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KiwiGTI 20 December 2006 09:30 AM

No , you aren't being paranoid at all. It's not right for someone to "want to get to know" their ex again.

He sounds like a very weak indivual that you are better off without.

Ruthlessly dump him and say you aren't prepared to put up with this behaviour.

Neverguess 20 December 2006 09:35 AM


Originally Posted by needhelp
No i don't think he will..:lol1:

It is hard to believe him sometimes because he's lied to me in the past about stuff!:(


It's not my ex is it?? :Suspiciou

KiwiGTI 20 December 2006 09:37 AM

Forgot to add, if you are fit, open minded and up for new experiences then PM me with a recent photo. :thumb:

Nat 20 December 2006 09:38 AM

Oh, if he's already lied to you then i wouldn't trust him in this situation at all.

jasey 20 December 2006 09:38 AM


Originally Posted by KiwiGTI
Forgot to add, if you are fit, open minded and up for new experiences then PM me with a recent photo. :thumb:

I think you should add Female to your spec ;)

KiwiGTI 20 December 2006 09:41 AM


Originally Posted by jasey
I think you should add Female to your spec ;)

I presumed she was female when she said her boyfriend, but given a couple of other threads on here at the moment I suppose I should be careful. :)

Abdabz 20 December 2006 09:50 AM

I went out with a girl from 1992-1994 and after split we only spoke at other peoples parties etc.
In 2000 we got back in touch, well I contacted her and we have been in contact ever since. Nothing has happened and it's all been by email, but regular contact has led to nothing other than me getting wedding and baby photo's from her and regular updates as to how our lives are progressing as we grow up.
My lady who I have been with for 3 years knows we are in touch but it's so innocent neither of us really mention it.
The ex mentions the 4 of us going out together, but they live miles away and I'm not that fussed.
So in short, it's unlikely to be innocent, but it could be. If he has a track record for being a liar then excercise caution and try to have an open conversation about it explaining your concerns etc.

DCI Gene Hunt 20 December 2006 09:52 AM


Originally Posted by Neverguess
It's not my ex is it?? :Suspiciou

The Ex you want to shag or the other Ex's :D

Neverguess 20 December 2006 10:04 AM


Originally Posted by DCI Gene Hunt
The Ex you want to shag or the other Ex's :D


Hey!! He might be a liar but he was good in bed :mad:

CrisPDuk 20 December 2006 10:06 AM


Originally Posted by needhelp
somehow I don't think thats going to happen, for one it would give my identy away!!..:lol1:


Why:confused:

Are you short with ginger hair:D;)

Seriously though, if after 3 years together, you feel you can't ask him what he's thinking about with something as important as this, without him accusing you of being paranoid, I'd say you've answered your own question!

What's the point of being in a relationship if you can't talk to each other openly and honestly:confused:

DCI Gene Hunt 20 December 2006 10:20 AM


Originally Posted by Neverguess
Hey!! He might be a liar but he was good in bed :mad:

So am I, do you want to shag me :D

davegtt 20 December 2006 10:22 AM


Originally Posted by DCI Gene Hunt
So am I, do you want to shag me :D

Thats a lie :D

RMA26 20 December 2006 10:28 AM


Originally Posted by davegtt
Thats a lie :D

I have to agree, but Dave has hands on experience **so i hear**

davegtt 20 December 2006 10:29 AM

Hands on what? :freak3: This isnt the homosexual thread btw :lol1:

RMA26 20 December 2006 10:30 AM


Originally Posted by davegtt
Hands on what? :freak3: This isnt the homosexual thread btw :lol1:

Exactly, what are you doing in here then:hjtwofing

Neverguess 20 December 2006 10:31 AM


Originally Posted by DCI Gene Hunt
So am I, do you want to shag me :D


No ta :)

This poor girl is in turmoil, get back on topic :mad:

I say sleep with his best friend :) That'll learn him :thumb:

davegtt 20 December 2006 10:32 AM


Originally Posted by Neverguess
No ta :)

This poor girl is in turmoil, get back on topic :mad:

I say sleep with his best friend :) That'll learn him :thumb:

Thats my best mate your suggesting she cheats on.... :mad:

Go for it :thumb:

needhelp 20 December 2006 10:34 AM

:lol1: you lot can never keep on topic

jasey 20 December 2006 10:35 AM


Originally Posted by needhelp
:lol1: you lot can never keep on topic

Suppose a shag is out of the question.

I wont tell my wife :D

miss*scoobygav555* 20 December 2006 10:39 AM

you should talk to him, tell him how you feel and if he loves you he will understand!!..:)

KiwiGTI 20 December 2006 10:42 AM


Originally Posted by miss*scoobygav555*
you should talk to him, tell him how you feel and if he loves you he will understand!!..:)

No he won't. Sometimes I wonder whether anyone here lives in the real world.

He'll lie to try and get what's best for him. He'll just try and change tactics so that e can have his cake and eat it too.

RichWalk 20 December 2006 10:44 AM

You can't expect things to last for ever :(

Neverguess 20 December 2006 10:46 AM


Originally Posted by KiwiGTI
No he won't. Sometimes I wonder whether anyone here lives in the real world.

He'll lie to try and get what's best for him. He'll just try and change tactics so that e can have his cake and eat it too.


Nice honest post :thumb: :D

DCI Gene Hunt 20 December 2006 10:48 AM

Need new thread..... "Neverguess Won't shag the DCI....." :(


The only fcuk Im getting is a 'Fcuk off'...... :D


.... Now where's that number for my Ex.... ;) :lol1:

miss*scoobygav555* 20 December 2006 10:49 AM


Originally Posted by KiwiGTI
No he won't. Sometimes I wonder whether anyone here lives in the real world.

He'll lie to try and get what's best for him. He'll just try and change tactics so that e can have his cake and eat it too.

You men don't stand up for your own kind do you!!:lol1: Not all men are c@cks, can't believe I just said that!!..:wonder: :lol1:

Its worth a try, if it was me I would talk to him and tell him how I feel and if I wasn't happy with the answer, then I'd dump him!!..:lol1:

Carla..:D

DCI Gene Hunt 20 December 2006 10:52 AM


Originally Posted by miss*scoobygav555*
Not all men are c@cks

Oh yes we are ;) :D

miss*scoobygav555* 20 December 2006 10:54 AM

true, I don't know what I was thinking when I said that!!..:lol1:

jasey 20 December 2006 10:55 AM


Originally Posted by miss*scoobygav555*
Not all men are c@cks

There's more cocks than pooftas :D



Which is good news for the poofs I suppose.

KiwiGTI 20 December 2006 10:57 AM


Originally Posted by miss*scoobygav555*
You men don't stand up for your own kind do you!!:lol1: Not all men are c@cks, can't believe I just said that!!..:wonder: :lol1:

Call me old fashioned but I believe if you are in a relationship with a person then you should give 100% to them. That doesn't include lying (as he has done) or wanting to get to know the ex (which is a pathetic excuse)

Ex's are in the past and that's where they should stay. There are people that say they are still in contact with an ex but generally the ex has another partner or there are kids involved.

But if the ex is still single there is only a couple of reasons for him to be interested again - free casual sex or he's thinking of getting out of the relationship.

miss*scoobygav555* 20 December 2006 10:59 AM

maybe you're right. Most men only think with there d!cks!!..:D


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