Dead sti3

My sti3 was imported with Tein Suspention & in-car controller,
You can adjust the front & rear dampaning with the in-car controller and the settings go from 0 = (No Bounce at all) to 16 = which is the softest setting but when you bounce on the cars front or rear quaters it will only go down by about 3cm's and when youre on the road, if go over any cracks in the road it throws the **** end all over. I have been told this system is suited to track use? and it costs about £1900. My last scoobie had low profiles and was lowed,it was still a softer ride and you could feel the road more.

I was thinking of putting on smaller alloys with larger tyres at a lower psi to see if this would help?

Can Tein suspention be made softer to stop my hemriods growing and so i cound listen to a CD without it jumping evey 3 seconds. (If not????)
Is their anyone out their who takes their scoobies on track days who would be intrested in buying this or swapping suspention systems as me **** cant take any more!!!!