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I need everyones Help!!
I would not normaly put personal things on here but I could really do with everyones HELP at this moment in time.
Alot of you know that at the halfway house the children played me up big time and I got really embarassed and went home, anyway I am starting to be alot more firm with them, so this is where you lot come in..........if the boys are playing me up at any events please please would you turn and talk to yourselfs rather than watching the boys cos they think they have an audience and tend to play up more when everyone is watching. I just want to say in advance Thankyou for your help in doing this, If I don't nib this in the bud now, god knows what they will be like when they are teenagers. Thankyou. |
Good Luck with this STI-cky, there are no manuals supplied with Children.:notworthy
I'm sure everyone will support you all the way...and Ian of coarse...:thumb: |
;) cant we just kick them for you???? :p
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Yep noted Sti-cki :thumb:
Allthough @ the Lodge meets , I Never notice they are there , Perhaps cos they are out playing with the others ? Tiny ... |
Originally Posted by Spec'c'57
;) cant we just kick them for you???? :p
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Originally Posted by STI-CKI
As long as I can kick you first:p
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Originally Posted by STI-CKI
I would not normaly put personal things on here but I could really do with everyones HELP at this moment in time.
Alot of you know that at the halfway house the children played me up big time and I got really embarassed and went home, anyway I am starting to be alot more firm with them, so this is where you lot come in..........if the boys are playing me up at any events please please would you turn and talk to yourselfs rather than watching the boys cos they think they have an audience and tend to play up more when everyone is watching. I just want to say in advance Thankyou for your help in doing this, If I don't nib this in the bud now, god knows what they will be like when they are teenagers. Thankyou. |
I will try...
But say they do something FUNNY, are we aloud to LAUGH!!! as this will incourge them, But also i may not be able to contain myself, But i will try very very hard ;) |
They wont play up as much if they are ignored Sticks
Good luck! Vicki :D |
I think youv got everyones backing on this one stics! Good luck, kids? Whoed have them hay!!!!!!!!
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kids? what kids?? ;)
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:lol:
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Originally Posted by WRX_Dazza
kids? what kids?? ;)
But that's a classic !!! :D Sure Sticks will see the funny side :D !!! |
Originally Posted by WRX_Dazza
kids? what kids?? ;)
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kids
i know how embarassing it can get .. its like it every time we go shopping . i just walk away and let lisa deal with them :norty: .;) no point shouting at them they just do it more . the other day taylor age 5 at school decided to get a tadpole out the school pond and play catch with it but he dropped it and killed it .when lisa told me i had to laugh:lol: i could not keep a straight face .. :D :D :D . so STI-CKI dont worry its not just your kids its all of them no matter what anybody else says ... NO KIDS ARE PERFECT AT THIS AGE . all part of the growing up process . .:norty: . you was like it once ... i know i was . see you soon only if the kids havent killed me off at an early age.. :thumb: WAZ .
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Originally Posted by wazo'swrx
i know how embarassing it can get .. its like it every time we go shopping . i just walk away and let lisa deal with them :norty: .;) no point shouting at them they just do it more . the other day taylor age 5 at school decided to get a tadpole out the school pond and play catch with it but he dropped it and killed it .when lisa told me i had to laugh:lol: i could not keep a straight face .. :D :D :D . so STI-CKI dont worry its not just your kids its all of them no matter what anybody else says ... NO KIDS ARE PERFECT AT THIS AGE . all part of the growing up process . .:norty: . you was like it once ... i know i was . see you soon only if the kids havent killed me off at an early age.. :thumb: WAZ .
My youngest one has ADHD, which doesn't help things, when people don't realise that they think I cant handle him, anyway I had a great weekend with all my ESC friends and came back to my youngest one (Ross) having nicked cans of beer and bottles of wine from his granparents house which the older children dared him to do, then yesterday came home from a lovely day out to find he had got coloured hair spray and sprayed my fence with the word FCUK all over it, I made him clean it off, but this was the last straw he has pushed me to far and it needs to be nibbed in the bud now. sorry just had to get that out my system. Thanks everyone for your help and kind words. |
you know we will ALL help where we can sticks...
