First decided what YOU want.

And if you want to see her again,forget texting,just ring her and ask her how she thinks it went last night,and tell her you'd like to see her again.




[Edited by south-star - 11/9/2002 12:23:43 PM]

 

I like Ralfs reply - very real world, but then I am mr no self confidence so I would like that reply

As for other suggestions, hmm all points taken and all possible, however she seemed pretty quick on the old text reply before, no its all gone silent.

Trouble is, seeing as shes not replied once, I would feel a complete desperate **** if I rang her or even texted again.

I need to get hold of her work mate, quickly...........

and South Star, damn your right I am giving up too easily, well I sound like I am - but I aint done yet

andy

[Edited by ADP - 11/10/2002 6:59:02 PM]

 

Cant beleive Im asking scoobynet, but........

If you went out with a girl last night, but reckon you'd blown your chances this morning would you

A: Do nothing

or

B: Call / text her

anyone



Andy

 

B

The worst you will get told is to get lost!

 

How did you blow it. Come on....

BTW B would be my choice..

 

Yeah, to make an informed decision, we need the DETAILS!!!!

But a simple text or call would be my choice on the evidence above. Usually women give you one signal, but mean another

 

Well I didnt really blow it(or did I), at the end of the night we just kinda said bye and that was it, which made me think - thats the last youll see of her my son.

 

stop big a big girl about it

just ring her

 

Call her and thank her for a nice evening out. Then see what her manner is like.

 

Agree with Neil. I sent Kenny (Saxo Boy) a text and thanked him for the afternoon we spent together and look at us now!

Amanda

 

Ok then point taken....

I think as Delboy once said "he who dares Rodney, he who dares"

more later, maybe, Ill either be laughing or crying

 

says the stalker...

 

Have you phoned yet? Hurry and do it!

Amanda

 

Phone/text her, without a single doubt in my mind.

As said, worst case, she tells you to **** off. Best case, you see her again.

Listen to the shark, he knows

 

Text her.

If she ignores it then you'll know it's a non-starter but without any feeling of rejection!

Make sure you set your phone so you get confirmation that the text is received!

 

have you done that before then fatherpierre???

Amanda

 

Oh yeah!

I'm a meak, sensitive bloke who hates rejection!

 

Texting is crap,...with a phone call you can judge her mood by her tone,much better IMO,...and anyway,wouldnt you rather hear her voice than read a bit of text...

 

Yeah but you can test the water by text. If the reply's favourable (if there is one) then you can phone!

 

Have used FP's technique (complete with delivery receipts) before!

Recommended

 

 

well, have you done it yet?

Amanda

 

Never a truer word spoken (but prepare for this thread to run and run and run.......)

Calling Rusty Festa/Paul R!................

DP.

 

OK kids,

So I texted her at about lunch time, but........... nothing(its 6.30 now)

**** **** **** **** **** ****

my only saving grace is either, being that shes at work, Im not sure if shes allowed to use a mobile, but I think this is clutching at straws a bit. To know for real, my mates wife is gonna see her tonight at work.......so ill probably find out how much of a donut I looked like to her

off to listen to some radio head in a dark room.


andy

 

did you put the receipt thingy on ???

Amanda

 

I dont have that text receipt thingy, well If I do I dont know how to use it. Im 99.9% sure It went ok.

I think I can take that as a drop kick.

 

yeah but you get the receipt when she opens it!

Amanda

 

I reckon shes already opened it Im affraid to say......

god, rejection sucks, wish I hadnt bothered in the first place.

 

cheer up. you could be one of the sad muppets on blind date tonight!

Amanda