It was more of a cheeky bit of banter lol :thumb:

A hunched over wrinkled cripple smelling of wee with a 19yo honey sat on my face :norty:

:lol1::lol1:

I totally agree with your statement, but you know what I mean. I spend nowt on my lass in the way of showering her with gifts & still get "happy time" :lol1:

some wimmn are more high maintenance than others :norty:

Agree about walking out with a boner...lol

Some in this country do go that bit further, but for 20 quid i thought it was ok.
Norwich is nr GT Yarmouth :)

LMFAO...

After having spent a week in Vegas at end of July/beginning of August I can sympathise! I presume you stayed away from the card flicking mexicans?! And the stumbling back to your hotel in daylight, slightly worse for wear, wondering why all these young ladies want to talk to you all of a sudden... ;)

We won't mention the fully nude but no beer thing.... which sucks. *ahem*

When I went to the spearmint rhino in Birmingham I was quite surprised by how much touching went on. For starters the girls all play with themselves in front of you and then each of them had a quick nibble on my old fella through my trousers!

The girls were absolutely amazing too. I wasn't a fan before but I loved it.

They were after me paying more for stuff but I couldnt work out what I was getting for my money and I couldnt of handled much more teasing! I'd of ended up getting hospitalised by the bouncers.

Surely someone has paid for the extras in Spearmint Rhinos and can report back?

Lol...yep! Sounds the same as Norwich.
I did wonder what you get for the £60 instead of having £20 dances :)

How many of you with partners would feel that being given a dance that involved the girl touching or nibbling through your trousers would be akin to cheating?

My mrs knew I was going there and dont male strippers do the same for women?

Not sure how it is construed as cheating??

It depends how much you weight you put on sex and being faithful. My wife would certainly think that having another woman touching me was border-line being unfaithful.

Although she wouldn't be that impressed with me going to a lapdance club in the first place (which is why I asked earlier what actually goes on as I haven't been to one!). So presumably any wife who is okay with their husband going is okay with them being touched and/or aroused by another women.

Steve

Yep, don't think Nat would be too impressed with me if I wanted to go to a titty bar either. But she has small boobs so probably has an insignificant feeling, bit like me and men with hair :D

Not my idea, as it was my best man organising my stag night, and my other half knew where i was and where i was going, so its not an issue if your honest.

I'm not accusing anyone of cheating, don't get me wrong, I just wondered how many of you would feel uncomfortable with it. I suppose another way of looking at it is how many of you would feel uncomfortable with the idea of your partner being touched and aroused by a man in a comparable situation?

I have to be honest and say that it it pleases me to think that there are some good, genuine blokes on here who would consider it to be borderline unfaithful. It restores my faith in the notion that there are still trustworthy men in the world :thumb:

I'll remain 100% trustworthy when my missuse can be 100% trusted to cater for my desires and needs ;)

There are good men & bad men, same as women & plenty of un-trustworthy women too Scoobychick, It's just that most of the time in magazines & on the telly the man is the lying/cheating piece-o-shyte... mind you if you actually take the time to look at commercials, most of the time the men are made out to be complete idiots & their wife/GF is the brain in the partnership.

I don't consider the sort of lapdancing described above as being unfaithful, I consider it to be disrespectful to your partner.

/soapbox

It's all about the Flying Scotsman in Kings Cross. Pound in the pint glass and you get the dirtiest girls in London.

Also the Wagon and Horses on the A5. Pound in the pint glass and you get to see some rotters baggy flange.

Unfortunetly I have only ever had the experience of the low end of the market as I am tight and refuse to pay for some fit bird to strip off in fromt of me and sit on my lap while she thinks about what shes gonna have for tea.

Of all the marriages I've seen disintegrate through infidelity, it has been the female straying in EVERY case. I always say it's because women only have to offer sex to get it, men have to ask, beg, plead or pay for it !

The other dominant cause I have witnessed over the years is the often diminishing female libido. I think many men are perfectly happy to make love to the same woman for their whole lives, whereas women start losing interest once the initial throws of passion start to dull, leaving men increasingly frustrated as the difference in desire grows wider over time. There are of course exceptions, and in the past there was conjugal rape to redress the balance, but as male hormones make us seek out physical love, happiness and sexual fulfilment, whereas female hormones make them into axe-wielding, psychotic, miserable, moaning, whining, temperamental, right-royal pains in the @r$£ there will always be an imbalance. Monogamy is an idealist fallacy.

I know my last GF would not of liked it.(well i say last thats debatable)she used to get mad if i got to talkative and flirty with her mates.I remember meeting one of her mates once alone outside her flat and she found out and didn't talk with me for a week.Then she started sending me txt messages saying im on the Bus sitting next to some guy and im touching him,then it was the repair man has come to my house to fix the tv,and im dressed up all sexy for him.I know girls can be just a flirty when they want to,they just do it more discreetly than say a guy going to a strip bar..I think i would be ok with it as long as it didnt go too far,it's natural for a guy and girl to flirt,even if your with someone.some people would say a kiss on the cheek would be classed as cheating.im kind of 50/50 on this..

I have been but its gone from being tittillation to some kind of Gynaecological exam to music.

Yep - pretty much in line with my thoughts.

Have to agree, keep that sort of thing for when you are single. Once you are married or in a relationship, you have to have some sort of commitment, which includes leaving out any sort of behaviour your other half would see as being out of order ( nibbling you through your trousers I would say would definitely be included in that, as would your mrs grabbing a male strippers package and having a good feel or a quick suck ).

Does all come down to respect.

I don't think it's neccasarily cheating, both attached men and women will always look, but it does depend on how far some guys are prepared to go......:nono:

Shopping !

Look longingly through the window, or

Go in and try it on, or

Buy it and keep it a secret, or

Buy it and throw away the useless old worn out tatt it replaces :D

You can look at the menu as long as your eating at home!

For that sort of money you could fly to Hong Kong and have 7 women back to your room performing the most revolting acts imaginable, whilst ironing your clothes for work the next morning.:(

I think it would cost a little more than that....although I do take your point :)