Girl help again - sorry
 

right, so theres this lass at college (pretty lass, and single, likes rock like i do) and she asked yesterday if i was going out tuesday night (just finished)
Anyways, i see her in Trilogy and we dance the night away and have a real good times. Not much difference than other times ive seen a lass who wants a lad to dance next to and then pair off with some chap ( :( ). BUT, this lass hugged me and said "got to go, cya later" which is rather strange.

Is this a good sign? or a sign of GOODBYE, nver talk to me again malarky

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, what to do

Sounds like she had been waiting for you to make a move and when you didn't she left? Sorry, prob not what you wanted to hear.

Try to see her again, say you had a good night at Trilogy (club i pressume) and would she like to go out for a drink :)

ah right.

ok ok ok.

Well you learnt a lesson: ALWAYS be the first to leave!

But if you want to see her again, don't be the first to come ;) :norty:

she was more than likely playing with your mind...all women do!

Yep. My wife of 29 years this year, dumped me on our first date.:(

4 weeks later she came over to me in a club and sat on my knee, we've been together ever since. All together...........aaaaaaaaaaaaaaah:D:

Alcazar

BTW: old bit of advice given to me by my father when I was 17: NEVER try to understand a woman. They don't think logically. And don't bother arguing with one, either, same reason;)

What time did this girl leave the club? And I assume she actually left the club?

I think you need to look out for her, say you had a great time and ask her out again. Otherwise if not bored of waiting for you to make a move the other night she soon will be! Theres no downside to asking her out, other than she says no. But if you ask when your friends aren't around no one will know you asked if she says no!

grow some bollox and ask her out dude!!

Ye ask, nothing better than being direct.

Seems you are slightly matey with her so you need to word it so you clearly want a date.

For example - Would you like to go out for a drink, just the two of us. Or you could just ask if she wants to go on a date with you.

She's not gonna take offence anyway.

Rich

she could get all freaked out and get really distant if you're too obvious. You kind of just need to set up a date....but leave her guessing whether it is a proper date or not, and hope you confuse her into bed :D

Not sure about that, unless she's really immature she's not gonna let it bother her.

Chances are she's got an idea that you like her anyway.

I'm guessing the lass is about 18? White lightning and plenty of it should do the trick! For her not you!

M8 ur screwed, women are evil and only after your cash and to toy with your emotions. If she's 18 she'll be about as faithfull as a randy rabbit.
Shag it and get it out of your system

says he!

tell her you have a scoob if that doesnt get her moist nothing will .shag it then dump it she will only end up screwing you over anyway

Women are like monkeys, they hold onto you until something else better comes past that they can swing onto and hold onto.

^^^What he said ;)^^^

PMSL If i told a woman i had a scoob and she liked that fact i'd run a mile and find a woman who had decent taste in automobiles/didn't like chav cars :lol1: ;)

Poor Guy can we have an update?

You can be her friend or you can f*ck her; but you cant be her friend and then f*ck her. Once youre in the 'friend zone' youve **** it Im afraid.

Simon

its a horrible situation now. im now rather more interested in her. she loves metal and thats a rare thing to find. also, she didnt run away................
ahh **** this. next week ill just say "wanna meet in spoons at 8?"

Spoons the position or spoons the club :norty: :D

Andy

fcuk her and chuck her mate if u do get involved you will be tearing yourself apart thinking what she is upto when she is away. put yourself in her shoes what would you do if you were away and no one would find out what you got upto shagcity!

Was this before or after you told her what kind of car you own? :D

:Suspiciou

All girls like my car. Its strange.
"do you drive"
"yeah, a GT6"
"whats one of those?"
"Well its a classic sports car, its purple and loud"
"Oh ive seen that round town, its cool as ****...blahblahblah

Must be because it curvey Italian style and poiple

and then she walked out :D:D:D:D

didnt get onto car actually

just music

" AND WHEN IM DRUNK I DANCE LIKE MYDAD" .........Robbie wiliams :D