Blind date - ettiquette question
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She may have just been straight with you cause she liked you, if she was hoping to see you again its best you know now that she involved you then have the choice.
As for the drinks of course you pay, if you end up in a relationship and your a bit short of cash one week then of course she pays.
As for the drinks of course you pay, if you end up in a relationship and your a bit short of cash one week then of course she pays.
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From: LIVERPOOL THE CENTRE OF EXCELLENCE
Ever heard of prostitutes?
No small talk,no buying drinks,no being nice,no saying hello in the local supermarket when your with your bird.Just 1/2 an hour for sex at £25,what more do you want.
Nice shower at my local aswell,she puts the nodder on with her mouth too,which is nice
Later Yoza(the perv
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No small talk,no buying drinks,no being nice,no saying hello in the local supermarket when your with your bird.Just 1/2 an hour for sex at £25,what more do you want.
Nice shower at my local aswell,she puts the nodder on with her mouth too,which is nice
Later Yoza(the perv
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From: Not all those who wander are lost
If you eventually get with her then she's going to take you for every penny you posses anyway, so whats a nights worth of drinks matter ?
Dunk (Like the Murphys)
Dunk (Like the Murphys)
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From: Weston Super Mare, Somerset.
Send her a text saying "Look forward to it as long as you promise not to try and get me drunk again!"
She might take the hint and at least you will find out if she has a sense of humour
DL
She might take the hint and at least you will find out if she has a sense of humour
DL
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Sounds like the Scoob secured the second date. Pat the RB5 and then give her a chance to impress you, now that she's pursuing.
As for the date, I reckon a picnic. Drive out somewhere remote in the car she obviously likes with a lunch you prepared. This way you control the costs, have the upper hand (you could always leave her in the middle of nowhere) and if it goes really well, may get a roll in the grass
As for the date, I reckon a picnic. Drive out somewhere remote in the car she obviously likes with a lunch you prepared. This way you control the costs, have the upper hand (you could always leave her in the middle of nowhere) and if it goes really well, may get a roll in the grass
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From: Surferk
Sensible answer
If you think it feels right invite her over to yours and cook for her. She might be a student or something and not have bucket loads of cash to spend on a night out. By doing it at yours in saves any embrassment about paying the bill. And if things get frisky the bed won't be too far away!
If you think it feels right invite her over to yours and cook for her. She might be a student or something and not have bucket loads of cash to spend on a night out. By doing it at yours in saves any embrassment about paying the bill. And if things get frisky the bed won't be too far away!
DJ Dunk - that the order of life anyway, isn't it?
Both picnic and cooking her a meal have been mentioned by people at work. I thought that cooking the meal was too full on (oops, too much to drink - you'll just have to stay the night,hehe) but perhaps it has merit after-all.
As for the Scoob, perhaps it's a delayed reaction to that lovely burble sending tingles through her body (oh god, there I go again!!)
Oh, btw - she works with children, no student status I'm afraid.
[Edited by drumsterphil - 9/17/2002 6:05:25 PM]
Both picnic and cooking her a meal have been mentioned by people at work. I thought that cooking the meal was too full on (oops, too much to drink - you'll just have to stay the night,hehe
) but perhaps it has merit after-all.As for the Scoob, perhaps it's a delayed reaction to that lovely burble sending tingles through her body (oh god, there I go again!!)
Oh, btw - she works with children, no student status I'm afraid.
[Edited by drumsterphil - 9/17/2002 6:05:25 PM]
If I told her that she was the subject of an expanding thread on Scoobynet, do you think she'd talk to me again?!!
As for the web cam - yep, got one of those!!hehe
Actually, re: comparisons with soap opera there's more revelations to come!..........
As for the web cam - yep, got one of those!!
heheActually, re: comparisons with soap opera there's more revelations to come!..........
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From: Didcot, South Oxfordshire
who needs the young and the restless or les feux d'amour when we have got the drumsterphil show
revelations
- watch this space for the next gripping instalment...
<note to self>
get a life!
</note to self>
[Edited by Rusty Festa - 9/17/2002 11:10:05 PM]
revelations
- watch this space for the next gripping instalment...<note to self>
get a life!
</note to self>
[Edited by Rusty Festa - 9/17/2002 11:10:05 PM]
Yeah, but this IS real life!!
Have I said too much already? Is anyone really interested?!........
Ok revelation time (drumroll please!)- she's South African and her visa expires beginning of October. Now, there's a chance she might not get her visa renewed so ,bearing this in mind, do the goals of the second date change?
Have I said too much already? Is anyone really interested?!........
Ok revelation time (drumroll please!)- she's South African and her visa expires beginning of October. Now, there's a chance she might not get her visa renewed so ,bearing this in mind, do the goals of the second date change?
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From: Didcot, South Oxfordshire
Hmmm she is looking to get hitched and you are the nearest sucker (open wallet when at bar ) to come along - the scooby is meerly the icing on the cake
Sounds to me like you need to steer well clear
Ps. what's her number?
) to come along - the scooby is meerly the icing on the cake Sounds to me like you need to steer well clear
Ps. what's her number?
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If she IS seeing someone else, what the hell was she doing seeing you and expecting you to pay for everything ?
In this time of sexual equality, I'd at least expect her to OFFER to pay her half.
Do you want to pursue a woman who dates other men when she has a boyfriend ?
Sounds like a cow to me..
Too many more decent, un-spoken-for women out there to waste your time with this one.
In this time of sexual equality, I'd at least expect her to OFFER to pay her half.
Do you want to pursue a woman who dates other men when she has a boyfriend ?
Sounds like a cow to me..
Too many more decent, un-spoken-for women out there to waste your time with this one.
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From: Nobody knows how to tie the simple knots that I know
I have to agree with the guy above. I have never ever let the date pay for everything and she should at least offered even if you rejected it. Its a simple case of manners but it may give you an insight as to how she will act in future!
Right - if you're not bored with this yet! Here goes!........
Sent her a couple of txt msgs yesterday and no reply. Hmmmm, what's going on I wonder? Anyway, have a chat with my colleague today and she says she'll find out why no reply.
Anyway, text msg just arrived and we're currently in discussions about were to go. Appears she ran out of credit - fair does, we've all done it. Thoughts are meet say 5pm and find somewhere to have a meal then just see what happens. Think she's a bit nervous as first of all she couldn't make this saturday but now she's saying she might be able to.
What's a guy to think?!
I think she's actually a decent girl and that she's just finding it a bit nerve-racking meeting a guy who she's been well,set up with.
Just waiting for reply msg (fingers crossed! haha)
Sent her a couple of txt msgs yesterday and no reply. Hmmmm, what's going on I wonder? Anyway, have a chat with my colleague today and she says she'll find out why no reply.
Anyway, text msg just arrived and we're currently in discussions about were to go. Appears she ran out of credit - fair does, we've all done it. Thoughts are meet say 5pm and find somewhere to have a meal then just see what happens. Think she's a bit nervous as first of all she couldn't make this saturday but now she's saying she might be able to.
What's a guy to think?!
I think she's actually a decent girl and that she's just finding it a bit nerve-racking meeting a guy who she's been well,set up with.
Just waiting for reply msg (fingers crossed! haha)
