Question 1,
Is it that i could buy a window closer relay from toad's alarm company and by using my existing key's remote control button ?

Question 2,
And I've got four button remote control type thing, And I'm wonder if is poss to have my door mirror to fold in while arming my car and to unfold while unarming the car alarm ?

1. yes

2. Yes, but I haven't a circuit diagram or a scoob with elec windows to tell you how to do it. You need some relays and wire it in to the central locking