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Old Oct 25, 2010 | 05:10 PM
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oh I see, both a w4anker and a car enthusiast

must be a few on here
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Old Oct 25, 2010 | 05:14 PM
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If anybody here would like to watch me take their wife up the gary glitter please pm a pic and we'll take it from there.
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Old Oct 25, 2010 | 05:15 PM
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Originally Posted by hodgy0_2
oh I see, both a w4anker and a car enthusiast

must be a few on here
Nice one!
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Old Oct 25, 2010 | 05:45 PM
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Originally Posted by Hysteria1983
******* isn't anyones game, you perve! Lol
You may get to meet Stan Collymore.
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Old Oct 25, 2010 | 05:48 PM
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OK, a full and frank admission here, dont flame me !

We have been involved in the lifestyle for the best part of ten years, not so much recently but still occasionally. There is a loose association of people in our town, we were introduced by one of the mums at school who when under the influence dropped it into the conversation, we were intriuged and following the conversation we kept thinking about it and discussing it, initially both being taken aback but next time we saw them we plucked up the courage to raise the issue again, before we knew it we were invited to a little gathering, nothing happened that time but it kind of broke down any misconceptions and predjudices we had, after that point we got more involved and it is a buzz, sometimes you just end up doing what you would do anyway with each other at home but with a little extra atmosphere and variety, we have made some really good friends via the scene and learn a lot about ourselves, like I am now entirely sure I never ever want another blokes **** anywhere near me, double penetration is all very well but I aint bumping my junk against another mans for any reason, you really need to watch yourself as there are a lot of strange people out there, a lot of single blokes trying to muscle in and think they just get to arrive and whap it in the first thing they see when in reality there are some strict etiquette and protocols to observe, signals and gestures need to be read properly as otherwise it can lead to embarassment and confrontation, the secret is to, once invited in, to just relax and watch how things work.

Give it a try, I can suggest some websites if you want to try, there are a few that are just after money, you need to know the proper ones !
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Old Oct 25, 2010 | 05:58 PM
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Originally Posted by J4CKO
OK, a full and frank admission here, dont flame me !

We have been involved in the lifestyle for the best part of ten years, not so much recently but still occasionally. There is a loose association of people in our town, we were introduced by one of the mums at school who when under the influence dropped it into the conversation, we were intriuged and following the conversation we kept thinking about it and discussing it, initially both being taken aback but next time we saw them we plucked up the courage to raise the issue again, before we knew it we were invited to a little gathering, nothing happened that time but it kind of broke down any misconceptions and predjudices we had, after that point we got more involved and it is a buzz, sometimes you just end up doing what you would do anyway with each other at home but with a little extra atmosphere and variety, we have made some really good friends via the scene and learn a lot about ourselves, like I am now entirely sure I never ever want another blokes **** anywhere near me, double penetration is all very well but I aint bumping my junk against another mans for any reason, you really need to watch yourself as there are a lot of strange people out there, a lot of single blokes trying to muscle in and think they just get to arrive and whap it in the first thing they see when in reality there are some strict etiquette and protocols to observe, signals and gestures need to be read properly as otherwise it can lead to embarassment and confrontation, the secret is to, once invited in, to just relax and watch how things work.

Give it a try, I can suggest some websites if you want to try, there are a few that are just after money, you need to know the proper ones !
I admire your honesty.

What's the age range BTW?
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Old Oct 25, 2010 | 06:00 PM
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Originally Posted by tony de wonderful
I admire your honesty.

What's the age range BTW?
Pretty much 30 to 50 really.
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Old Oct 25, 2010 | 06:06 PM
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This thread has made me laugh.

Admiration of the honest above though. Hats off to you!


It's something I wouldnt say no too, should the situation ever arise, but I would never actively seek out the situation. If that makes sense?

