split up with g/f -now what?
22 October 2005, 11:53 PM
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split up with g/f -now what?
split up 2 weeks ago with girlf after a year together-now what-already using hand so any more suggestions as to what path life should take...-sorry if im to point but hey-why beat about bush....
22 October 2005, 11:54 PM
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I thought that the whole problem was that you were not beating about the bush, and were having to use your hand 
On a more serious note, you should do what you feel you want to.
On a more serious note, you should do what you feel you want to.
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22 October 2005, 11:58 PM
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well obviously now im alone i cant sort of go out anymore-so here i am on a saturday nite stuck at home drinking vodka-even volunteered to work sunday night at work as heck whats point of staying sat in house otherwise-so how does an ugly bloke go about getting a lady?
23 October 2005, 12:14 AM
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You were only with her for a year.......
Get out and get with it.
I take it you went headlong into it with your ex and lost touch or the respect of the good drinking mates you had previously?
Or, you could have been a geek before her and had no friends - in which case you're back to square one, but a year older and still friendless??
Get out and get with it.
I take it you went headlong into it with your ex and lost touch or the respect of the good drinking mates you had previously?
Or, you could have been a geek before her and had no friends - in which case you're back to square one, but a year older and still friendless??
23 October 2005, 12:21 AM
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Originally Posted by ^OPM^
well obviously now im alone i cant sort of go out anymore-so here i am on a saturday nite stuck at home drinking vodka-even volunteered to work sunday night at work as heck whats point of staying sat in house otherwise-so how does an ugly bloke go about getting a lady?
2. How'd you get the lady you've just split up with then, if you're SO ugly?
Try the same tactics again, mebbe?
3. Just how ugly ARE you?
23 October 2005, 12:24 AM
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im the latter part of ur quotes
Originally Posted by fatherpierre
You were only with her for a year.......
Get out and get with it.
I take it you went headlong into it with your ex and lost touch or the respect of the good drinking mates you had previously?
Or, you could have been a geek before her and had no friends - in which case you're back to square one, but a year older and still friendless??
Get out and get with it.
I take it you went headlong into it with your ex and lost touch or the respect of the good drinking mates you had previously?
Or, you could have been a geek before her and had no friends - in which case you're back to square one, but a year older and still friendless??
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23 October 2005, 12:25 AM
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Originally Posted by ScoobyAddict
1. Haven't you got any mates? -nope
2. How'd you get the lady you've just split up with then, if you're SO ugly?
Try the same tactics again, mebbe? bribery lol
3. Just how ugly ARE you?
2. How'd you get the lady you've just split up with then, if you're SO ugly?
Try the same tactics again, mebbe? bribery lol
3. Just how ugly ARE you?
that answered you?
23 October 2005, 12:30 AM
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Well, if you didn't have friends before, you've not lost anything other than a year of your life. 'Kin much less than most!
I can't give you many (or any!) tips on making friends as it's a thing that happens naturally and can't be forced. Your job usually helps with making friends??
As for being ugly............... It's in the eye of the beholder. I know ugly blokes who have no trouble with women, although they are ugly women (usually). Confidence and getting out there are what's needed.
I can't give you many (or any!) tips on making friends as it's a thing that happens naturally and can't be forced. Your job usually helps with making friends??
As for being ugly............... It's in the eye of the beholder. I know ugly blokes who have no trouble with women, although they are ugly women (usually). Confidence and getting out there are what's needed.
23 October 2005, 12:32 AM
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took up swimming now go about 2 or 3 times a week and swim a mile-but hey i probably swim like a drowning rat!
Originally Posted by fatherpierre
Well, if you didn't have friends before, you've not lost anything other than a year of your life. 'Kin much less than most!
I can't give you many (or any!) tips on making friends as it's a thing that happens naturally and can't be forced. Your job usually helps with making friends??
As for being ugly............... It's in the eye of the beholder. I know ugly blokes who have no trouble with women, although they are ugly women (usually). Confidence and getting out there are what's needed.
I can't give you many (or any!) tips on making friends as it's a thing that happens naturally and can't be forced. Your job usually helps with making friends??
As for being ugly............... It's in the eye of the beholder. I know ugly blokes who have no trouble with women, although they are ugly women (usually). Confidence and getting out there are what's needed.
23 October 2005, 12:37 AM
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Take up boxing, or if that's too much join a gym and get your body in shape - your mind and confidence always follow.
