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Old Aug 23, 2011 | 11:06 PM
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Originally Posted by Lisawrx
No idea, never been on that site.

I could be way out here, but I assumed (because of the name) it was aimed at mums, and considering I have no kids, I never felt the need to go on. That, and I have never heard anything good said about the place.
I dont think many of the members are mums! I think a high percentage of the members are trolls who join the site to see if the hyped up 'bitch fest' is really all it's cracked up to be.

It's always getting into trouble over all 'PC' issues between other forum discussions!
The 'women' on there can be awful!

Given that it's a big site, ask the right question - get the right answer, but if you ask the wrong question, they come down on you like a tonne of bricks, no holding back! Lol.

I joined a few years back and have not posted even ONCE.... I'm too scared! Lol.
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Old Aug 24, 2011 | 12:12 AM
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Originally Posted by Hysteria1983
I dont think many of the members are mums! I think a high percentage of the members are trolls who join the site to see if the hyped up 'bitch fest' is really all it's cracked up to be.

It's always getting into trouble over all 'PC' issues between other forum discussions!
The 'women' on there can be awful!

Given that it's a big site, ask the right question - get the right answer, but if you ask the wrong question, they come down on you like a tonne of bricks, no holding back! Lol.

I joined a few years back and have not posted even ONCE.... I'm too scared! Lol.
Doubt the place would be for me. Women can be too bitchy for my liking, so a place full of them would drive me mental.
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Old Aug 24, 2011 | 12:18 AM
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Originally Posted by Clarebabes
I wouldn't have expected anything less from you Lisa.

I forgot the smilies
To be honest, I did actually mean to put a wink after my comment. (despite still thinking your comment was intended as a dig)
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Old Aug 24, 2011 | 12:21 AM
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Originally Posted by Lisawrx
Doubt the place would be for me. Women can be too bitchy for my liking, so a place full of them would drive me mental.
That's why I don't use it! From the bits I read a few months back, it's crazy in there!
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Old Aug 24, 2011 | 12:29 AM
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Can you two get your own thread. This ones about some loser and his cheating girlfriend not some forum for queers.
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Old Aug 24, 2011 | 12:36 AM
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Originally Posted by JackClark
Can you two get your own thread. This ones about some loser and his cheating girlfriend not some forum for queers.
Yes Sir, sorry Sir!
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Old Aug 24, 2011 | 01:01 AM
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Change your mobile number. Delete everything stored on her phone which you ever sent her, be it photos, text messages or emails, if you get the chance. Block her on Facebook etc.

Everything she sends you, keep.

She'll be wanting to use it as evidence when she decides to get you arrested. It will happen.
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Old Aug 24, 2011 | 01:15 AM
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So the bloke across the road got used as a pawn, nice girl,

At least he got a few blow jobs for his trouble, and i would say maybe more.

Your a D1ck for doing what you did to her and i won't tell you what she is for doing what she did to you and the guy across the road.

So you do realise that every time you see him you will wonder what really happened, and i will bet she has not told the whole truth. FACT.

Those thoughts WILL eat at you for the rest of this relationship.FACT.

If your happy to live your life like that i really do wish you the best of luck

Personally once the trust has gone and doubts are in your mind it's only a matter of time.FACT.

Question is how much more of your life do you want to spend with a scheming argumentative woman that as soon as your back is turned you will be wondering if the other bloke is round for coffee with extras.

Sorry to put a downer on you but life really is too short to waste in bad relationships just because it's not nice being alone, and think of the fun you will have ******** a new bird.
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Old Aug 24, 2011 | 01:28 AM
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I think a lot of the posts on this thread say far more about the posters than the thread starter, sure if your an insecure little kitten you will keep imagining what she did with the other guy and if he was better, or maybe you are comfortable with who you are, and if so, so what, does it matter what she did or didn't do?. She's with the OP, and the OP wants to be with her isn't that's all that matters to him? Although you did kind of ask for all of this by posting on a public forum, **** what anyone else thinks, do what you think will make you happy.
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Old Aug 24, 2011 | 01:35 AM
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Oh, and as long as she has nice t1ts, it's worth it for the t1ts.
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Old Aug 24, 2011 | 01:45 AM
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Originally Posted by JackClark
Can you two get your own thread. This ones about some loser and his cheating girlfriend not some forum for queers.
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Old Aug 24, 2011 | 05:57 AM
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Its getting worse that poor chap seams to have set fire to his own e-credibility.

