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Old Aug 22, 2011 | 02:39 PM
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You done it all wrong!

You should of went round, f*cked her brains out, done a few things you have wanted to do to her but she would never let you do and then turned to her and said "Sorry love, I've changed my mind and I don't want to see you again"

Sounds to me like your a puppet on her string and when she tells you to jump, you ask her "How high my dear?"

She's got you wrapped around here finger! A very bad place to be in
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Old Aug 22, 2011 | 03:11 PM
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Old Aug 22, 2011 | 03:11 PM
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Stilover............Are you mad????

Run away and don't look back. Have some self-respect. She's pi55ing you about.
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Old Aug 22, 2011 | 03:22 PM
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Also i hope you double bagged it! Imagine you got her up the duff! And he might have left you a present up there!
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Old Aug 22, 2011 | 04:15 PM
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As nice as these guys are .. they're right .. she does sound a little crazy ..

Sound's like your getting played my friend ..
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Old Aug 22, 2011 | 04:18 PM
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Old Aug 22, 2011 | 04:35 PM
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Calm down everyone.

She got a free bottle of wine and he got a ****.

Perfect night out for most boys and girls!
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Old Aug 22, 2011 | 04:38 PM
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i agree with above,

continue casual sex(double bagged) lol, aslong as you want

but as a serious relationship, just asking for a long time of misey and general being fcked about, if you ask me.
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Old Aug 22, 2011 | 04:59 PM
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practice the 4 Fs of relationship management. saves any heartache.
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Old Aug 22, 2011 | 05:09 PM
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Just to echo every single one of the above comments - you tw@t!

Sort out your self esteem/self confidence issues, and get a better life. All women want great sex, they just want you to ask them in the right way...
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Old Aug 22, 2011 | 06:02 PM
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I would just be careful here. If she was so half soaked about what she wanted, who knows how she will feel tomorrow.

It could be that she really did miss you, maybe she missed the sex, maybe the other guy has got a small winky, or he doesn't know how to use it.

Find out what you want, no matter if it is just sex, and find out what she wants.

If you are both on the same page GREAT!
BUT, I would make yourself unavailable at weekends for a while, just see her in the week. That way she can contemplate what else she can do with her time.
She might just be bored on her own, and to be honest I would rather be single than be with someone who just wanted me for a bit of company.

Just be careful, from experience she's doing the 'am I really better off alone?' test.
This is where the woman or man, goes back to test the water and see if they want to get back together properly.
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Old Aug 22, 2011 | 07:13 PM
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She sounds totally mental. Either give her the boot, or if money's no problem buy her a course of therapy sessions and keep seeing her
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Old Aug 22, 2011 | 07:16 PM
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Just to put the record straight, she never had sex with him.

A) her sister was always there each night he was round (Lives across the road)

B) Due to woman's problems (won't say what) but she couldn't even if she wanted too. Still can't till probably next week.

C) He was used as a pawn to get me jealous. Fecking worked too !!!

If you knew her (of which you don't) she was all for me, and always was. She just wanted to show me how much I hurt her. Fair enough really.
All she wanted was a bit more attention from myself, which I must admit I never showed much of.

All fixed now .............. hopefully.

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Old Aug 22, 2011 | 07:31 PM
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Originally Posted by stilover
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A) her sister was always there each night he was round (Lives across the road)
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Single. fittish-looking, pictures?

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Old Aug 22, 2011 | 07:47 PM
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Originally Posted by stilover
Just to put the record straight, she never had sex with him.


A) her sister was always there each night he was round (Lives across the road)


B) Due to woman's problems (won't say what) but she couldn't even if she wanted too. Still can't till probably next week.


C) He was used as a pawn to get me jealous. Fecking worked too !!!

If you knew her (of which you don't) she was all for me, and always was. She just wanted to show me how much I hurt her. Fair enough really.
All she wanted was a bit more attention from myself, which I must admit I never showed much of.

All fixed now .............. hopefully.
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Old Aug 22, 2011 | 07:47 PM
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Originally Posted by markjmd
Single. fittish-looking, pictures?

Single? To a degree. ******** her ex (father of her children), as well as her mates husband. Still, you're welcome a go.

Fit? No. Looks nowt like her sister !!

Pictures? Shudders .......... Nice T!ts though !!

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Old Aug 22, 2011 | 07:56 PM
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Do you really believe what you are writing?
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Old Aug 22, 2011 | 08:21 PM
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Originally Posted by davyboy
Do you really what you are writing?
She's not a slag!!

She had only been seeing him a week and a half. In that time she saw me twice on s night to talk.

Not all girls jump into bed with a bloke with a couple weeks.

