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Ray_li 29 September 2005 04:30 PM

My mate
 
My mate has been seeing a bird for about 6 months and when they first met she was already seeing somebody. The first bloke won't take **** off for an answer and still tries to contact her.

My mate is all for going round and filling him in if he doesn't back off. I've told him not to as he'll be the one who ends up in the **** but he's a bit of a loony and insists a severe talking to is the only thing the bloke will understand.

What can I say to him to talk him out of it?

RichWalk 29 September 2005 04:34 PM

Five minutes talking to you Ray and he will think he's so lucky, he'll forget all about his problems:thumb:

HTH

Jay m A 29 September 2005 04:37 PM

If you shag his bird and tell him, I'm sure he'll forget about the other guy

LUCKO 29 September 2005 04:41 PM

is she ignoring him enough? she may be having the best of both world's

Moley 29 September 2005 04:44 PM


Originally Posted by LUCKO
is she ignoring him enough? she may be having the best of both world's

Yeah thats what i was thinking!!!!!!

Ray_li 29 September 2005 04:44 PM


Originally Posted by LUCKO
is she ignoring him enough? she may be having the best of both world's

I think she ignoring the stalker bloke

fitzscoob 29 September 2005 04:44 PM

she may be receiving a double portion of the pork sword and enjoying it.

best he sort it with her first.

Ray_li 29 September 2005 04:45 PM


Originally Posted by Jay m A
If you shag his bird and tell him, I'm sure he'll forget about the other guy

Sounds like a good idea.

She does give me that look but I couldnt do his sloppy seconds

King Eric 29 September 2005 04:50 PM

"my mate is all for going round and filling him in"

He's lucky the bloke has'nt got to him first!

Never ride another mans bike!

RichWalk 29 September 2005 04:51 PM


Originally Posted by King Eric
"my mate is all for going round and filling him in"

He's lucky the bloke has'nt got to him first!

Never ride another mans bike!

Nonsense, I won a local hill climb on my mates bike;)

Ray_li 29 September 2005 04:53 PM

I need some serious help here guys or should I just help my mate beat the cr@p out of him since he is a mate :D

Munter Hunter 29 September 2005 04:59 PM

Nail his dog to the door!!!

King Eric 29 September 2005 05:00 PM

Its simple,

In light of recent events with stalkers (incident in london), she needs to phone the police. Report the harrasment, say how concerned she is and how he is acting.

He will get a visit from plod, be given a first course of conduct warning (for harassment which he will have to sign to agree) and the next time he contacts her, he'll get lifted and spend the day in a cell

If she wont do that, shes keeping in touch for "other reasons"

mad_dr 29 September 2005 05:03 PM

The best thing to do would be for your mate to avoid his bird for a little while and see how she reacts. If she doesn't react much, she's probably getting double portions.

If she DOES react, it shows she's keen on your mate and he then has the perfect opportunity to make HER make this other guy get lost for good.

Afterall - how hard do you think this bird's been trying to get rid of the other guy. Probably not very hard at all if she's like any normal women. Let's face it, attention from someone of the opposite sex is never unwelcome (unless you're a gay of course) and she probably doesn't want to burn her bridges with this other guy in case it doesn't work our with your mate...

Dazzler 29 September 2005 05:07 PM

Instead of taking action immediately and landing himself in a whole lot of sh1t, why doesn't he just speak to the bloke and tell him if he continues to pester the inevitable outcome is that he'll get a good pasting for his troubles.
At least he's had a warning then before your mate goes psycho on his sorry a$$!

I'd bet my house that a threat of intent will do the trick. Esp if he says it to him in a calm, calculated tone - now that would scare me enough to stop!

LUCKO 29 September 2005 05:08 PM


Originally Posted by Ray_li
when they first met she was already seeing somebody

why is your mate getting serious with a bird that has a proven track record of cheating? let me guess she's well happy now with your mate? what about in 12 or 18 months when she is bed hopping again?

tell your mate to cut his losses or to just keep playing hide the sausage no strings attached

thundertiger 29 September 2005 05:09 PM

Ray, the bird has to end her story with the other bloke first.