I can smell a forum username change coming on soon!
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Old Aug 24, 2011 | 06:25 AM
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Christ this thread is a bit harsh.

All she did was put another blokes **** in her mouth and a$$.
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Old Aug 24, 2011 | 07:23 AM
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Originally Posted by chopper.
Christ this thread is a bit harsh.

All she did was put another blokes **** in her mouth and a$$.
In that order?

as the old saying goes, never go down once he's potted the brown!

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Old Aug 24, 2011 | 07:24 AM
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Yep the smile on his face next time he see's them together will be the give away

Bum burgled by neighbour

Is that an aftershave or an eu de toilet
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Old Aug 24, 2011 | 07:28 AM
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Originally Posted by Lisawrx
To be honest, I did actually mean to put a wink after my comment. (despite still thinking your comment was intended as a dig)
It wasn't intended as a dig at YOU, it was highlighting what other people were saying, but if you took it that way, I don't think the problem is with me. It was meant as a joke, and I forgot the smilies. Remember, funny, jokes, etc??? Maybe we're are not compatible in our sense of humours....

This is a forum where you can say things you wouldn't say to people in real life. That's the beauty of it. However, I have been praised in "real life" for my lack of tact, which is often refreshing and friends rely on it to get the real view of things. I like to think of it as truthful, rather than malicious.

Anyway, thread hijack over.
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Old Aug 24, 2011 | 07:45 AM
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Originally Posted by Clarebabes
It wasn't intended as a dig at YOU, it was highlighting what other people were saying, but if you took it that way, I don't think the problem is with me. It was meant as a joke, and I forgot the smilies. Remember, funny, jokes, etc??? Maybe we're are not compatible in our sense of humours....

This is a forum where you can say things you wouldn't say to people in real life. That's the beauty of it. However, I have been praised in "real life" for my lack of tact, which is often refreshing and friends rely on it to get the real view of things. I like to think of it as truthful, rather than malicious.

Anyway, thread hijack over.
Shall we dig a pit and get the hose pipe out and you girls can settle it in your bikini's.
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Old Aug 24, 2011 | 07:52 AM
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Originally Posted by gallois
I think a lot of the posts on this thread say far more about the posters than the thread starter, sure if your an insecure little kitten you will keep imagining what she did with the other guy and if he was better, or maybe you are comfortable with who you are, and if so, so what, does it matter what she did or didn't do?. She's with the OP, and the OP wants to be with her isn't that's all that matters to him? Although you did kind of ask for all of this by posting on a public forum, **** what anyone else thinks, do what you think will make you happy.
Mate if you like the smell of another mans **** on your mrs breath theres a few of us on here that will oblige.
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Old Aug 24, 2011 | 07:58 AM
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You need to take her from behind ,tell her that her mum ,sister and grandmother like it this way hang on to her ears and see how long you can last

Let's face it she thinks she has got you back so she is now the man in the relationship

Your future is going to be a life of tied to the kitchen sink and tidying the house up when she is in the pub and enjoying herself after this

We still need pictures though to balance out this discussion

Just blank out the face and we can imagine it
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Old Aug 24, 2011 | 08:04 AM
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This is a funny thread, but I can't help feel;

a) Sorry for the OP who in his 30s, has a GF who has had a hysterectomy.

b) Sorry for the OP GF who is her 30 (I assume) has had a hysterectomy.

However, it has ammused hundreds along the way!
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Old Aug 24, 2011 | 08:37 AM
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Originally Posted by stilover
If she'd let anyone anywhere near down there straight after having a hysterectomy, I'd be mighty surprised.
Fine

Up the bum - no harm done

Originally Posted by JackClark
Can you two get your own thread. This ones about some loser and his cheating girlfriend not some forum for queers.
But the names would suggest they are female queers, and in my book thats alright.