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23 October 2005, 12:51 AM
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Originally Posted by fatherpierre
As for being ugly............... It's in the eye of the beholder. I know ugly blokes who have no trouble with women, although they are ugly women (usually).
For the average woman though, an honest, dependable personality, along with a decent sense of humour is what counts at the end of the day & a good-looking ar$ehole will always be an ar$ehole!
Why stay in the house anyway OPM, you've still got your scooby, haven't you?
Blimey, don't give up yet mate! Get out there, drive, swim, whatever, you certainly won't meet anyone sat alone in your house, drinking vodka & moping!
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Originally Posted by ScoobyAddict
Not necessarily true, many of the world's most beautiful women are or have been, married to some of the planet's ugliest men, (Christie Brinkley / Billy Joel, Jerry Hall / Mick Jagger, the list is endless!)
For the average woman though, an honest, dependable personality, along with a decent sense of humour is what counts at the end of the day & a good-looking ar$ehole will always be an ar$ehole!
Why stay in the house anyway OPM, you've still got your scooby, haven't you?
Blimey, don't give up yet mate! Get out there, drive, swim, whatever, you certainly won't meet anyone sat alone in your house, drinking vodka & moping!
For the average woman though, an honest, dependable personality, along with a decent sense of humour is what counts at the end of the day & a good-looking ar$ehole will always be an ar$ehole!
Why stay in the house anyway OPM, you've still got your scooby, haven't you?
Blimey, don't give up yet mate! Get out there, drive, swim, whatever, you certainly won't meet anyone sat alone in your house, drinking vodka & moping!
Something that brings attention........
23 October 2005, 01:00 AM
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think billy joel, mick jagger etc have just a tad more money then i do-the question that springs to mind is this-so why debbie mcgee are you with the multi millionaire paul daniels?-get me drift...
and no dont have scooby no more-sold it few months ago as hardly ever used it
and no dont have scooby no more-sold it few months ago as hardly ever used it
Originally Posted by ScoobyAddict
Not necessarily true, many of the world's most beautiful women are or have been, married to some of the planet's ugliest men, (Christie Brinkley / Billy Joel, Jerry Hall / Mick Jagger, the list is endless!)
For the average woman though, an honest, dependable personality, along with a decent sense of humour is what counts at the end of the day & a good-looking ar$ehole will always be an ar$ehole!
Why stay in the house anyway OPM, you've still got your scooby, haven't you?
Blimey, don't give up yet mate! Get out there, drive, swim, whatever, you certainly won't meet anyone sat alone in your house, drinking vodka & moping!
For the average woman though, an honest, dependable personality, along with a decent sense of humour is what counts at the end of the day & a good-looking ar$ehole will always be an ar$ehole!
Why stay in the house anyway OPM, you've still got your scooby, haven't you?
Blimey, don't give up yet mate! Get out there, drive, swim, whatever, you certainly won't meet anyone sat alone in your house, drinking vodka & moping!
23 October 2005, 01:01 AM
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but u wore a unifrom lol
Originally Posted by fatherpierre
No idea.
I used to be an aresehole and did ok.......................LOL
I used to be an aresehole and did ok.......................LOL
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True.
Still do, but a different one.
The gym thing is the best tip I can give. I don't know your age but getting fit makes you feel 100% better about yourself and gives you confidence.
You have what you have, so make the best of it. With a bit of effort comes a load of extra confidence.
Still do, but a different one.
The gym thing is the best tip I can give. I don't know your age but getting fit makes you feel 100% better about yourself and gives you confidence.
You have what you have, so make the best of it. With a bit of effort comes a load of extra confidence.
23 October 2005, 01:05 AM
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Originally Posted by Triple X
But why are women mostly attracted to ar$eholes?!
Never works out, so they (usually) move onto a lesser ar$ehole eventually!
(Unless they're one of these poor sad cows with a personality type classed as 'doormat'!)
23 October 2005, 01:15 AM
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Originally Posted by shaggy1973
if I were single and had access to the net and needed to ask what to do next, then the advice I would be looking for would be to go here (not work safe 
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Fill your boots mate
)Fill your boots mate
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Originally Posted by shaggy1973
what you doing still here sign up!
The idea is for him to LEAVE the house & keyboard & GO OUT!
Besides, I think he wants a REAL person, not a fantasy one!
23 October 2005, 01:38 AM
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speaking from personnal experiance are we?....if so pm me lol
Originally Posted by shaggy1973
nothing fantasy about that website believe me!