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Old Oct 8, 2012 | 01:14 PM
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Yeah, be a gent and give her the choice!
no choice, just preference on the order its in.
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Old Oct 8, 2012 | 01:40 PM
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Originally Posted by Graz
...when I started dating my now wife after meeting on the 'net it was usually eating out....


Blimey, you two didn't hang about -- one way of getting to know each other, I s'pose!


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Old Oct 8, 2012 | 01:49 PM
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Comedy clubs are a good shout, lots of time in between acts to chat, and if theyre rubbish theres some common ground to complain about!

Cinema, films, bands arent a great idea, quiet time means no chat time

Laughter makes a bard moist! fact! :-) Im no oil painting, but used to punch above my weight by getting them laughing (at you or with you, doesnt matter which). now marryed to a hotty too! :-)
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Old Oct 8, 2012 | 01:49 PM
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Bowlings a good shout

plus the subliminal act of you slamming your b4lls up that alley, time and time again

Might stir some thoughts deep within her

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Old Oct 8, 2012 | 01:52 PM
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Originally Posted by hodgy0_2
...Might stir some thoughts deep within her
...As would three fingers in the three holes.
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Old Oct 8, 2012 | 01:59 PM
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Originally Posted by hodgy0_2
Bowlings a good shout

plus the subliminal act of you slamming your ***** up that alley, time and time again

Might stir some thoughts deep within her
Originally Posted by joz8968
...As would three fingers in the three holes.


Someone suggested gokarting which could be good fun if she's into that kinda thing. I've been going out with my girlfriend for almost a year now, and because I live on a farm, I took her for a ride across the fields on our quadbike and then we switched the date went really well.

We also did rifle shooting together, so maybe that could be an idea? I know it's probably not your average thing, but it's interesting and something different.

I also did these above activities with my ex-partner and it went down well IMO, if the activities are a bit different, then they're going to be interested in you regardless. What about rafting/kyacking, or going for a nice bike ride through a forest/cycle route?

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Old Oct 8, 2012 | 02:01 PM
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Like warren said always leave room for a couple of different venues on the date, also only go bowling if you can bowl without looking like a pleb, otherwise perhaps a sport that you are good at. I took a girl to the driving range once she wore a mini skirt which was entertaining and my inappropriate teaching methods certainly helped to ramp up the sexual tension but I doubt that they were PGA approved.
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Old Oct 8, 2012 | 02:02 PM
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Originally Posted by joz8968
...As would three fingers in the three holes.
yes off course, the old "bowling ball" manoeuvre

even more reason

might take the wife bowling tonight actually
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Old Oct 8, 2012 | 02:15 PM
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Originally Posted by LSherratt
...and then we switched ...
Cross dressing?
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Old Oct 8, 2012 | 02:17 PM
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Originally Posted by hodgy0_2
...might take the wife bowling tonight actually
What, proper ten-pin bowling? Or the afore-mentioned euphemistic type?
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Old Oct 8, 2012 | 02:22 PM
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two in the pink,one in the stink..........
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Old Oct 8, 2012 | 02:24 PM
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Ha ha ha ha.

That phrase makes always makes me cry.
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Old Oct 8, 2012 | 03:07 PM
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threads like this always end up at the back door
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Old Oct 8, 2012 | 03:08 PM
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Do you have any foodie events in your area - tasting event, food fairs etc? That will press all the right buttons I reckon.

Never forget: you don't have to be a baker to put cream in a tart!
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Old Oct 8, 2012 | 04:53 PM
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Originally Posted by tubbytommy
two in the pink,one in the stink..........
It took me a while to figure out what you meant but once I had I couldn't help but laugh... not heard that one before.
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Old Oct 8, 2012 | 04:54 PM
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Originally Posted by LSherratt
It took me a while to figure out what you meant but once I had I couldn't help but laugh... not heard that one before.
its like holding a bowling ball
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Old Oct 8, 2012 | 05:02 PM
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take her for a meal, 3 - 6 courses non of this cheap crappy bar food with sticky tables. At the end let her offer to pay half but mention that your mum said a lady should never pay for dinner then when you kiss her good night hold her waist firmly and she will offer you in.. Then ruin her in the hall way but throw your baby gravy over her not in - babies are costly ...
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Old Oct 8, 2012 | 05:14 PM
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Casino and a meal could be pretty cool, you never know you could end up with your pockets full and your sack empty

Trip to the seaside if your not that far away, doss about in the arcades or something?

Anything interesting like circus or fun fair at any nearby towns? Generally try to find something thats fun and give you an excuse to laugh and joke. You'll get on really well regardless of how much of an airhead she might turn out to be???
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Old Oct 8, 2012 | 05:26 PM
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Originally Posted by tubbytommy
its like holding a bowling ball
If that was the case, wouldn't it be 2 in the stink, one in the pink?

I'll shutup...
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Old Oct 8, 2012 | 05:43 PM
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Originally Posted by LSherratt
If that was the case, wouldn't it be 2 in the stink, one in the pink?

I'll shutup...
depends which way she is facing
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Old Oct 8, 2012 | 06:15 PM
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When she turns up at your door, invite her in....... whilst handing her the hoover.
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Old Oct 8, 2012 | 06:19 PM
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Seriously, when you take her bowling, offer, "Let's go bowling; it'll make a change for you to stick your fingers in something other than yourself..."
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Old Oct 8, 2012 | 10:35 PM
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Ha ha LOL had a good chuckle reading the replies, cheers guys ;-)

All good suggestions but alot missed a key point i made in my original post, its going to be 8pm on a thursday Night, so alot of the suggestions wont work LOL

But plenty to think about and google for her area, that the other thing, i travel to her so dont know the local places around hers

cheers all
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Old Oct 8, 2012 | 10:42 PM
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Can I ask how old you both are? That may help us users help you.
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Old Oct 8, 2012 | 10:43 PM
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LOL, i`m 32 and she is 24
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Old Oct 8, 2012 | 10:47 PM
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24 .....

Defenatly require pics or a link to her profile on the dating site
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Old Oct 8, 2012 | 10:48 PM
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Ha ha yeah, give me 2 mins and i will post them up
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Old Oct 8, 2012 | 10:57 PM
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Originally Posted by The Rig
LOL, i`m 32 and she is 24
Dayyymn!!.... Good man!
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Old Oct 8, 2012 | 10:59 PM
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LOL,cheers, she`s still 23 but 24 next mth, so 24 sounds better than 23 haha

I have been on a few dates with a 22 yr old but that was more casual as i didnt really fancy her LOL and the age gap put me off, this one i do, so makes it more, stressful as you want to make it go smoothly, maybe i should pretend i dont like her, dates seem to go better that way ha ha

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Most girls that age will probably appreciate just going to a local bar - assuming there is one busy enough in her area on a Thu... Saying that maybe best that you take her away from her usual habitat in case her mates come along for a nosey..
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