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Old 11 September 2002, 12:21 PM
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First decided what YOU want.

And if you want to see her again,forget texting,just ring her and ask her how she thinks it went last night,and tell her you'd like to see her again.




[Edited by south-star - 11/9/2002 12:23:43 PM]
Old 11 October 2002, 06:55 PM
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I like Ralfs reply - very real world, but then I am mr no self confidence so I would like that reply

As for other suggestions, hmm all points taken and all possible, however she seemed pretty quick on the old text reply before, no its all gone silent.

Trouble is, seeing as shes not replied once, I would feel a complete desperate **** if I rang her or even texted again.

I need to get hold of her work mate, quickly...........

and South Star, damn your right I am giving up too easily, well I sound like I am - but I aint done yet

andy

[Edited by ADP - 11/10/2002 6:59:02 PM]
Old 09 November 2002, 11:44 AM
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Cant beleive Im asking scoobynet, but........

If you went out with a girl last night, but reckon you'd blown your chances this morning would you

A: Do nothing

or

B: Call / text her

anyone



Andy

Old 09 November 2002, 11:53 AM
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B

The worst you will get told is to get lost!
Old 09 November 2002, 11:54 AM
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How did you blow it. Come on....

BTW B would be my choice..
Old 09 November 2002, 11:56 AM
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Yeah, to make an informed decision, we need the DETAILS!!!!

But a simple text or call would be my choice on the evidence above. Usually women give you one signal, but mean another
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Well I didnt really blow it(or did I), at the end of the night we just kinda said bye and that was it, which made me think - thats the last youll see of her my son.

Old 09 November 2002, 12:02 PM
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stop big a big girl about it

just ring her
Old 09 November 2002, 12:02 PM
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Call her and thank her for a nice evening out. Then see what her manner is like.
Old 09 November 2002, 12:05 PM
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Agree with Neil. I sent Kenny (Saxo Boy) a text and thanked him for the afternoon we spent together and look at us now!

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Old 09 November 2002, 12:11 PM
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Ok then point taken....

I think as Delboy once said "he who dares Rodney, he who dares"

more later, maybe, Ill either be laughing or crying
Old 09 November 2002, 12:53 PM
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says the stalker...
Old 09 November 2002, 01:15 PM
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Have you phoned yet? Hurry and do it!

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Old 09 November 2002, 01:36 PM
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Phone/text her, without a single doubt in my mind.

As said, worst case, she tells you to **** off. Best case, you see her again.

Listen to the shark, he knows
Old 09 November 2002, 02:58 PM
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Text her.

If she ignores it then you'll know it's a non-starter but without any feeling of rejection!

Make sure you set your phone so you get confirmation that the text is received!
Old 09 November 2002, 03:50 PM
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have you done that before then fatherpierre???

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Old 09 November 2002, 04:02 PM
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Oh yeah!

I'm a meak, sensitive bloke who hates rejection!
Old 09 November 2002, 04:20 PM
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Texting is crap,...with a phone call you can judge her mood by her tone,much better IMO,...and anyway,wouldnt you rather hear her voice than read a bit of text...
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Yeah but you can test the water by text. If the reply's favourable (if there is one) then you can phone!
Old 09 November 2002, 05:22 PM
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Have used FP's technique (complete with delivery receipts) before!

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Old 09 November 2002, 05:23 PM
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Old 09 November 2002, 05:29 PM
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well, have you done it yet?

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Old 09 November 2002, 05:30 PM
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Yeah, to make an informed decision, we need the DETAILS!!!!
Never a truer word spoken (but prepare for this thread to run and run and run.......)

Calling Rusty Festa/Paul R!................

DP.
Old 09 November 2002, 06:35 PM
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OK kids,

So I texted her at about lunch time, but........... nothing(its 6.30 now)

**** **** **** **** **** ****

my only saving grace is either, being that shes at work, Im not sure if shes allowed to use a mobile, but I think this is clutching at straws a bit. To know for real, my mates wife is gonna see her tonight at work.......so ill probably find out how much of a donut I looked like to her

off to listen to some radio head in a dark room.


andy


Old 09 November 2002, 06:37 PM
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did you put the receipt thingy on ???

Amanda
Old 09 November 2002, 06:39 PM
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I dont have that text receipt thingy, well If I do I dont know how to use it. Im 99.9% sure It went ok.

I think I can take that as a drop kick.
Old 09 November 2002, 06:42 PM
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yeah but you get the receipt when she opens it!

Amanda
Old 09 November 2002, 06:44 PM
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I reckon shes already opened it Im affraid to say......

god, rejection sucks, wish I hadnt bothered in the first place.

Old 09 November 2002, 06:50 PM
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cheer up. you could be one of the sad muppets on blind date tonight!

Amanda


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