The question is, can we watch them munching rugs?
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Old Aug 24, 2011 | 08:46 AM
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Originally Posted by The Zohan
In that order?

as the old saying goes, never go down once he's potted the brown!

The zohan likes to go down after he has potted the brown, but then you are a fully signed up member of the leather clad sausage jockey club
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Old Aug 24, 2011 | 08:52 AM
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Originally Posted by ditchmyster
Shall we dig a pit and get the hose pipe out and you girls can settle it in your bikini's.
No.
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Old Aug 24, 2011 | 09:18 AM
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Originally Posted by urban
they are female queers, and in my book thats alright.
Women are all Queer, they **** blokes.
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Old Aug 24, 2011 | 10:27 AM
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Originally Posted by Lisawrx
It's very easy for people to think either she's a psycho, or he's a ****, but we aren't in whatever situation they are in. It looks to me like he has made a mistake, realised that and is trying to put it right. Life isn't perfect, people can be cruel at times, but that doesn't mean they can't be sorry or beyond a second chance (imo). We never know, they have hit a bad patch, but if they work through it all, they may come out the other side stronger than ever.

Sorry Clare if that is too mumsnet for you.
Pretty much spot on.

I'm not going into the reasons why she needed the Hysterectomy. Just that she "had" to have one.

That wasn't the reason for the break-up. Just a coincidence that they happened at roughly the same time.

Like I said in my original post, and the other thread. I made a mistake, and thankfully that mistake has been rectified.

I know I've come across as a immature teen, so what?

I thought I was better off on my own, or looking for someone else. I was wrong. We both know the reason for our break-up. We've talked about it, and put it behind us.

I won't be changing my user name as someone suggested I might. I'm a big boy, and stand by any of my threads/posts.

Glad the thread has amused so many
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Old Aug 24, 2011 | 10:32 AM
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Originally Posted by gallois
I think a lot of the posts on this thread say far more about the posters than the thread starter, sure if your an insecure little kitten you will keep imagining what she did with the other guy and if he was better, or maybe you are comfortable with who you are, and if so, so what, does it matter what she did or didn't do?. She's with the OP, and the OP wants to be with her isn't that's all that matters to him? Although you did kind of ask for all of this by posting on a public forum, **** what anyone else thinks, do what you think will make you happy.

Exactly. I know nothing happened, and I'm not insecure enough to lay awake at night thinking about it.

All those saying she sucked him off every night are obviously worried that that's what their G/friend would be doing in the same situation.

This guy was just someone to talk to, as the person she wanted to be talking to was sat in his flat thinking he'd made the right decision. Which he hadn't, so went and got her back.

I can't complain if she felt like kicking me around for a week. I deserved something.

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Old Aug 24, 2011 | 11:08 AM
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Think it's about time you lot gave stilover a break.
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Old Aug 24, 2011 | 11:12 AM
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Stilover, dont you want kids ?? you may already have some by another lady therefore no worries.

Terrible to admit this, but if my lady couldnt have children, then I would know that the relationship would eventually end, as I wanted to have children.

Out of interest, the surgery she's had, her hormones will be up / down like a rollercoaster, so you can forgive her actions a little.

However, what you cant forgive, and is a real serious crime, is that after 5 pages there still ISNT ANY PICS !

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Old Aug 24, 2011 | 11:16 AM
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Stilover, dont you want kids ?? you may already have some by another lady therefore no worries.

Terrible to admit this, but if my lady couldnt have children, then I would know that the relationship would eventually end, as I wanted to have children.

Out of interest, the surgery she's had, her hormones will be up / down like a rollercoaster, so you can forgive her actions a little.

However, what you cant forgive, and is a real serious crime, is that after 5 pages there still ISNT ANY PICS !

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Old Aug 24, 2011 | 11:32 AM
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zohan, you are right, and in an idea world I would do this, but I wanted to have my own first. Im lucky, as I now have two children, so am very pleased. I wouldnt rule out adopting a child now either. The idea of giving a good home to someone that needs it is a wonderful thing.

The intended point was, that if children are important to him, that he needs to be realistic now and review the situation, regardless of how heartless that makes him, and act accordingly.

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