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Old Oct 25, 2010 | 06:14 PM
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Originally Posted by hodgy0_2
oh I see, both a w4anker and a car enthusiast

must be a few on here
Aye, there's at least 3 Porsche owners on here...
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Old Oct 25, 2010 | 06:17 PM
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Originally Posted by tony de wonderful
You may get to meet Stan Collymore.
Lol, I know I'm from near those parts. 'the chase' that is
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Old Oct 25, 2010 | 06:21 PM
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Good on you!


Originally Posted by J4CKO
OK, a full and frank admission here, dont flame me !

We have been involved in the lifestyle for the best part of ten years, not so much recently but still occasionally. There is a loose association of people in our town, we were introduced by one of the mums at school who when under the influence dropped it into the conversation, we were intriuged and following the conversation we kept thinking about it and discussing it, initially both being taken aback but next time we saw them we plucked up the courage to raise the issue again, before we knew it we were invited to a little gathering, nothing happened that time but it kind of broke down any misconceptions and predjudices we had, after that point we got more involved and it is a buzz, sometimes you just end up doing what you would do anyway with each other at home but with a little extra atmosphere and variety, we have made some really good friends via the scene and learn a lot about ourselves, like I am now entirely sure I never ever want another blokes **** anywhere near me, double penetration is all very well but I aint bumping my junk against another mans for any reason, you really need to watch yourself as there are a lot of strange people out there, a lot of single blokes trying to muscle in and think they just get to arrive and whap it in the first thing they see when in reality there are some strict etiquette and protocols to observe, signals and gestures need to be read properly as otherwise it can lead to embarassment and confrontation, the secret is to, once invited in, to just relax and watch how things work.

Give it a try, I can suggest some websites if you want to try, there are a few that are just after money, you need to know the proper ones !
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Old Oct 25, 2010 | 06:25 PM
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Hey Jacko, interesting read. So have you seen your wife being spit roasted by two men? I hope you don't mind me asking?
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Old Oct 25, 2010 | 06:40 PM
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Originally Posted by J4CKO
Pretty much 30 to 50 really.
Just out of interest what is the 'hook'. Is it the sex, emotional connection, or 'thrill'?
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Old Oct 25, 2010 | 06:40 PM
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Originally Posted by Dingdongler
Hey Jacko, interesting read. So have you seen your wife being spit roasted by two men? I hope you don't mind me asking?
Master of the subtlely put question LOL!
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Old Oct 25, 2010 | 06:47 PM
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Originally Posted by tony de wonderful
Just out of interest what is the 'hook'. Is it the sex, emotional connection, or 'thrill'?
All three I would suppose.
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Old Oct 25, 2010 | 06:52 PM
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Originally Posted by Hysteria1983
Lol, I know I'm from near those parts. 'the chase' that is
I've heard walking a dog is a great way to meet the opposite sex.

A random pissed bloke the other day - in the pub - mentioned this to me actually. He had his dog with him was talking to me, said he'd just moved back to the area - had got divorced - said he heard walking a dog was a good way to meet women, was not sure of good places to walk the dog though. I think he was kosher but I was a little stand offish 'cos I was like 20% maybe he was subtely asking me where the local '*******' sites were?! Anyway I heard '*******' sites are 'signed' with tesco carrier bags tied to trees and bushes.
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Old Oct 25, 2010 | 06:55 PM
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Id have expected nothing less in deepest Wilmslow
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Old Oct 25, 2010 | 06:55 PM
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Originally Posted by tony de wonderful
I've heard walking a dog is a great way to meet the opposite sex.

