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Old Oct 9, 2012 | 02:36 AM
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Since it's her area get her to show you around, or ask her whats happening or if there is somewhere she would like to go, shows her you value her opinion and are considerate, also has the possibility of making her feel more at ease in a familar place as well as taking the onus off you.

23, num num num, you dirty old dog.
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Old Oct 9, 2012 | 12:00 PM
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Still waiting for pics.......................
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Old Oct 9, 2012 | 12:21 PM
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Originally Posted by Gear Head
Yeah, be a gent and give her the choice!
They never want a choice-they just want to be told where they are being taken and they expect it to be a top evening without any particular input from them.

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Old Oct 9, 2012 | 12:57 PM
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Originally Posted by ditchmyster
Since it's her area get her to show you around, or ask her whats happening or if there is somewhere she would like to go, shows her you value her opinion and are considerate, also has the possibility of making her feel more at ease in a familar place as well as taking the onus off you.
No, no, no! Makes you look indecisive which is a big turn off!

Originally Posted by Leslie
They never want a choice-they just want to be told where they are being taken and they expect it to be a top evening without any particular input from them.

Les

Les is spot on here, he's been there and done it!
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Old Oct 9, 2012 | 03:34 PM
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Les knows
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Old Oct 9, 2012 | 06:02 PM
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Originally Posted by warrenm2
No, no, no! Makes you look indecisive which is a big turn off!

oh ye of little faith girls that have the gumption to go on a dating web site don't want a cave man they can find those down the local pub or club, they are looking for a gent and the fact she is interested in older men would support that.



Les is spot on here, he's been there and done it!
Yeah and look where it got him.
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Old Oct 9, 2012 | 06:13 PM
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Old Oct 9, 2012 | 06:50 PM
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Originally Posted by skoobidude
Most girls that age will probably appreciate just going to a local bar - assuming there is one busy enough in her area on a Thu... Saying that maybe best that you take her away from her usual habitat in case her mates come along for a nosey..
Not sure how age accounts for taste?
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Old Oct 9, 2012 | 06:55 PM
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I would ask her if she has any idea what she would like to do.

Go carting is a good idea, I know I would really enjoy that, and if she is an outdoor type, maybe some geo catching or similar? Take a (hip) flask and a picnic and see where you end up.

All the fresh air and walking is bound to be fun
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Old Oct 9, 2012 | 07:02 PM
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Hey,
Im married now near 3 years, with my wife just over 6 years........
I made a choice for our first date... I made a choice to see how much she likes me, or was she after me for money or what!!!!
I took her out with a group of friends of mine who worked in a strip club! We went to the strip club first and then we all went out to a night club!

To be honest she hated being in the strip club, and I dont blame her! But at least i knew she was actually interested enough in me for who i am!
Does that make sense??

As the voice of experience here's a bit of advice! 'Dont do what I did, you'll never hear the end of it. Find somewhere near by that's Interesting and out of the ordinary, and take her there"

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Old Oct 9, 2012 | 07:11 PM
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Not really
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Old Oct 9, 2012 | 07:18 PM
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[QUOTE=Hysteria1983;10821502]I would ask her if she has any idea what she would like to do.

I rest my case.
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Old Oct 9, 2012 | 07:23 PM
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If she is only 23 then the best date is an evening in mc D's car park in the back of a Saxo talking about iPhones.
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Old Oct 9, 2012 | 07:27 PM
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Originally Posted by RobsyUK
If she is only 23 then the best date is an evening in mc D's car park in the back of a Saxo talking about iPhones.
i think your mistaking 23 for 16

get her drunk and ride her like you stole her
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Old Oct 9, 2012 | 07:35 PM
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Personally, I think your best bet is a pub meal, so you can talk to each other. A film would mean you can't talk. Same with Go-Karting. A walk is out, because it will be dark at that time of night. Unless you go at the weekend.
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Old Oct 9, 2012 | 07:42 PM
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Skinny dipping?



EDIT: Scratch that - manhood 'issues'
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Old Oct 9, 2012 | 07:43 PM
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Originally Posted by joz8968
Skinny dipping?
wick dipping
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Old Oct 9, 2012 | 07:52 PM
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Originally Posted by tubbytommy
wick dipping
Attempt that and she'll perform a dick whipping!

See what I did there.
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Old Oct 9, 2012 | 07:53 PM
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Originally Posted by joz8968
Attempt that and she'll perform a dick whipping!

See what I did there.
you 've never met emmaroids, more of a riding than whipping
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Old Oct 9, 2012 | 09:14 PM
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Cheers again guys

As the time and the season is not the best (cant really go for a nice walk at 8.30 mid october LOL) My 3 choices for her to chose from, yeah,i`m gonna throw the ball in her court a bit (is that what they call it ha ha )

Theres a bowling alley near her so thats a go
Vince freeman is playing in a venue near her (a guy from BBC The voice)
a Pub meal

Or the really boring one if she isnt upto going out, back to mine for a movie etc etc

If its meant to be the date itself shouldnt matter, its the company,so i dont think what ive chosen to choose from isnt a bad list of things to do, so sod it LOL

cheers
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Old Oct 9, 2012 | 09:22 PM
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[quote=ditchmyster;10821564]
Originally Posted by Hysteria1983
I would ask her if she has any idea what she would like to do.

I rest my case.
Hahaha never ask a woman for dating advice, they have no idea. And the difference is a caveman has no respect for her, whereas showing leadership will do. You lead them in a way that they want to follow
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Old Oct 10, 2012 | 09:39 AM
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Women always give advice based on Hollywood films, not advice based on all how all the guys who f**k*d them and did not call again acted, in reality any man over the age of 30 should have worked it out by now.
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Old Oct 10, 2012 | 12:07 PM
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Originally Posted by The Rig
Vince freeman is playing in a venue near her (a guy from BBC The voice)


Well you can sack that option off for a start.
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