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mickywrx 26 July 2012 07:42 PM

Neighbour problem - harrasment?
 
Not sure where the boundaries lie on this, anyhow. http://i69.photobucket.com/albums/i7...es/ponder2.gif

A couple of years ago, might not be that long, the old sods next door (or one of their family members) put a complaint into work about me parking the van outside their house of an evening.

Their claim was that I was parking the van in a disabled bay, and if an Ambulance was needed there would be nowhere for the Ambulance to park.

Blatant lie and easily proved, but, it was the whole ball ache at work, as they complained direct to head office. Besides, an Ambulance will just block a road. http://i69.photobucket.com/albums/i7...ies/cuckoo.gif

On return to the depot tonight, I got called in to speak to my shift manager.

Another complaint. http://i69.photobucket.com/albums/i7...s/rolleyes.gif

The complaint this time, is that I refuse to park the van on my driveway, as I will only park my car on my driveway, and apparently I told them to go whistle.

That would be fine, IF, I actually spoke to them. I don't like them so avoid any contact with them. http://i69.photobucket.com/albums/i7...ilies/lol1.gif

Quick pic I took just now;

https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.net...83416144_n.jpg

I think I might struggle to get my car on the drive, that I don't have.

Anyone know where I stand about this? My work van is taxed and insured, fair enough it's not MOT'd.

Blue and Gold 26 July 2012 07:46 PM

You're in the **** if there's no mot on it fella, either way though I'd tell them to go whistle disabled or not providing you don't block their disabled bay there's nothing they can do

I had a similar situation a few years ago with an old neighbor

Midlife...... 26 July 2012 07:50 PM

Do you need to take a taxi to the kerb :)

Not sure what the neighbours could do apart from reading this and report the lack of MOT.

Shaun

mickywrx 26 July 2012 08:00 PM

I get the bus to the kerb, Shaun. Taxi's are quite expensive.

:lol1: It's not old enough to need an MOT. ;)

There's no disabled bay, my van is parked where I always park it.

chocolate_o_brian 26 July 2012 08:33 PM

Scoob looks lovely sat there, Micky :D

Midlife...... 26 July 2012 08:33 PM

Missed the obvioius non-MOT angle LOL

Seriously, you can either ignore it or go through the vexatious complaint route... via plod or through work or solicitor.

I wouldn't bother going to see them as it might get a bit "gobby".

Shaun

jaytc2003 26 July 2012 08:39 PM

can you not park your scoob there instead? that way if anyone tries to rob it they break into next door

CharlySkunkWeed 26 July 2012 08:44 PM

the only problem i see is (apart from being a foot of the kerb miss daisy) is parking at the speed hump. Had this a while ago in a street i had never been down , at night time. I had to drive down the wrong side off the road and the white triangle is on the other side , and i hit it at 30 in my lowered Focus.

bustaMOVEs 26 July 2012 08:51 PM

^^^ lol as above, at post 7
Park your car and van a bit forward just to give a little peace, but they can't do sh1t about it as both vehicles are taxed and you can park were you want, apart from double yellows, disabled,loading bay etc, f them, they are just crying because there is a green isore blocking there view.
Take this pic to your boss and they can then decide who's being awkward.

nik52wrx 26 July 2012 08:59 PM

I can't understand why they are getting the hump looking out of their living room window at somebody else's big green and yellow van :rolleyes:

If it were me I'd have had a word with you rather than the company you work for, no point landing you in the s**t over it.

Aaron1978 26 July 2012 09:10 PM

If you want to go the right way, go to the police and report them for harassment as ultimately they could easily have cost you your job due to being petty. You could however be just as petty and start sending takeaways round, booking appointments for quotes for walk in baths, or as we did to a friend who was living at home with his parents and send lots of info of 'He to She' drugs and procedures:D

Jer 26 July 2012 09:12 PM

Why not move the Scooby back a bit (and a bit closer to the kerb) and park the van on the speed hump in front of your house. I would be a bit peed of if I had a big van stuck out the front of my house blocking the view.

The Dogs B******s 26 July 2012 09:20 PM

That's sh*t parking, did a women do it????:D

nik52wrx 26 July 2012 09:24 PM

Park the van between the scoob and the kerb.

The Dogs B******s 26 July 2012 09:26 PM


Originally Posted by nik52wrx (Post 10725025)
Park the van between the scoob and the kerb.

Only the van? You'd get the house in there too.

RobsyUK 26 July 2012 11:20 PM

In the neighbours defence It bugs the pants out of me when the neighbour parks their car right outside my house. Yes I have a drive but it means visitors have to park down the road and my neighbour has 3 cars.

Sadly there is nothing I can do about it so I live with it.

Pm me you van details and I'll send yur managing director a very polite letter saying how you took a minute to help my elderly mother when she fell over... ;)

Maz 26 July 2012 11:24 PM

Micky neighbourly disputes are best resolved mate. Much as you may not like them and wish to avoid them it will only exacerbate things. Have a polite word with them and see if you can find some middle ground. Life's too short to be fratching with someone next door to you.

RobsyUK 26 July 2012 11:27 PM


Originally Posted by Einstein RA (Post 10725259)
Micky neighbourly disputes are best resolved mate. Much as you may not like them and wish to avoid them it will only exacerbate things. Have a polite word with them and see if you can find some middle ground. Life's too short to be fratching with someone next door to you.

Lob a brick through their window... :thumb:

bustaMOVEs 26 July 2012 11:32 PM


Originally Posted by Einstein RA (Post 10725259)
Micky neighbourly disputes are best resolved mate. Much as you may not like them and wish to avoid them it will only exacerbate things. Have a polite word with them and see if you can find some middle ground. Life's too short to be fratching with someone next door to you.