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what is ADHD?
Is that like hyperactivity :wonder: |
Yep not a problem:cuckoo: , I have four nieces, two of them are angels and the other two are just the opposite, cant sit still and wind each other up like your two, realy does anoy me, and do feel sorry for you as I see my sister go through the same problems you do, it was just like watching my nieces fighting and taking the mick out of you at the Halfway House, its hard but hopefully they will grow out of it:notworthy
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Children With Attention-Deficit Hyperactive Disorder, by Waln K. Brown, Ph.D., and Sandra Grove Dykes, M.Ed., 4,121 words, 16 pages. ADHD is a common problem in children and has been a source of controversy for nearly 50 years. Some experts believe that ADHD is merely a mixture of symptoms used to describe “bratty” children. Other experts contend that it is a medical syndrome. Furthermore, some research studies claim that as high as 10% of all American children show signs of ADHD, while other research studies argue that between 3% and 5% is a more accurate range. These discrepancies exist because diagnosis of ADHD is difficult. No laboratory test or study can scientifically identify ADHD is children. Therefore, parents, teachers and other professionals must make their own diagnoses based upon observations of a child’s behavior over time. It is not surprising, then, that ADHD has become one of the most discussed childhood behavioral disorders. These children have ongoing periods of excitability, impulsivity and motor activity. Because of their behaviors, ADHD children often become the focus of negative attention. An ADHD child’s life adjustment can be influenced dramatically by how others view the problem and how the child views him or herself. This publication is a guide to identifying, coping with, managing and teaching ADHD children. It is our hope that the information herein contained will help parents, educators and other professionals to understand the many aspects of ADHD and the many ways they can help ADHD children control or overcome their behaviors sorry for the long text .. sticks hope you dont mind . i know people whos kids have this so i know how you feel . mine dont but are just as bad .. |
Originally Posted by cookstar
what is ADHD?
Is that like hyperactivity :wonder: |
Thanks for that, sorry STICKS hope you didnt mind me asking either, my mother swears i had this as a kid thts why i was interested.
It is something that they grow out of though isnt it |
What is ADHD?
ADHD often prevents children from learning and socialising well. Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) and attention deficit disorder (ADD) refer to a range of problem behaviours associated with poor attention span. These may include impulsiveness, restlessness and hyperactivity, as well as inattentiveness, and often prevent children from learning and socialising well. ADHD is sometimes referred to as hyperkinetic disorder. Basically means that Ross isnt a little toe rag, just needs people to understand him and help him along the way :) Vicki :D |
read and understood :thumb:
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got my support :)
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Know the feeling
Know how you feel sticki ,as i was telling you before my son Billy has probs too and as some of you know he made wonderful entertainment the first time i went to the lodge on me own with the kids.After wanting the floor to open up and swallow me and nearly going home i stuck it out and when he realised he wasnt going to win he got a bit better ,only for the other 3 to start OH THE JOY OF MOTHERHOOD.Thats why me and Mick wont be having any kids together we bought a puppy instead:) .Dont go hokme next time sticki we'll just :brickwall :brickwall together xx
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Good luck Stick's, we're all with ya hun ;)
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no problem i have kids we know what its like or what u should do is play up urself through urself to the floor and start screaming and shouting kicking ur legs and arms like on that advert i have tried this and works me and the misses do this seems to keep them in check lol
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Originally Posted by V1CK1
What is ADHD?
ADHD often prevents children from learning and socialising well. Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) and attention deficit disorder (ADD) refer to a range of problem behaviours associated with poor attention span. These may include impulsiveness, restlessness and hyperactivity, as well as inattentiveness, and often prevent children from learning and socialising well. ADHD is sometimes referred to as hyperkinetic disorder. Basically means that Ross isnt a little toe rag, just needs people to understand him and help him along the way :) Vicki :D Mummy always said I was special.......VERY special :D Will try and help Sticki, promise I won't bring another rude magazine Ross |
Originally Posted by kin quick
Mummy always said I was special.......VERY special :D
Will try and help Sticki, promise I won't bring another rude magazine Ross |
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