Just get her talking about her.....

Ask what her dreams are etc.

 

My advise, sell the ******* subaru and buy a peugeot or a ford (depending what you're after.
Working where I do I don't think I've seen one decent looking GF of a scoob owner. But when we have a peugeot day.
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Andy

 

Andy

 

LOL. Worked with the school kids, yeah?

 

I beg to differ Fuzz

lol it was because of his car that i met him

 

does he own a scoob ??

 

yeah but part owns it now im around

 

Go for a munter.....or at least as bad looking as your gooodself.

an not someone behind the bar..!!.ffs youll be there all night.

 

Must be a munter then





Andy

 

See here http://bbs.scoobynet.co.uk/showthread.php?t=478529

HTH

 

damn, i just took a few fotos of myelf. I really am a fat minger. hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, might try and loose some weight, maybe a bit more wing chung.

 

Surely you're being far too hard on yourself?

 

Come on fella, drop a pic. We (the people who decide you fate, it seems) need to see full picture before giving advice, and the birds might make you feel better

 

my wife said a big 'un will work every time as thats what attracted her to me..............





personality that is

 

Look for an insecure type say something a tiny bit rude or insulting first then tell them they are pretty and clever. When they say oh you don't mean that you can point out that you never flatter people and that you mean it. Spend money but never talk about it. Anything they tell you say you understand but everyone feel that way somtimes then **** them silly BUT prepare an exit strategy first insecure women get very sticky

LPB the fat ugly womanizer.

 

have a problem myself with women getting too sticky

 

Forget about how you look mate. Sure, everyone wants to be a Brad Pitt, but if a bird is turning you down cause you're a little round round the edges then she's the wrong bird anyway.

Women aren't generally too hung up on how men look, which is ironic considering they spend their life trying to ensure they look good (for us, dare I say it!!!! Admittedly if you're the sort of guy who Jerry Springer sends a JCB to help out of bed, things may get tricky.

As long as you look smart and clean, that should do. Make sure you smell good, too! Chuck the Lynx in the bin! If you're a bit flush, as you say, make sure you have nice shoes and a nice watch!

It should be easy if you're being introduced as you have common ground and you should be with other people, but think on your feet and get her talking. Don't ramble if the conversation dies, just pick another subject.

And again, be yourself, treat her as a mate rather than a goddess you want to jump! Avoiding burping or farting on the first date and you should be fine.

Added - smile a lot, eye contact (don't stare!) and like yourself and be confident! Portray an air that you're a good catch (not arrogance) and you'll feel it and she'll feel it!

And always sort out another meeting before this one ends!

 

I don't, if you get them moist enough you can slide them anywhere (providing the floor is tiled)

EDIT In reply to Johnny E, not london

 

[quote=Robbie T]I don't, if you get them moist enough you can slide them anywhere (providing the floor is tiled) [/quote


]

 

thats me listening to moby right now. I think i shall go on a dieting and excercise rampage. unfortunately being myself ends in lots of friendships, LOTS.

 

Well, that's the wrong attitude mate. If that's the case, you should concentrate on being easier to like than easier to look at!

 

If you're not happy with your weight, then be positive about losing it. Get your self down the gym (good place to meet wimmin), and most importantly stick to it. Going with someone will help you keep motivated.

 

Physique is not a big deal I don't think. You will feel better and more confident having been down the gym for a few months, but a good suit is just as effective IMO!

You need to start another thread with a poll asking the birds what is important......

Looks, wealth, personality, trouser snake.......

 

Sorry, poorguy, did you mean being yourself ends with you having lots of friendships, or it ENDS lots of friendships????

 

As I said, you're being far too hard on yourself.

To be honest with you, you're not ugly, just lacking in confidence. If you're fairly well off, go out and get yourself a brand new suit, shoes, watch, and let your confidence build that way - you wouldn't believe how confident I feel when I go out for the first time in a new top, jeans, etc.

 

Agreed with the physique thing, but the chap is obviously not too happy with his so i think it would be beneficial to his confidence. As you said though clothes can make a difference.

I have a mate who is a big lad and he gets wimmin left, right and centre. If you think its your weight as the major issue then address it, if not get some realistic views from good friends.

 

Hmmmmmmmm. I personally like being a big chap. I can lift things my friends cant lift, can indimidate people who have a go at my scrawny friends and am always warm in the winter.
But am always being the friend, "Phil the big teddy bear" etc, and big and squidgey doesnt seem to be attractive.

 

You won't lose strength by losing fat.

Plenty women with larger guys so it's probably the fact you are always thinking your too big for the for the girl that puts them off by the way you act.

Wouldn't worry about it i'm 6'4 and 15.5 stone and I get the odd one chasing me - just act confident but not cocky !

 

I'm 6'4" and 18.5 stone (since a car accident hurt my back!) and my wife is 8 stone and 5'6" size 8 and a bit of a cracker. A mate of mine is 6'6", 17 stone and size 15 feet and his fiancee and mother of his daughter is a size 8 and very pretty!

 

avoid using words like 'doth' in general conversation is a good tip...!!!