I can only agree there, nice friendly chat, cuppa tea etc and come to a resolution,as it can go on for years or till you/they move.
Good job I have nice neighbours, in a morning I'm his alarm clock....BBBRRRRR!:lol1:

ScoobyWon't 26 July 2012 11:32 PM

Ask your manager for a copy of the letters, give them to plod as evidence of the harassment. Give it some tears that you fear you'll be sacked etc. Ask that it's recorded, for future reference if you don't want plod to take any action at this stage.

I don't see that your managers could refuse to release the complaints to you, if they have already informed you of them.

Or paint double yellows in front of your car so you can't park there ;)

Neanderthal 26 July 2012 11:38 PM

Park the scoob on the green across the road with a 'for sale' sign on. If your council is anything like ours they won't do a thing about it. Then you can park your work van outside your own house.
Although sadly, having that big van in front of your house will block your view of the scoob on the green.....

steve ex vauxhall 26 July 2012 11:42 PM

Rid yourself of all the hassle totally and leave the van at work?

cookstar 26 July 2012 11:43 PM

I'd be very annoyed as well if I had that van parked outside my house, why not pull the van up close to the speed bump, with the scoob close behind it, it at least looks like your making an effort.

Both vehicles are parked a foot away from the Kerb with huge gaps in-between.

Lisawrx 27 July 2012 12:11 AM


Originally Posted by cookstar (Post 10725290)
I'd be very annoyed as well if I had that van parked outside my house, why not pull the van up close to the speed bump, with the scoob close behind it, it at least looks like your making an effort.

Both vehicles are parked a foot away from the Kerb with huge gaps in-between.

I'll try to explain here. Firstly, the van is only there on an evening and granted a weekend. The problem we have, is that vehicles can only park on one side of the street so you have all the people with vehicles on our side parked up, then several who live across the road as well (even though many of them have driveways/garages) to the rear on their side. Obviously we can't do anything about that, but it means parking is really restricted.

What the picture doesn't show, is just below the speed bump is the other neighbour's car, so unless he was willing/able to park further down, there just isn't the space to fit the van between his car and ours. The only way around this, would be to park the car further up, thus in front of the same house, and he would still complain. As for the gap, well there are two reasons for this, 1) because parking is tight, we often have the next car up parked on the rear of the van, so he has to leave some space to allow him to actually get out and 2) if he was to park closer to the car, he would be blocking the gate, and access to the road should an ambulance arrive (which was the major complaint about the van being parked there-that it wouldn't be able to park right outside).

The fact is, there is just such limited parking on the road, it is unavoidable that something will be parked outside his house as it stands. We are not trying to be awkward here. If it wasn't the van, it would be the car.

hodgy0_2 27 July 2012 12:22 AM

If you are parking legally, I would tell them to fvck off

They are not entitled to a "van free" view unless they buy a better house

f1_fan 27 July 2012 12:26 AM

Well firstly you are perfectly within your rights to tell him to go forth and multiply as you are doing nothing illegal, but that tends to lead to an escalation of hostilities so is not a good iea (it won't surprise anyone on here to know that I have been there LOL ).

So how about you try a compromise. Is it particualrly the van he objects to? If so why not stick it ourside your house and leave the Scoob outside his? Not all the time maybe but at least some of the time. See if that placates him. Just a thought!

Lisawrx 27 July 2012 12:26 AM


Originally Posted by hodgy0_2 (Post 10725334)
If you are parking legally, I would tell them to fvck off

They are not entitled to a "van free" view unless they buy a better house

Buy a better house? Don't make me fcuking laugh! (sorry for the language)

They have lived there for around 20 years, it's council btw. In that time, neither of them have worked a single day. If anything, they should be grateful to us workers for the fact, we have in part paid for them to do the grand sum of **** all for all that time. :thumb:

bustaMOVEs 27 July 2012 12:36 AM


Originally Posted by Lisawrx (Post 10725324)
I'll try to explain here. Firstly, the van is only there on an evening and granted a weekend. The problem we have, is that vehicles can only park on one side of the street so you have all the people with vehicles on our side parked up, then several who live across the road as well (even though many of them have driveways/garages) to the rear on their side. Obviously we can't do anything about that, but it means parking is really restricted.

What the picture doesn't show, is just below the speed bump is the other neighbour's car, so unless he was willing/able to park further down, there just isn't the space to fit the van between his car and ours. The only way around this, would be to park the car further up, thus in front of the same house, and he would still complain. As for the gap, well there are two reasons for this, 1) because parking is tight, we often have the next car up parked on the rear of the van, so he has to leave some space to allow him to actually get out and 2) if he was to park closer to the car, he would be blocking the gate, and access to the road should an ambulance arrive (which was the major complaint about the van being parked there-that it wouldn't be able to park right outside).

The fact is, there is just such limited parking on the road, it is unavoidable that something will be parked outside his house as it stands. We are not trying to be awkward here. If it wasn't the van, it would be the car.

So is it you that complained Lisa,Or you a neighbour/partner of the op etc, I'm confused here:wonder:

Neanderthal 27 July 2012 12:39 AM

If its the van they object to, surely for a quiet life you can park it outside your house and have the Scoob in front of their house?

Edit: the sane person that's got hold of F1 Fans login tonight beat me to it. ;)

Bubba po 27 July 2012 12:39 AM

If they don't work, how can they afford a car?

Park the scoob on the waste ground with a sticker saying "Police Aware". :D


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