does anyone know where i can get the gold mesh to put in a new age grille to replace the standard one ??

Halfords do a range, as do Demon Tweeks, and good car shops. Several colours and styles of mesh, in alloy, about £11 for a piece big enough to do the upper and lower grilles.
Alcazar

cheers mate !!

You could try www.autostyling.uk.com as they do a good range.

Andy.