015 | 07:19 PM
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Originally Posted by play to win
That's not my ex. I'm 39. Lost my house too and even though I was unhappy wish I'd worked at it rather than doing that. Parents ashamed of me.
Originally Posted by fatscoobfella1
39 yrs of age...

Cheating on your long term girlfriend.

Hiding your true personality from her.

Hiding masses of debt.

No home.

You need to have a word with yourself,you sound like a bit of a fvck up all brought on by yourself..
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Yes I know
Are you sure you're 39? Your SN profile shows you as 27 with your birthday on 1st Jan 1988.

You're busted, mate. Mark was the one who bothered to visit your profile before I checked it out a minute ago. No wonder he was so sure that you were taking the pith.
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Old Oct 3, 2015 | 07:35 PM
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Here:

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Better luck next time, however the topic wasn't a complete waste. It made 3 pages, so I suppose you can call yourself a winner for that
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Old Oct 3, 2015 | 07:51 PM
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Some classic comments on this thread
In fact you could be the man that saved scoobynet
Are you the son of PsLewis of F1FAN or even tubby by any chance

Do you have a wrx woth roof scoop and graphics

For you
Booze and hookers is the way forward
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Old Oct 3, 2015 | 08:52 PM
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agree booze and hookers best thread for ages as its dead in here cant go wrong ten pounds a ****
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Old Oct 3, 2015 | 08:57 PM
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I haven't put a truthful dob for identification reasons born 1976
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Old Oct 3, 2015 | 09:03 PM
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Originally Posted by play to win
Not taking any pith, I was trying to express some ****. Took a girl out off tinder when my ex was in bed after being discharged from hospital. Got caught out.
Get back on tinder
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Old Oct 3, 2015 | 09:04 PM
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Originally Posted by play to win
Not taking any pith, I was trying to express some ****. Took a girl out off tinder when my ex was in bed after being discharged from hospital. Got caught out.


It gets worse, people can understand beer and in a bar but you may as well kiss your missus goodbye
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Old Oct 3, 2015 | 09:09 PM
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I think you need a new user name, "Play to loose" would do well
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Old Oct 3, 2015 | 09:20 PM
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Originally Posted by play to win
I haven't put a truthful dob for identification reasons born 1976
You really think that people here were born yesterday, don't you?

Firstly, you come on here as a newb, and start to wash your dirty laundry on this forum. It's because you knew what gets people going here. That's because you know this forum.

Secondly, you post the pic of your ex without thinking of her identification reasons, and thus yours via that. Although you deleted that pic soon enough, but don't you think it takes any stranger a minute to save it and work out hers and thus lead to your details? You didn't worry about any identification reasons, then, did you? Hm, now that could be because you have fcck all to do with the girl in the pic you posted. You don't even know her.

Thirdly, your bull$h!t profile gave it away.

Now, eat a humble pie, and admit that you're not any 'play to win', but some 'play to lose' chronic pith taker from here. You posted a sensational topic to get people going.

Any authentic poster won't behave like this. Not at all.
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Old Oct 3, 2015 | 09:23 PM
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Originally Posted by play to win
This all happened. Told her and my rents that I was out for a meal with fellas I played football with. I took the tinder girl to a pub she'd always wanted to go to. Why don't I have a conscience?
Naked pics of tinder girl and ex otherwise I think the mods need to bring out the ban hammer....
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Old Oct 3, 2015 | 09:29 PM
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To be fair, even if he is a troll, it's not a bad thread!
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Old Oct 3, 2015 | 09:33 PM
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Originally Posted by JGlanzaV
Naked pics of tinder girl and ex otherwise I think the mods need to bring out the ban hammer....
He can easily do that! he'll pick random pics from other websites and post them here; just to make you believe that he had known two women in his life. Fact will be that he would have never even met any woman in his life.

He's totally and utterly untrustworthy. Double life? Call it a number of lives with his multiple internet personas counted in it. That's my summing of him.
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Old Oct 3, 2015 | 09:38 PM
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Originally Posted by Peedee
To be fair, even if he is a troll, it's not a bad thread!
As I say in my #68 in my response to Mark...............

Originally Posted by Turbohot
That can't be ruled out, even from the onset. However, [b]his inquiry, no matter how false it may be, is a valid one. People do have affairs and some do not know why. For that reason, I think he's alright to discuss it here, but he won't get anywhere by discussing it here. If he's genuine, he's better off getting himself some genuine help. But if he carries on asking questions about himself here, then that may mean that he's having it on.
It hasn't been a bad thread for the value of the topic, but as it was started by some false being, the value of the responses is null in connection with his query. ****-n'-bull story to get reaction and the insight into others' lives.
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Old Oct 3, 2015 | 09:42 PM
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Never posted any naked tinder pics. I deleted my exes picture.
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Old Oct 3, 2015 | 09:42 PM
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Originally Posted by Peedee
I cheated on my girlfriend of 4 years back in 2007 (we split after). I was at home one evening and an ex phoned me up. Said she was in town and had her wallet stolen and needed to get home and I was the first person she called (???). So, I turned up and she got in the car. Soon as she got in the car, she asked if we could go back to mine as she was upset. I kind of knew from then that we were going to end up having some sexy time. Got back home, were in bed within 5 mins of getting in the door.

The strange thing was, not once did I feel guilty or bad for doing it. To be fair, the relationship wasn't going to work. She wanted a house, kids etc, I wanted the complete opposite. I was happy in the Army, going all over the place and having no worries. I'm still the same now, which is why I haven't had a long term relationship since 2007. I have met some absolute brilliant women aswell. I don't mean in respect of 5hagging about, but friendships in general, which I doubt would have happened if I'd been in a relationship.

If you cheat on your missus, I think you should just split and don't even bother trying to make it work.
This is an honest post.

If you aren't ready to have a monogamous and committed relationship, don't have one, and don't fool the girls with any porkie pies. Tell them that you aren't the committing type.

Good on you.
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Old Oct 3, 2015 | 09:48 PM
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Originally Posted by play to win
Might be worth you pm'ing me TURBO
No, it's quite alright talking here on the board, no worries.

Look, if it's all true, then as well, I have already suggested that face-to-face counselling may help. That's if you identify the need for help. Good luck.
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Old Oct 3, 2015 | 09:49 PM
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It's 100% true. I wanted to vent and see what to do
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Old Oct 3, 2015 | 09:50 PM
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Originally Posted by play to win
It's 100% true. I wanted to vent and see what to do
Ok. Hope it has helped talking about it, here. Once again, good luck.
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Old Oct 3, 2015 | 10:15 PM
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Originally Posted by play to win
Other than posting screen shots of my debts and the receipt for the tinder meal I can promise it's kosher
You have a Mrs and kids , mortgage etc etc..
You don't like that lifestyle ...

You sign up to tinder and bang some bird on it and get caught...


What's the problem? , you wasn't happy with the wife/house/kids.
If anything what you really don't like is the security and routine you have lost not the fact you feel guilty....you have lost the normal routine you was in.
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Old Oct 3, 2015 | 10:18 PM
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No kids.
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Old Oct 3, 2015 | 10:21 PM
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Could be worse,you could have a wrx
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Old Oct 3, 2015 | 10:30 PM
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Lose as in booze not loose as in juice.
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Old Oct 3, 2015 | 10:34 PM
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Originally Posted by fat-thomas
Could be worse,you could have a wrx
Even worse a wagon
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