I been havin nights out with this babe of a girl on and off for about 1.5 years and gettin all the right signs from her, so i finally ask her if she feels the same way as i do, n she says

"i may have done but now i get on so well with you as a friend, I wouldnt want to loose that !"

I'm thinking bollocks, should i have been more aggresive/forward in the beginning ?

Now im feelin reet gutted.

Tell her to stick her friendship and put out or fook off. Never pays to be nicey nicey with women. They like a rogue.

You have to be joking!!

The 'get on well with you as a friend' should set alarm bells ringing. Go find another bird, she's trying to give you the tactful brush-off.

To be honest I am usually percieved initially as a rouge, but its gone on for so long that she has seen my nicer side. Now she see's me as one of those male friends who birds can talk to,

eg:

she was rantin to me about her boss who fancies her an how she dont like im etc etc..... borin

I want fook

How do i fix it ?

Rape is such a nasty word, I so much prefer the term 'Suprise Sex' :)

I am offcourse kidding!

Hmm the brush off, I dunno cos she did admit to me once thqt there was chemistry between us, but now she says its gone past that...

W T F

Group buy on Rohypnol ? ;)

This only reinforces the point that I keep trying to make that there are very few men that can be true friends with women. Classic scenario:

Bloke: "who was that"
Burd: "That was John - he's just a friend"
Bloke: "Eye-right"
Burd: "Seriously he is, its not like that"
Bloke: "To you maybe!"

I have lots and lots of good female friends, I think the world of them and we have a great time. Owing to there emotional makeup (i.e. being female) they would never sleep with me and will always just be friends. Owing to my emotional makeup (being male) I'd screw every one of them if I got even half an indication they'd let me. When will women ever learn that 99% of guys think with their dicks :rolleyes::D

I had visions of doin a 50's movie routine on her ie: sweep off feet in a dramatic smooch fashion, but that takes some doin i tell thee !

What if that goes wrong n I drop heror she rejects me ?

Saxoboy, u r so right, all blokes know this, why dont the women ???????

Well if she's dissing your makeup, you should definitely get rid !! ;)

But seriously, if she says there's no chemistry there, then don't try to force the issue or you'll just end up upsetting yourself. If it's just a casual thing she wants and you're happy with that, stick to that arrangement. If however you want something different it looks like she may not be the one ...

Only 99% SB, I was under the impression it was 100% :D:D

Ha ha nice on, my sperling in bad!

Your prob right in what u say, but it isnt easy knowin that once she felt like I do, i jus didnt do anything about it at the time an now maybe iv lost out bigtime, cos she is proper stunnin.

PICS You can't tell us that without showing us some pics. It's cruel.

I would do, but then it might somehow get back to her, sorry guys... n lezzers. Shes 5 n half foot, size 8, pretty isnt the word for tr her n lovely black hair, gotta go will post more later...

start sayin you fancy her mate then see what happens

I was taking a leaf out of Durex's book and accounting for freak occurances by quoting a figure that allows for such occurances without litigation ;):D

PM them to me, I'm sure I could use Photoshop to conceal her identity LOL

Of course, if it all goes bad and you end up not even friends with her any more, it won't matter. ;)

Jesus :eek: 1.5 years :eek:

Man, you have the patience of a saint :D

*************************** GET HER PI55ED **********************

My advice...is cut out the unnecessary expense of a relationship/marriage/kids....stay friends, subscribe to a porn channel, indulge in the odd hand shandy. It will shortcut you to about the 12 years of marriage stage!! ;)

www.laddertheory.com

:)

Do yourself a favour mate - waste no more time and emotion on this girl. Keep her as a friend, but go and find yourself an equally gorgeous girl who wants the same as you. No-one deserves to have the pi55 taken out of them like that.

Me ? Bitter ..........?

T

FAO EClaire - checkmate - I win that argument!!!

That Ladder Theory website is class...... however wrote that hit the nail on the head...:)

Uh-oh!

Ladder theory: Hit the nail on the head.. Aaagh. What happens if you're the cuddle b1tch of a religious nut?

Am I really a cuddle b1tch, or am I on the good ladder, just that she's a religious nut :confused:

Heeeeeelllllppppp!!

:D:D:D:D

Paulwrxboro:
Without readin your post, I have actuley been off an told her properly how I feel, so I guess I gotta wait n see what transpires next eh ? (im hopin it is good advice)

Daz34:
I think I had a little bit too much paitence, but then again I was with someone at the time.

Paulwrxboro:
Gettin her v pissed is another great idea, may have to follow that one up...if she is still speakin to me after lettin her know how I really feel !!

Tazman:
Hmmm, I see where ur comin from(not literaly), but ultimatly, beating one off is not as satisfying.

Freak:
Ladder theory says im in a bad place, n dont I know it, amazinly accurate though, reccomeded readin cheers m8.

TonyNesta:
I will give up if my declaration of my feelings for her fails, like u say there will be someone with whom things may just fall into place.

Im prayin she's not a cuddle bitch...

Will post as soon as I hear anything !

[Edited by VinPetrol - 12/12/2003 4:26:49 PM]

[Edited by VinPetrol - 12/12/2003 4:30:24 PM]

OH NO, I'M A CUDDLE BITCH! :eek::eek::eek:!

Sorry, but from a female's view......thats a brush off BIG TIME! We don't want to offend too much so use the friend/brother line if we don't fancy you.

Its in the manual we are given when we are born, page 693!

:D