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Old Jan 4, 2016 | 12:23 AM
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Originally Posted by legb4rsk
Sounds like your boy is spoilt. He needed a lot of attention when a baby & you have let it continue.

Then you have a massive row in front of the kids calling 101 & shouting kidnap!!.

Your the ones who need therapy.You need to get some family counselling before you completely screw up your kids.

Outrageous behavior.
Are you serious.....10pm at night you idiot and he was sleeping, I phoned 101 to see if I could take him with me as if I had walked out of the door he wouldn't of forgiven me tomorrow morning.
As for 'kidnap'....yep that's what she phoned the police claiming I was doing?

Next question.....if nothing to add pal step back
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Old Jan 4, 2016 | 01:48 AM
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Originally Posted by donny andi
Are you serious.....10pm at night you idiot and he was sleeping, I phoned 101 to see if I could take him with me as if I had walked out of the door he wouldn't of forgiven me tomorrow morning.
As for 'kidnap'....yep that's what she phoned the police claiming I was doing?

Next question.....if nothing to add pal step back

' he wouldn't of forgiven me tomorrow morning' says all you need to know about the family dynamic.

You need professional help.

Good luck.
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Old Jan 4, 2016 | 08:07 AM
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Oh dear, doesn't sound too good.

Someone needs to be the adult in all of this as it sounds to me like there's a house full of spoilt brats all wanting their own way, which is never going to happen.

Is it not possible to live in peace and avoid confrontation, there are many couples that live separate lives but stay together for the sake of the family unit, no need to rip the house / family apart, proves nothing and there are never any winners.

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Old Jan 4, 2016 | 10:59 AM
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Originally Posted by donny andi
Are you serious.....10pm at night you idiot and he was sleeping, I phoned 101 to see if I could take him with me as if I had walked out of the door he wouldn't of forgiven me tomorrow morning.
As for 'kidnap'....yep that's what she phoned the police claiming I was doing?

Next question.....if nothing to add pal step back
How would he sleep through a blazing argument? I bet you c ouldnt.....

Iecho others sentiments. You need professional help.
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Old Jan 8, 2016 | 09:44 PM
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All has gone quiet here, I hope all is well for them all, life deals us some crap doesn't it?
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Old Jan 8, 2016 | 11:12 PM
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It sure does.

He's a good lad at heart, I'm sure he's taking care of his kids.
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Old Jan 9, 2016 | 10:35 AM
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I tried to give some pragmatic logical advice but when your in that maelstrom of emotion of a family break up with your kids involved & a unhelpful partner all that goes out the window.

I have been through the same so really feel for him.It can completely mess up your rational thinking & I looked into the abyss many times & it looked pretty inviting.

I hope there is someone close who can give the help & love that's needed.
His response to me was totally expected under the circumstances & I hope he finds the time to come back on here with some positive news.
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Old Jan 9, 2016 | 11:06 AM
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Yes, I echo that

The internet is prob not the best place to deal with this stuff, (especially NSR)

But I appreciate everyone needs to talk/confide with friends etc

Hopefully a resolution can be found
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Old Jan 9, 2016 | 05:08 PM
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Andi has just been in touch through PM, things are getting sorted out positively, I'm sure he'll be along to let us all know how things are when he's ready
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