Afterall, like I said she couldn't even if she wanted to. I know that for a fact as I took her to the hospital myself for her appointment weeks ago.
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Old Aug 22, 2011 | 08:22 PM
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Originally Posted by bigsinky
practice the 4 Fs of relationship management. saves any heartache.
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Old Aug 22, 2011 | 08:23 PM
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She still has a mouth and a bum hole!
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Old Aug 22, 2011 | 08:23 PM
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Originally Posted by stilover
She's not a slag!!

She had only been seeing him a week and a half. In that time she saw me twice on s night to talk.

Not all girls jump into bed with a bloke with a couple weeks.

Afterall, like I said she couldn't even if she wanted to. I know that for a fact as I took her to the hospital myself for her appointment weeks ago.
Dream on - He was nuts deep every night
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Old Aug 22, 2011 | 08:33 PM
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All further posting on this thread is irrelevant - stilover is blind to the lot and has his fingers in his ears :S
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Old Aug 22, 2011 | 08:39 PM
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Im gonna be honest and sorry if I offend but what you went through sounds very similar to what I did. Personally if she is prepared to play games then there is something wrong.

Weather she was slurping his spunk or just holding hand down the park she still wiped all feelings (sorry) for you out of the window and hitched with this guy.

I know you have crazy feelings for her and it will be exceedingly hard but I would say you should say to her that she 'hurt' you by getting with this guy - Thoughts through your head etc

I would say to her that you want to start afresh and take things back to basics. Have a week of no communication then start out like a first timer...

When you said womens problems - did this mean she couldn't have sex or babies? If it's sex then sorry theres very few things that stops a pee pee going into a V V
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Old Aug 22, 2011 | 08:42 PM
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Originally Posted by stilover
Just to put the record straight, she had sex with him.

A) her sister was always there each night he was round and joined in(Lives across the road)

B) Due to woman's problems (won't say what) but she couldn't even if she wanted too so blow jobs would be normal. Still can't till probably next week.

C) He was used as a pawn to get me jealous. Fecking worked too!!!!

If you knew her (of which you don't) she was all for me, and always was. She just wanted to show me how much I hurt her. Fair enough really.
All she wanted was a bit more attention from myself, which I must admit I never showed much of.

All fixed now .............. hopefully.

Edited for accuracy, but if your trying to tell yourself she is great, stop telling the whole world she is mental first


You may be happy with her now but judging from your past comments I would treat this relationship as quite casual and see other people
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Old Aug 22, 2011 | 08:49 PM
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Originally Posted by stilover
Just to put the record straight, she never had sex with him.

A) her sister was always there each night he was round (Lives across the road)

B) Due to woman's problems (won't say what) but she couldn't even if she wanted too. Still can't till probably next week.

C) He was used as a pawn to get me jealous. Fecking worked too !!!

If you knew her (of which you don't) she was all for me, and always was. She just wanted to show me how much I hurt her. Fair enough really.
All she wanted was a bit more attention from myself, which I must admit I never showed much of.

All fixed now .............. hopefully.
Man you need to take these off!!

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Old Aug 22, 2011 | 08:51 PM
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Theres some harsh comments on this thread, made me laugh though.

Go for it mate, there all nuts anyway
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Old Aug 22, 2011 | 08:51 PM
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Originally Posted by jods
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Old Aug 22, 2011 | 08:58 PM
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Originally Posted by stilover
She's not a slag!!

She had only been seeing him a week and a half. In that time she saw me twice on s night to talk.

Not all girls jump into bed with a bloke with a couple weeks.

Afterall, like I said she couldn't even if she wanted to. I know that for a fact as I took her to the hospital myself for her appointment weeks ago.
Without being cruel as its easy to do on here, I think you're a little bit blind as to what's really happening and what has happened.

I hope I'm wrong, but I dont think you should commit to any kind of emotional outlay where this woman is concerned. 99% of us here can see you setting yourself up for a fall, granted we could all be wrong, but I doubt it.

No one normal would put someone they truly care about through what she has done to you, unless you did **** her sister in which case its a match made in heaven!
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Old Aug 22, 2011 | 09:31 PM
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this thread is mad.

I would tell her to go and fu... ah no she can't

So the fact she didn't sleep with him make all the difference..what about the fact she probably sucked him dry?

Its not about being a slag it is just what happens especially when people meet each other these days.

As long as you are happy everything else should be fogotton (unless he had a massive ****)
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Old Aug 22, 2011 | 10:19 PM
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You lot are all heart.

We're only hearing one side here, and I'm not defending her actions, but even stilover has even said he hurt her. So maybe she's not entirely mental, just trying to get a bit revenge (rightly or wrongly)

Relationships sometimes need work, and people are often too quick to give up if the going gets tough. If you really want to be with her, go for it and it doesn't really matter what anyone on here thinks. I do think you both need to communicate with each other a bit better from the sounds of it, work out if you both want the same things, and put some effort in.

Good luck.
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