- worst case scenario is that stalker man will fill the pair of you in!!!!

she can change her mobile no, and go to the old bill, so does she REALLY want him to stop contacting her???

me thinks not!

dazza

PS: Invite stalker bloke round for a chat, and when he nods off (after about 10 seconds worth of "the merits of printed circuit boards on speed cameras" tie him up and chuck him off a bridge!!!
;)

disclaimer: do not do anything i suggest!!!!

all the best ;)

Dazza (AKA Beemerboy)

vindaloo 29 September 2005 05:44 PM


Originally Posted by Dazzler
Instead of taking action immediately and landing himself in a whole lot of sh1t, why doesn't he just speak to the bloke and tell him if he continues to pester the inevitable outcome is that he'll get a good pasting for his troubles.
At least he's had a warning then before your mate goes psycho on his sorry a$$!

I'd bet my house that a threat of intent will do the trick. Esp if he says it to him in a calm, calculated tone - now that would scare me enough to stop!

If Ray's mate is a loony, you really think it'll be a quiet talking to? Worst case is he goes around and beats the crap out of the guy in front of his neighbours and friends. His girl finds out, goes mental 'cos the bloke saved the life of her goldfish/self/mother once and tells him to f-off, then the Police come around and arrest him.

J.

Aaron C. Reskew 29 September 2005 06:23 PM

I'd tell your mate to let it slide and not worry about it. She's with him and not the other bloke so what's the big deal? If he's becoming a real pain there are ways of dealing with it without your mate landing himself in trouble.

Having said that, if it was me, I'd leather him to within an inch of his life,burn his house down and take a dump in his car :D

Ray_li 29 September 2005 07:55 PM


Originally Posted by Aaron C. Reskew
I'd tell your mate to let it slide and not worry about it. She's with him and not the other bloke so what's the big deal? If he's becoming a real pain there are ways of dealing with it without your mate landing himself in trouble.

Having said that, if it was me, I'd leather him to within an inch of his life,burn his house down and take a dump in his car :D

you know my mate?

Miss Ugly M Lardarse 29 September 2005 08:15 PM


Originally Posted by Ray_li
Sounds like a good idea.

She does give me that look but I couldnt do his sloppy seconds

If she's giving you "that look" she's a rat!!!

Tell him to dump her :)

Robbie T 30 September 2005 07:19 PM

Sounds like your friend has some anger and self control issues to me, he should just chill out man.

If she changes her number he cant contact her can he, job jobbed. Poor little puppy someones nicked his toy (i feel a bit sorry for him).
Then instead of filling him in, your 'mate' can continue filling her in ;)

If she's giving you the eye, him a ride and the ex the come on then fcuk it we'll all come round and roast the mucky bitch!!

<braveheart mode on>

WHO'S WITH ME ......

sti-04!! 30 September 2005 07:58 PM


Originally Posted by Robbie T

<braveheart mode on>

WHO'S WITH ME ......

:norty:

kingofturds 30 September 2005 08:42 PM


Originally Posted by Robbie T
Sounds like your friend has some anger and self control issues to me, he should just chill out man.

If she changes her number he cant contact her can he, job jobbed. Poor little puppy someones nicked his toy (i feel a bit sorry for him).
Then instead of filling him in, your 'mate' can continue filling her in ;)

If she's giving you the eye, him a ride and the ex the come on then fcuk it we'll all come round and roast the mucky bitch!!

<braveheart mode on>

WHO'S WITH ME ......

scoobynet gangbang should be interesting:)

sti-04!! 30 September 2005 08:54 PM

Am first on, last one on is the dad ;) :p

Ray_li 30 September 2005 10:41 PM


Originally Posted by sti-04!!
Am first on, last one on is the dad ;) :p

sorry dude I dont do sloppy seconds. Can I be first?

kingofturds 30 September 2005 10:59 PM


Originally Posted by Ray_li
sorry dude I dont do sloppy seconds. Can I be first?





you can have filthy fiths


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