A random pissed bloke the other day - in the pub - mentioned this to me actually. He had his dog with him was talking to me, said he'd just moved back to the area - had got divorced - said he heard walking a dog was a good way to meet women, was not sure of good places to walk the dog though. I think he was kosher but I was a little stand offish 'cos I was like 20% maybe he was subtely asking me where the local '*******' sites were?! Anyway I heard '*******' sites are 'signed' with tesco carrier bags tied to trees and bushes.
I do not own a dog.
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Old Oct 25, 2010 | 07:00 PM
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Excuse me!!!!!!!!!!! I am over 40 and not remotely interested in swinging, thank you very much


agree been married 28 years 16th october age 52 and not interested ...... just coz i am older than you doesnt mean you have to swing
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Old Oct 25, 2010 | 07:16 PM
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I think Banny started this thread with a view to exploring the immorality of swinging but, as it transpires, we're having full confessionals and NSR's endorsement! How funny....
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Old Oct 25, 2010 | 07:17 PM
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Originally Posted by J4CKO
OK, a full and frank admission here, dont flame me !
We've never swung but haven't always been alone. We've talked about it but for me the acid test is seeing another chap hanging out the back of the misses. I'm not 100% if I'm happy with that.
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Old Oct 25, 2010 | 07:19 PM
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Originally Posted by JTaylor
I think Banny started this thread with a view to exploring the immorality of swinging but, as it transpires, we're having full confessionals and NSR's endorsement! How funny....
so true but you need to watch the scene from Bruno, I want to know if that really happens at swingers parties. As the lady gets a little carried away with the belt
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Old Oct 25, 2010 | 07:22 PM
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Originally Posted by J4CKO
OK, a full and frank admission here, dont flame me !

We have been involved in the lifestyle for the best part of ten years, not so much recently but still occasionally. There is a loose association of people in our town, we were introduced by one of the mums at school who when under the influence dropped it into the conversation, we were intriuged and following the conversation we kept thinking about it and discussing it, initially both being taken aback but next time we saw them we plucked up the courage to raise the issue again, before we knew it we were invited to a little gathering, nothing happened that time but it kind of broke down any misconceptions and predjudices we had, after that point we got more involved and it is a buzz, sometimes you just end up doing what you would do anyway with each other at home but with a little extra atmosphere and variety, we have made some really good friends via the scene and learn a lot about ourselves, like I am now entirely sure I never ever want another blokes **** anywhere near me, double penetration is all very well but I aint bumping my junk against another mans for any reason, you really need to watch yourself as there are a lot of strange people out there, a lot of single blokes trying to muscle in and think they just get to arrive and whap it in the first thing they see when in reality there are some strict etiquette and protocols to observe, signals and gestures need to be read properly as otherwise it can lead to embarassment and confrontation, the secret is to, once invited in, to just relax and watch how things work.

Give it a try, I can suggest some websites if you want to try, there are a few that are just after money, you need to know the proper ones !

Good post Jacko. Admire your honesty and certainly nothing to be flamed for.
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Old Oct 25, 2010 | 07:31 PM
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so true but you need to watch the scene from Bruno, I want to know if that really happens at swingers parties. As the lady gets a little carried away with the belt
Apparently you were recruiting for the BNP on your vaped thread!

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Old Oct 25, 2010 | 07:54 PM
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I do my bit for the community

Did you have to declare a conflict of interests?
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Originally Posted by EddScott
We've never swung but haven't always been alone. We've talked about it but for me the acid test is seeing another chap hanging out the back of the misses. I'm not 100% if I'm happy with that.
Yes, true but you get used to it, the pros generally outweigh the cons, cant beat seeing some lady walking round the local Sainsbury's and thinking she looks quite tasty and that you recognise her from somewere, then think, oh yes, week last Thursday and exchange a knowing look.

Flippin PM box is full now, didnt rralise there were so many of you interested.

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Originally Posted by J4CKO
cant beat seeing some lady walking round the local Sainsbury's
The meat isle?
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Old Oct 25, 2010 | 08:08 PM
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Originally Posted by J4CKO
Flippin PM box is full now, didnt rralise there were so many of you interested.

PM 'fraidy cats not wanting to ask questions in here?
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Hey Jacko, interesting read. So have you seen your wife being spit roasted by two men? I hope you don't mind me asking?
i have to say PMSL is putting it mildly, great Q dingdongler......Jacko....well done, btw, info on adults section may liven things up 20 scoobs pulling up one night would not exactly be discreet though
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