So you feel bad cause you were caught I pressume you would be ok if she never found out

 

Very good point you raise here. OP's matter aside, as I don't know what exactly is 'what' there, but there are snakes that play like that, and call themselves a reincarnation of Jesus.

Mind you, I don't think Jesus ever had a GF or a wife, for what I know. Like the politicians and the prostitutes, he was probably married to the masses. I'm not disrespecting Jesus (or any other God/God like that is single) here at all with that. He's believed to be the Son of God, and I understand his position and responsibilities.

I'm not saying that this Jesus reincarnation is limited to men. I'm sure some wimmins think they're female Jesus, but remain in denial about being quite anti-Jesus in some areas.

 

Ffs man up and join a whinging ****** forum.

 

I was wrong, clearly.

 

oh my god, get a life mate.

 

To be fair, you do say in your previous post that.......................


You two obviously weren't well-connected. She seemed to have fooled herself by being with you, and you also fooled her and yourself in that relationship. You two are better off without each other. You have committed a violent act, because you've emotionally hurt her. But something good has come out of it i.e. she doesn't have to put up with your dishonesty, and you don't have to put up with being with someone who you ought to keep secrets from.

You don't need to 'feel' bothered, just because others impose their moral high grounds on you. This 'not feeling' is a biggy here. It clearly shows that you were not good for her, so give the situation some credit for splitting you two. She can now find someone who's honest and trustworthy, and you can find someone who you can be open with.

 

Hookers and coke are expensive habits.

You need help.

 

So you lived a double life and bummed 2 wimmins?

 

39 yrs of age...

Cheating on your long term girlfriend.

Hiding your true personality from her.

Hiding masses of debt.

No home.

You need to have a word with yourself,you sound like a bit of a fvck up all brought on by yourself..

 

He didnt mention bumming either of them, doesnt sound like it was worthwhile at all if he didnt even get to bum them....

 

Her

 

Shed do me, Ill go and leave her looking like an over turned ice cream van, it should cheer her up....

And a pic of the one you ran off with?

 

Is that the long termer or the or the one you spanked on the side ?

 

You seem to recognise that there's a chronic issue. With such issue and your history of dealing with it, I think, engaging in face-to-face, real life counselling; as opposed to any on line one, formal or informal, may help you.

She's a very attractive girl! She surely deserves honesty and decency, if she's an honest and a decent one herself.

 

If she wants a hog to choke on whilst she gets over you,give her my number.

 

She wanted me to get counselling. Was going to go to relate for the things I said to her. Would get frustrated and call he names and generally be nasty.

 

Have you got a STi Because im pretty sure thats what you've googled and found this site!!!

 

The award for best scoobynet one liner of 2015 is yours!!!

 

Go for one-to-one counselling for yourself. Become more self-aware yourself before you look at yourself on the interpersonal and interactional level with your partner. Reading what you're posting here seems to indicate the need for one-to-one face-to-face counselling.

 

Lol lol

 

 

It was a comment about men in general, rather than just you

 

I don't post pics of her on the net this first but scoobynet is relatively discreet.we love but she jacked in her job because of stress depression,so I carried us for two years which I didn't mind but if you ever been with anyone suffering depression it ain't easy,but I kept her strong seen her through it.but I felt exhausted at the end we decided to still see each other for going out and bed time fun.i'm cool with it 👍

 

How long I wonder before the OP is exposed as an existing member posting under a false name for a wind-up? ...


... or a researcher for Jeremy Kyle, of course.

 

so funny
pmsl, crying here honestly. got to be a joker.

you need help mate

 

Not a wind up.

 

There's no guarantee that SN is discreet for a place where one only needs an email addy and joins in. It's also forum which is visible to all n' sundry, not just to the joined up members. I think it's a respectable thing to ask your sex buddy/ex love buddy if it's ok to put their pic up anywhere in public domain; real or virtual. It's up to you, though. She's your GF, not mine. I wouldn't do that to any of my exes or current, even if they had shat all over me. If I did it, I'd only be doing it to prove to others that I factually have a **** buddy But that's my value, not yours, so all cool. She indeed is a lovely looking girl.

 

As I say, seek one-to-one face-to-face counselling. Your issue will be better explored by you in a professional face-to-face setting with professional help. That's my take on it, so far.

Anyone here (including me) can start counselling you here on SN with half the knowledge about you. It's not difficult to churn the scripts with moral code and self-proclaimed 'niceness', as it's gratifying to the 'nice' healers of the soul as well. IMO your issues can be authentically explored in a professional setting, mate. Half the people here are taking the p!$$ (perhaps you, too), half are giving you their 'nice' advice as they're just so super compassionate and morally sound themselves. This is a forum full of virtual vankers or random forever faithfuls, so in all honesty, you will leave with hardly anything useful by discussing this issue here. Go and see a counsellor face to face in your local.

Good luck.

 

That can't be ruled out, even from the onset. However, his inquiry, no matter how false it may be, is a valid one. People do have affairs and some do not know why. For that reason, I think he's alright to discuss it here, but he won't get anywhere by discussing it here. If he's genuine, he's better off getting himself some genuine help. But if he carries on asking questions about himself here, then that may mean that he's having it on.

 

Although I'm not a fan of crudity, but sometimes, putting things simply and crudely like this^ sums clearer than millions of decent words